the bossman
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I can feel the hurt all in this post. Who hurt you?
"30 no kids"
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Back in the day on sohh i remember sayin if a woman is 30+ with no kids, that means either her sex game is wack, her vagina is out of order, or she's a cold, soulless entity that simply doesn't want kids, which makes her worthless..well, i said that years ago and
..I still feel the same way
men sounding like females
guess that biological clock is ticking for u hoes
gwan and have that seed at 24
guess that biological clock is ticking for u hoes
gwan and have that seed at 24
Its 2015, people should live their life however the hell they want. No reason to shame those with or without kids for their decision because its doesn't affect you.
If @Juicy said she is never having kids then thats cool because its her decision. No need to go further with the questions or comments saying she's gonna be a cat lady or no man will never want to marry her because in the end its her life and she could do what she wants.
But this whole thing about pushing your opinion on how life should be lived in regards to education, career, marriage, and kids is just stupid.
What they fukk don't make you nut so don't concern yourself with it.
If @Juicy said she is never having kids then thats cool because its her decision. No need to go further with the questions or comments saying she's gonna be a cat lady or no man will never want to marry her because in the end its her life and she could do what she wants.
But this whole thing about pushing your opinion on how life should be lived in regards to education, career, marriage, and kids is just stupid.
What they fukk don't make you nut so don't concern yourself with it.
Those that are 30 with no kids, do y'all plan to have them eventually?
I didn't want to have kids young, but I didn't want to be an old parent either. Was kind of a catch 22, slipped up at 21 and got something beautiful out of it. I enjoy being active with her at the age she is now, 10, I can play all sports with her ride bikes etc...
I didn't want to have kids young, but I didn't want to be an old parent either. Was kind of a catch 22, slipped up at 21 and got something beautiful out of it. I enjoy being active with her at the age she is now, 10, I can play all sports with her ride bikes etc...
I can feel the hurt all in this post. Who hurt you?
nah brah...ive seen real life examples of this male and female I don't want any kids after 30...so in some of these folks position id just stay childless
I don't want any kids after 30...so in some of these folks position id just stay childless
I'm 32 now, and would probably rather not having another one. Open to it, but it ain't at all a necessity. So if I was in there position I'd stay childless as well, just wouldn't be thumping my chest over it.
Bless't
Living the dream
I hope to one day. I have a deep feeling that if I dont, I'll regret it the rest of my life. I know I CAN have them. Now I just have to find the right person to be a team with.
31, no kids and been married for 8 years.
Me and the wife threw the idea of having kids to the bushes and never turned back.
nikkas say we selfish.Meanwhile, we live for each other and do what the fukk we want while they're miserable as fukk, regretting that nut they took or busted.
Kids ain't for everybody. If you got kids and are happy about it that's cool. Just don't try and make nikkas feel like they missing out on something, because we're not. #TeamNoKids is cool over here. Trill talk, I hardly ever see cats with no kids going around telling nikkas to not have kids. It's usually the other way around on some misery needs company type shyt.
People should just respect each others decisions and K.I.M. but
Real talk, I deal with all types of people on a daily basis (work at a car dealership). 90% of time that I'm asked by older people if I have kids (I don't), their response is more often than not "good. keep it that way as long as you can." Most of them are well to do, intelligent, and they all tell me not to.
Let's just say I've been heeding their warnings 
.Problem is, finding a compatible mate that doesn't want kids. Damn near every woman my age is thinking about a kid either now or sometime soon.
Scotch Hall
All Star
I hate when I ask mothers how old their child is and they tell me he's 24 months, old. No hes 2 you dummies . They always gotta make shyt complicated
What would it sound like if I said Im 504 months old
I hate when I ask mothers how old their child is and they tell me he's 24 months, old. No hes 2 you dummies . They always gotta make shyt complicated
What would it sound like if I said Im 504 months old
I'm 433 months and 16 days old
Scotch Hall
All Star
I'm 433 months and 16 days old
Loud Still Coolin
Suppose be a IT cert like you coli nikkaz
lets just say i know some homies who went down for childsupport got 6 months and they baby momz still fukkkin out here 
Godless Socialist CEO
Superstar
I'm 27 and I have no kids......... To bad there are very few marriage worthy women left on the market. Either they have kids(NOPE), they're crazy as hell(NOPE), or they're not as attractive as I am(I'm not marrying anyone who doesn't match me in looks). O well
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It's funny that this thread was made: when I was back in Houston for Christmas, I went tailgating at the Texans/Ravens game with one of my friends; he got a hook up through one of this friends. So the two of us got to talking to a relative of his. She was Puerto Rican, I think, 35 years old. She has been with the same dude since high school and has three boys. She asked us what our situation was; we're both 30+ with no kids, and she looked at us like we were unicorns.It was unfathomable to her that there were two black males in their early 30s that were not attached and childless.
I'd like to think that I'm not an outlier in that regard, but I don't know
Did you show her your passport like :Chill1:
