"30 no kids"

[SnowflakesByTheOZ]

27 with no kids. Feels amazing

Just played some soccer and got some exercise now I'm about to enjoy my vacation by binge watching The Wire and reading and making beats

Just logged on facebook and saw 3 posts in a row from people that had new borns. Salute tot hem but that couldn't be me

 

[97Pac]

The older I get the less I want kids. But I've learned that most females 28+ want kids in the next two years. The last two chicks I was seeing acted all cool about the topic at first but the longer we were together the more they started pressing the topic of marriage and family. The last two females I talked to age 30 and 33 straight up told me they were looking to have a baby in the next year or two. Im sure they are wondering why I ghosted them, things were going great til they had to fukk it up. Two years is not enough time to know if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone.

Im finally at a position where early retirement is within reach, having kids would fukk all those dreams up.

 

[88m3]

No kids life

 

[Chrishaune]

The older I get the less I want kids. But I've learned that most females 28+ want kids in the next two years. The last two chicks I was seeing acted all cool about the topic at first but the longer we were together the more they started pressing the topic of marriage and family. The last two females I talked to age 30 and 33 straight up told me they were looking to have a baby in the next year or two. Im sure they are wondering why I ghosted them, things were going great til they had to fukk it up. Two years is not enough time to know if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone.

Im finally at a position where early retirement is within reach, having kids would fukk all those dreams up.

You want a young tenderoni don't you?

 

[BeeCityRoller]

I'm almost there myself. Like mentioned before, there's a lot to be said about the freedom of being ~30, in good shape/health, money decent, and untied.

There are times I can leave the house at 9am on the weekend thinking I'll just run the trail, work my side gig for a few, and be back by 2PM, but end up out until 8-11PM because that extra money was out there, festivities I was able to slide into last minute, not worrying about whose watching the kids or a woman breathing down my neck.

I'm not opposed to having kids in the future, I would actually want 3 or 4. I don't look down anyone my age who already has them, that's something to be proud of as long as you can make it work. Not in this current social climate for me thoughThe odds of being an every other weekend daddy paying child support because outside influences put a bug in wifeys ear are too high for me. I think the correction is already coming but I will hold out another 5-10 years while I keep moving up in wealth and career.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

I want one

Im 34

 

[97Pac]

You want a young tenderoni don't you?

The ones under 25 are usually problematic too. If you a young breh with you shyt together females will try and find a way to lock you down even the career women. My ex was 20 in college when I met her, she graduated at 21 and was talking about babies and shyt. She was ready to give up on grad school (and a 6 figure career) to be a wife and mother. I make decent money but Im no six-figure guy , she was trying to convince me that my check would be enough to support a family. Im so glad I got out of that situation. She finally went to grad school and I know in the end she will thank me.

I think its different for different people too. I grew up an only child and use to having what I want. Being in your early 30's with no kids, money in the bank, nice quiet house is truely GOAT.

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

This gonna become more common as time goes on

 

[TheKongoEmpire]

nah bro.. it's a blessing..

when you do it right and you see your little man looking fresher than you ever did..

you get to relive some of your childhood.

you start caring for yourself and eat better..dont drink soft drinks cuz you gotta set the examples..

when you did everything right, had fun, got a good job.. parenthood is the last step to happiness..


i guess if your broke than parenthood is

but i live life like your see the middle class d on TV...

house, cars, vacations, great neigborhood..

life is

went from the project to having projects

Children arent a blessing. It's a natural occurrence.You do't raise them right, those "blessings" will bring up the murder rate.

 

[Phitz]

The older I get the less I want kids. But I've learned that most females 28+ want kids in the next two years. The last two chicks I was seeing acted all cool about the topic at first but the longer we were together the more they started pressing the topic of marriage and family. The last two females I talked to age 30 and 33 straight up told me they were looking to have a baby in the next year or two. Im sure they are wondering why I ghosted them, things were going great til they had to fukk it up. Two years is not enough time to know if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone.

Im finally at a position where early retirement is within reach, having kids would fukk all those dreams up.

I totally understand and can relate. There's alot of women and some brehs on here who would fight you on that

 

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

Bein over 30 with no kids is the best feelin

 

[97Pac]

I totally understand and can relate. There's alot of women and some brehs on here who would fight you on that

People rushing into marriage is the reason the divorce rate is so high. Like how did you not know that person was dirty or bad with money before you married them. No cap I remember when my grandparents got married. Took my Granddad 40+ years to know if she was the right one.

 

[Youseenmywork]

a lot of people have kids before 30 and they're usually mistakes/accidents, so people are proud they made it to 30 without those problems.

Thread/marry(don't have the courts involved thoe ) before you carry should be the slogan

 

[mamba]

People rushing into marriage is the reason the divorce rate is so high. Like how did you not know that person was dirty or bad with money before you married them. No cap I remember when my grandparents got married. Took my Granddad 40+ years to know if she was the right one.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Deciding not to have children before you are ready to support them emotionally and financially is a positive thing...

Too bad our culture shows otherwise

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