30 + , single, no kids, debt free...

richaveli83

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32, I have a career, no children, have some debt from my stupid days as young man but nothing crazy, making $70,000 a year. I think I'm doing ok for myself but I do want more. I like my job but I don't love it and can't see myself doing it the rest of my life. I'm not like a lot of coli brehs because I actually want to get married and have children. The whole nuclear family thing but it's kind of difficult finding a good woman that I could see myself settling down with and having my seeds.

Sometimes I see my friends/family members and people in general having children and I be like why can't that be me :mjcry: but then I be like :blessed: I can do what I want and spend my money on whatever I want. Don't have to worry about diapers, child support, school supplies/clothes, etc. I'm going on a two week vacation in September and I think about all the fun i'll be having and not having to worry about if my kids are ok or whatever. I do want some kids though and sometimes I do feel some urgency.

The girl I'm dating right now is 22 but has a lot of growing up to do and is immature but she's a sweetheart. I don't see myself marrying her though. Right now we're just having fun I guess.
 
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