35 year old Black woman wonders why she and her desirable friends are still single.

[Voice of Reason]

 

[Buddy]

Yall are getting vague as hell with these threads.


Are brehs supppsed to and laugh at her misery or suspect that she's a tether shyttin on us? Either way, what happens next?

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Yall are getting vague as hell with these threads.


Are brehs supppsed to and laugh at her misery or suspect that she's a tether shyttin on us? Either way, what happens next?

Nothing. You clicked on the tiktok and helped her get motion. She'll use her view and follower counts to email brands so she can get paid as an influencer. This kind of thread is made daily if not every other day. A nobody speaking at a camera hoping enough people will click so they can quit their job and become full time socialites.

Every day on the internet is like standing in line at a gas station where most people there are trying to get a lottery ticket.

 

[froggle]

 

[Womb Raider]

Does she have a transactional mindset or does she desire a true partner? Is she capable of being a partner? Does she want marriage more than she wants to be a wife? I have many questions and no I didn’t watch.

 

[Illuminatos]

Desireable single mom

 

[Justise M]

I wonder how many men she's approached in person. Since she wants a relationship so bad and wants it to originate from personal interaction

 

[ItsPeople]

Too many failed relationships and too much deadend dating.

Too many sexual experiences with too many different partners.

Still on and off with our exs.

Too much social media has warped your perception of what love and a relationship is.

If you're single at 30 and 40+ , that means you're an absolute 100% failure in the dating game. You've been on dozens of dates and nothing has worked out for u. Chances are very slim you'll find someone to make it work with. You're to bitter and stuck in yours ways and your standards from your prime.

 

[Fillerguy]

Yall are getting vague as hell with these threads.


Are brehs supppsed to and laugh at her misery or suspect that she's a tether shyttin on us? Either way, what happens next?

I think this was supposed to be a bait n switch. She's complaining about how dating apps isn't fair, trustworthy and how are access to many people encourages ppl to have a "on to the next one" mentality when it comes to dating....basically most what thecoli complains about.

But no one will watch more than 4 seconds and clown her being uptight or they'll look through her profile for wench flags to complain about.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

This is like that Asian lady in San Francisco talking about her friend group all being single as well.

It’s rough out here for dating

 

[Buddy]

Nothing. You clicked on the tiktok and helped her get motion. She'll use her view and follower counts to email brands so she can get paid as an influencer. This kind of thread is made daily if not every other day. A nobody speaking at a camera hoping enough people will click so they can quit their job and become full time socialites.

Every day on the internet is like standing in line at a gas station where most people there are trying to get a lottery ticket.

I'm of the same belief but that's why its important to start asking the OPs. Cause something else HAS TO happen next, right?



...... right????

 

[Digital Shaman]

Because they all want something, but have no intention of putting in the effort or taking agency to achieve it.

 

[Oatmeal]

I just went out with a woman recently and I thought it went well, she said she had fun and appreciated the time, when I followed up and tried to set up another outing I got left on read

 

[Womb Raider]

I just went out with a woman recently and I thought it went well, she said she had fun and appreciated the time, when I followed up and tried to set up another outing I got left on read

I met a girl a week before Valentine’s Day then asked to come out that weekend, got hit with “who goes on a first date on valentines weekend?” These hoes weird AF

 

[TEH]

I like girly girls with feminine energy.

If you’re not that you minuswell have a beard and Tims - I’m not feeling you.

Having said that - no clicks.