35 year old Black woman wonders why she and her desirable friends are still single.

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a little humility would do so many posters some good

if she were really carrying her weight, she'd hang out on dying forums with closed registration pretending to be ahem six figures, six certs?

i see these threads over and over and its like.. who the fukk are yall to judge anybody lmao

god forbid a woman was being annoying on the internet, 30 page platinum thread (with a heaping side of some of the worst misogyny this side of 4çhån) incoming. im sure this will be a constructive thread!
 

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She got on a dating app...saw hundreds of men.... and not a single one of those men appealed to her?

:unimpressed:

Women who make these types of videos are really low key humble bragging to other women about being unattainable. ( she's not, but pretending is good for her ego)
 
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a good partner to them is a guy that is 6 foot and above, 6 pack, 100k a year, went to a good college, texts them good morning
sends them money for lunch EVERYDAY, drives a benz with a v8 or a hellcat, has tons of vacation time and will buy these vacations...
should i continue? :martin:

Aka any TLR breh

:manny:
 

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It is an epidemic


I know too many women with careers who will never have offspring and have convinced themselves that dogs are "fur babies".

She's also correct on social media being to blame. However, that's where my disconnect begins

Social media has allowed women who have chased away any legitimate prospects due to their behaviors and bad attitudes, to turn into relationship gurus

They all give each other absolutely horrible advice, and they double down on the ignorance thanks to their sissy boy lacheys who will do anything and say anything if it makes them one of the girls

Women who have not been in a loving relationship spanning at least a decade should not be giving advice on men

Gay men can not give advice on how to operate around straight men, they themselves are incapable of operating around straight men, what kind of twisted advice is a fakkit gonna give? The advice that's gonna keep the female single so the "gay" man can call her late night after drinking and grab some easy p*ssy

Now we living in a world where women say they'd rather be alone in a forest with a blood thirsty bear instead of a potential mate. Meanwhile, they have a baby daddy that kills people and their parties they demand to go to are full of sex offenders. I'm the threat cause I got a shopping cart full of groceries walking to my car in the grocery store parking lot

High value men tend not to advertise, trust me i know. If I meet u late night when I'm shining your gonna be just another hoe I fukked. If I meet u when I'm volunteering in my community picking up trash at 9am with a bucket and a picker, said lady just won the lotto. I've never had a woman be nice to me when I'm out volunteering unless she's volunteering too.


It's not time yet, but in a couple of years these young men who've been scorned are gonna be old enough to get involved with politics, and a discussion will be had


What is the point of pushing young women to go to college and get careers if the end result is them refusing to compromise on any standards and the majority of us end up 40 and single, with immigration being shoved to the front because the population is declining. We need future mothers, we should be having discussions on how many books u should read to a baby when it's still in the womb, instead the biggest topic in America is 50/50 and fur babies.

If women's liberation results in them being afraid of every man walking down the street, maybe they should stay inside where it's safe and let the men deal with the horrors outside. America should be ashamed of how it's women are developing the bodies of plumbers with the hearts of cowardly lions




But what do I know. I don't wear thousand dollar jeans or drive a 100,000 car, I own a house and I can't wear it, so let me shut my broke ass the fukk up
 

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Unless you have repulsive looks and zero social skills there is no reason for someone to be single if you are actively looking for a partner. The problem isn't the people but yourself. That is for male, female, and everything in between.
 

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I'm willing to bet she has no problem meeting decent men who are seriously interested in her initially. Then she mentions the kid, and unbeknownst to her, they immediately reduce her stock price dramatically. Once she does a few things that could be perceived as slights or annoying, the guys have a realization of "Wait, why I'm putting up with all of this from some baby mama" and they are out of there.

I hate when women post shyt like this. There are plenty of men outchea that would be in a committed relationship with her but I can already tell she wants a man that every women wants looks, height, money and status all rolled in one.

Yep. It's a rough position to be in for her too because she's definitely cute enough to capture the attention of those guys, and that's enough to keep her going back hoping to reel one in. From the way she described things in the first post, she's in a constant cycle of being bushed after all the facts about her are known
 

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This is like that Asian lady in San Francisco talking about her friend group all being single as well.

It’s rough out here for dating

I was about to bring that up. The problem in both cases is that people feel like they are entitled to have what they want. Being a smart, accomplished, well traveled, etc etc woman does not automatically make you desirable to men - or to the specific type of man they all want (6'4 white finance guy).

The other problem....single moms. The type of men these women want are NOT looking for single moms right now. Does that change later in life? Sure, if a guy gets divorced in his 40s. But most successful men in their 30s are not trying to raise someone else's child. They're trying to build their own family. The chick in the OP is a single mom...good luck. Something no one wants to talk about: when you do that as a black woman you kill your potential to get the white man a lot (not all!) of these perpetually-online women want. White dudes are NOT trying to raise a fully black kid lmao. Which means these chicks have to pick a black man. Sure a black man with kids is gonna be cool with it but....clearly these "highly educated/well traveled/accomplished" women are not looking for a regular black dude. And I don't blame them tbh. You should pursue people in your socioeconomic bracket and if the regular breh isn't in there...oh well. But like I said...being a single black mother KILLS your ability to attract the hyper successful men these chicks want. So yea...this chick is stuck. She either lowers her standards or becomes the 40yo woman who travels with her girlies and never gets married.
 

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I'm willing to bet she has no problem meeting decent men who are seriously interested in her initially. Then she mentions the kid, and unbeknownst to her, they immediately reduce her stock price dramatically. Once she does a few things that could be perceived as slights or annoying, the guys have a realization of "Wait, why I'm putting up with all of this from some baby mama" and they are out of there.



Yep. It's a rough position to be in for her too because she's definitely cute enough to capture the attention of those guys, and that's enough to keep her going back hoping to reel one in. From the way she described things in the first post, she's in a constant cycle of being bushed after all the facts about her are known

Her child isn’t the problem.

The problem is her standards for the man she now wants are way higher than the standards she had for her BD.

You can tell she makes it clear that she is looking for a CLEAN UP man which is the wrong approach.

That’s why hood chicks don’t have these issues. They don’t lead with “im looking for a CLEAN UP man” energy which is how they get SQUARE brehs to IMPREGNATE them.
 
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