35 year old Black woman wonders why she and her desirable friends are still single.

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Her child isn’t the problem.

The problem is her standards for the man she now wants are way higher than the standards she had for her BD.

You can tell she makes it clear that she is looking for a CLEAN UP man which is the wrong approach.

That’s why hood chicks don’t have these issues. They don’t lead with “im looking for a CLEAN UP man” energy which is how they get SQUARE brehs to IMPREGNATE them.

What do you mean by this? How does it happen? Square brehs is not impregnating hood chicks.

 

[beenz]

she'd rather complain on tiktok vs meet people.

 

[audemarzz]

Uh huh

 

[invalid]

she cute. i'd take one for the team if I was available.

 

[Doobie Doo]

That nikka in the middle is Zion Oladipo

 

[CBSkyline]

Her child isn’t the problem.

The problem is her standards for the man she now wants are way higher than the standards she had for her BD.

You can tell she makes it clear that she is looking for a CLEAN UP man which is the wrong approach.

That’s why hood chicks don’t have these issues. They don’t lead with “im looking for a CLEAN UP man” energy which is how they get SQUARE brehs to IMPREGNATE them.

If she was childless her standards being higher now than previously, while still scrutinized, wouldn't carry as heavy of a penalty as carrying the kid does. While I won't call the child a problem, a kid does deduct points in the water her style of woman want to swim in. I mean even in this thread you can see a subtle vibe shift once knowledge of a kid came into play.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

a good partner to them is a guy that is 6 foot and above, 6 pack, 100k a year, went to a good college, texts them good morning
sends them money for lunch EVERYDAY, drives a benz with a v8 or a hellcat, has tons of vacation time and will buy these vacations...
should i continue?

Basically


And all they got to do is show up with the kid…


Chick literally answered her own question. You’re a single mother with princess standards that expects the men she is interested in to want that. Someone will someday she just gonna have to accept him as he is


Its not impossible, but single dudes that have everything these chicks be chasing after, are not on that type of step-daddy time anymore. Unless he got kids of his own which should be right in her wheelhouse.

 

[beenz]

a good partner to them is a guy that is 6 foot and above, 6 pack, 100k a year, went to a good college, texts them good morning
sends them money for lunch EVERYDAY, drives a benz with a v8 or a hellcat, has tons of vacation time and will buy these vacations...
should i continue?

don't forget he pays all the bills and will accept her son as his own

 

[DapMeUp!]

No one is owed a relationship in life.

 

[MostReal]

Kevin Samuels was these brehettes forewarning, they didn't take heed to the reality of the facts he was spitting, they gonna suffer the consequences now.

 

[Chrishaune]

I just went out with a woman recently and I thought it went well, she said she had fun and appreciated the time, when I followed up and tried to set up another outing I got left on read

Lesson learned, don't trust what women say.
It's what they show you. They lie to get out of uncomfortable situations all the time.

 

[How Sway?]

a good partner to them is a guy that is 6 foot and above, 6 pack, 100k a year, went to a good college, texts them good morning
sends them money for lunch EVERYDAY, drives a benz with a v8 or a hellcat, has tons of vacation time and will buy these vacations...
should i continue?

6ft is even too short now. It's 6'4" and up.

Broads want you to look like wizard kelly these days

100k is not enough, that can't afford a "soft life" for them. 250k and UP

 

[TheAnointedOne]

single mother?

 

[In The Zone '98]

Need to be looking at men with kids also

Or put it on a young nikka, who don't know better. Like Draya

You got options. Talking into your phone ain't one of them

 

[King Harlem]

What she's really saying is that all the men she's interested in are messing with other women.