35 year old Black woman wonders why she and her desirable friends are still single.

[feelosofer]

How should I know? Sometimes it's best to reflect because many times the problem is within. Clout is a disease not a cure.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

This is gonna sound sexist but women making more money does nothing to progress or advance a society. That’s because they don’t share their money and since they’re hypergamous by nature the pool of men they will entertain becomes super thin.

All it does is create an army of older single women who won’t want to settle who will complain that men ain’t on their level.

Have you ever taken the time to wonder why more education makes men less desirable to women?

I just think it's funny how ya'll casually over look that and go straight into condoning the human rights of women being taken away.

But it never dawns on you that maybe... just maybe the fact that you want women's right reduced lays at the core of the undesirablity.

And just remember, while you're fantasizing about recreating the Handmaid's Tale, the same justification will be made on why it's okay to reduce your human rights.

It's crazy how you all forget the state of relatity and history when you see an opportunity where you think you might be able to use the oppression of others to your advantage.

As a childless women, I'd die before I'd allow myself to be trapped into a life of misery sharing a child with a person who wants me to be treated like a baby making sex slave.

 

[JamesJabdi]

Thats because her and her friends are not desirable.....when men think of a desirable woman its not a single mom who complains online.

How you 35 and still asking questions like this? The messed up thing is that she probably could get decent guy but she thinks he's below her

 

[Max Headroom]

Idk why women post videos about this on social media instead of asking men in their circle. Most of the comments are gonna be filled with women saying blaming men and gaslighting instead of any real advice anyway.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Y'all nikkas really hate women, damn, lol. Ol' girl beautiful and prolly got her own paper. Sometimes marriages, relationships, etc. just don't work out. nikkas in here doing victory laps, lol.

You should holla and let us know how it goes

 

[mvp_status]

Idk why women post videos about this on social media instead of asking men in their circle. Most of the comments are gonna be filled with women saying blaming men and gaslighting instead of any real advice anyway.

People who initiate these conversations are usually doing it for validation. Not because they truly are seeking solutions.

Men and Women.

 

[FreshFromATL]

You should holla and let us know how it goes

I'm married my nikka.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I'm married my nikka.

Even better, no real skin in the game then

 

[Canon]

Desireable single mom

There it goes

 

[cyndaquil]

I think this was supposed to be a bait n switch. She's complaining about how dating apps isn't fair, trustworthy and how are access to many people encourages ppl to have a "on to the next one" mentality when it comes to dating....basically most what thecoli complains about.

But no one will watch more than 4 seconds and clown her being uptight or they'll look through her profile for wench flags to complain about.

I watched. She complained about hinge saying she cant get off to some tidbits about a person and connect with surface level stuff and needs to meet in person to figure out someone's vibe...no shyt thats exactly why on hinge you're supposed to move off the app quickly and go on a date and talk to only a few people at a time. A lot of people dont know how to use dating apps effectively. Imagine talking to somebody on app for weeks at a time

 

[Canon]

winter is here

overseas women only

 

[cyndaquil]

a good partner to them is a guy that is 6 foot and above, 6 pack, 100k a year, went to a good college, texts them good morning
sends them money for lunch EVERYDAY, drives a benz with a v8 or a hellcat, has tons of vacation time and will buy these vacations...
should i continue?

Wait we gotta do all that too? When I was on the come up I was told them first 4 was enough

This hoeflation is ridiculous!

 

[Canon]

I watched. She complained about hinge saying she cant get off to some tidbits about a person and connect with surface level stuff and needs to meet in person to figure out someone's vibe...no shyt thats exactly why on hinge you're supposed to move off the app quickly and go on a date and talk to only a few people at a time. A lot of people dont know how to use dating apps effectively. Imagine talking to somebody on app for weeks at a time

I noticed women have made this much harder now as well. it use to be grab drinks after a few messages.

now they want to send one message a day/have five telephone calls/ and if you are lucky you get to meet them.

I aint doing all of that. these women are creating there own problems.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Breath probably stank

Breath like some thunder

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

My 50 year old white uber driver today was saying the same thing, but her whole thing was men ain't ish