35 year old Black woman wonders why she and her desirable friends are still single.

[BrentWoodSean38]

Any attractive woman that can’t find a good man, it’s her fault. Women do the choosing, men do the chasing. You keep choosing the wrong guy that says a lot about you

 

[General Mills]

They are side chick status and don’t even know it.

 

[lib123]

Had my first truly weird dating experience. I’m living in the DMV now after leaving the west coast. Met a girl on Hinge. 32, never married or engaged, no kids. But also admitted to never having been in a serious relationship outside of an off and on thing for three years with an older guy (first big red flag). Ended up seeing this girl for about a month. Things seemed to be progressing. Constantly talking about a future. Wanted me to attend her church with her. Was talking about us taking a trip this summer. All of a sudden I get a random text one evening saying she wasn’t “emotionally available” to give a “great guy” like me the time and attention I deserve . I just replied thanks for being honest () and told her to take care of herself. I say all that to say these women are lost out here. And I’ll keep it a buck, my last two relationships were with a German and a Persian girl. They didn’t play these kinds of games. I’m trying to be intentional with building a black family— but they don’t make it easy.

Unfortunately we know that means. She wasn't fully single as most women aren't on these dating apps. They’re either just getting out of a relationship within that month, got an ex trying to get back with them or in a non-committed situationship. Very rarely are women going to be "celibate" when you're meeting them they getting clapped up you just so happen to be next up.

Past a certain age (25 max) other groups of women don’t put as much weight on looks. Brehettes get caught up chasing the same small group of guys then wonder why they end up in situationships.