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:dead:at the gif
:dead:at your avi

nah but seriously ima need her booty butt cheeks mounted on my face. post-workout, no shower:steviej:
 

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btw the stevie j smiley is underrated:steviej:
if i wanted to put :steviej: +:whoa: how would i go about doing that? i dont know how to remix smileys:martin:
 
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Catch me in the safari zone
Aye I can't believe I ain't talk to that chick brehs. :damn:

She was standing right next to me at the stoplight and followed me for like 3 blocks and I ain't say shyt. :damn:

My thing is I don't want to randomly go up to a chick, I want to make eye contact first but I ain't make eye contact at all so I didn't even bother. :damn:

If I don't pull nothing tomorrow just ban me for a month. :snoop:
Maybe ask her what time is it? Then say something else, i can't say much because i have no experience as well... :yeshrug:
 
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Been reading this thread and decided to offer some tips that have helped me. First, you must desensitize yourself to rejection-my friends and I used to have a rule that if you said a girl was cute-you had to talk to her. If one of your boys pointed to a girl for you- you had to talk to her. After a while you lose the fear. That exercise is to get you and your friends into the right mindset.

Here is a rubric for what has worked for me( and allowed me to approach and get the number of my beautiful wife in her car when I didn't even have a drivers license). 3 Steps, keep it direct. After these steps continued convo is optional.

1) Introduction-"Hello my name is ___." She may or may not give hers yet. 2) Reason for speaking- I mostly said " I saw you walking and I thought you were very attractive." 3) Inquiry- " I was wondering if we could exchange numbers to get to know each other better." If she says she will give me her #, I always rejected that offer. I feel it gives her too much power over the relationship. I would say something like " sorry, I only do exchanges, have a nice day." and walk off, unless convo and vibe is going well, then you reset, but don't settle for less than an exchange.
 

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I'd be interested in hearing some ladies' take on the "give vs get number" debate. I've always thought a guy asking for a girl's number is standard, but I think giving her your number might be an underrated move. I think it depends on the girl, but a lot more modern girls are more...independent (if that's the right word) and I think would appreciate you giving her the option whether to initiate further contact or not. I know I've seen my girl friends and sisters give dudes fake numbers or get a ton of thirsty ass simp messages blowing up their phones. I can definitely see how some girls would be put off by having to be the ones to further initiate, but I think some girls might appreciate being given the breathing space of being able to choose.

I don't know which female posters would be good to answer this question though, so someone should tag them.
 
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Catch me in the safari zone
When I come down there we gonna go out and meet some Brazilian dimes together :myman:
Yup we gon see whats up, i was supposed to be in Salvador right now but my former job still owe me some money, so i basically have to wait for them. smh
There's way too many cacs where i'm leaving right now :aicmon: i don't really wanna approach these white hoes.
 

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I always got an excuse to not talk to a chick.

"Oh she's on her way to class"
"She's too far away"
"Her friend is with her"
"She probably has a boyfriend"
"There's too many people around"

I just can't get out the idgaf mode. :snoop:I just don't know how to start a conversation, I feel like I'm gonna fukk up and say some dumb shyt or just choke. :mjcry:

I remember them days. :mjcry:

No lie, the 1st time i gathered the courage to step to a random female and got rejected was one of the proudest moments of my life. I PROMISE that you'll feel the same way whether you get the number or get rejected. There's so many chicks waiting for a guy to simply come over and say "hi". After you do it once, itll get easier afterwards. Gotta get that 1st time out the way tho.
 
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