PhonZhi
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Movies is the worst thing u can on a 1st date imo. You're not COMMUNICATING or building attraction
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Movies is the worst thing u can on a 1st date imo. You're not COMMUNICATING or building attraction
Kenny West
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I'm in here giving out hella daps.
Welcome to thecoli.comcan't let a young nikka have his moment
FrankyFourFingers
Raised in Ruins
We aint walkin no beach, imma bring a bottle of whiskey an we gon talk about metaphysics and game of thrones
VFib
All Star
We aint walkin no beach, imma bring a bottle of whiskey an we gon talk about metaphysics and game of thrones
We can do that somewhere else. I'm not sitting in sand to listen to you talk about a pornographic show. We are walking on the beach or we aren't going there at all.
***I'm willing to compromise if you buy me a pretzel.
Just a tip to help guys out, if you're unsure of what to say, always go for lighthearted humor or sarcasm.
No humble brag but I've been approaching women for years without butterflies since I was 15 because breaking the ice is truly the easiest part for me due to years or reaffirmation and success.
You naturally build confidence. I have a gf but today I was at the CVS near campus and I saw the girl at the counter.
I didn't see her when I came in but I saw her peeking at me while I was in aisle picking up Nyquil.
She was pretty as all hell.
Long hair down her back. Petetite. About 5'2. Full lips.
Just a pretty girl. I'd never seen her there before so as she was ringing me up, I waited for her to attempt to tear my receipt and hand it to me.
Told her she moved slower than the other employees I was accustomed to.
She grinned from ear to ear and turned beet red and told me she was actually a new hire.
I told her I didn't think she'd be there too long.
Since there was no one behind me, we had a short conversation for about two minutes.
I got her number for the hell of it but didn't save it to my phone for obvious reasons.
It's not really hard breaking ice once you get used to it and playful humor is easily the most efficient way, imo.
Helps to be quick witted but if you make her laugh with something simple, you're two-fourths of the way in there.
No humble brag but I've been approaching women for years without butterflies since I was 15 because breaking the ice is truly the easiest part for me due to years or reaffirmation and success.
You naturally build confidence. I have a gf but today I was at the CVS near campus and I saw the girl at the counter.
I didn't see her when I came in but I saw her peeking at me while I was in aisle picking up Nyquil.
She was pretty as all hell.
Long hair down her back. Petetite. About 5'2. Full lips.
Just a pretty girl. I'd never seen her there before so as she was ringing me up, I waited for her to attempt to tear my receipt and hand it to me.
Told her she moved slower than the other employees I was accustomed to.
She grinned from ear to ear and turned beet red and told me she was actually a new hire.
I told her I didn't think she'd be there too long.
Since there was no one behind me, we had a short conversation for about two minutes.
I got her number for the hell of it but didn't save it to my phone for obvious reasons.
It's not really hard breaking ice once you get used to it and playful humor is easily the most efficient way, imo.
Helps to be quick witted but if you make her laugh with something simple, you're two-fourths of the way in there.
FrankyFourFingers
Raised in Ruins
We can do that somewhere else. I'm not sitting in sand to listen to you talk about a pornographic show. We are walking on the beach or we aren't going there at all.
***I'm willing to compromise if you buy me a pretzel.
Art Barr
INVADING SOHH CHAMPION
Aye I can't believe I ain't talk to that chick brehs.
She was standing right next to me at the stoplight and followed me for like 3 blocks and I ain't say shyt.
My thing is I don't want to randomly go up to a chick, I want to make eye contact first but I ain't make eye contact at all so I didn't even bother.
If I don't pull nothing tomorrow just ban me for a month.
I am glad you are this hard on yourself.
Art Barr
dennis roadman
nuclear war in my bag
Sane
All Star
We aint walkin no beach, imma bring a bottle of whiskey an we gon talk about metaphysics and game of thrones
ZoeGod
I’m from Brooklyn a place where stars are born.
Word? That is crazy.
That sounded kina weird. He finally asked you out after yall got to know each other?VFib
All Star
Word? That is crazy.
I was very quiet when we first met, so I didn't offer more than the answer to his questions at first. (I had lost a close friend of mine a week before and was still taking it very hard.) I wasn't mean, I was always polite, just not looking for new friends. I also wasn't even attracted to him. He was nice and always upbeat and funny so I did like being around him. When I suspected that he liked me, I started speaking a little more and paying more attention to his actions.
He asked me for my number to study together over the phone and we took it from there. It was obvious that we both liked other at that point so everything was natural.
ETA: Looking back, I don't think he ever asked me out as in "what are you doing this Friday?" It was more "This Friday, I am going to take you...." The comfort level was there since we were around each other almost every day and spoke a lot in class, so I didn't protest. Again, I liked being around him.
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Im gonna text her tomorrow
dennis roadman
nuclear war in my bag
creh im gonna speak to you like im your boss
no
do not bring back these middling steps of a plan
you want results
not textsalso i hope you didnt coli jinx yourself
creh im gonna speak to you like im your boss
no
do not bring back these middling steps of a plan
you want results
also i hope you didnt coli jinx yourself
dennis roadman
nuclear war in my bag
i think i unjinxed the jinx by posting that, you should be good
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