40 Dating a 21 Year Old

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Why would it be toxic? She’s several years past the age of consent and not a teenager or a child.

Unless you mean toxic for you. In which case, I’m gonna say...ummm yeah lol that might be true. Her priorities might be completely different at that age. Then again I know some younger people who are more mature than a lot of older people. Depends on who she is.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Is it toxic for a man in my position to entertain this? Have any of you ladies done this or currently doing this?

no. And don’t feel bad about it. Try dating a 40-something year old bytch and see how long you can ride it out. Just because you get “old” doesn’t mean your tastes have to age right along with it. If the 21 year old chick is a cool head, cooperative and has shyt going for herself then do it.

Also, I would imagine 21 year old titties look/feel better than 40 year old t*ts. Sometimes you just like what you like

 

[MaxPain]

Lol that’s a very small gap, that’s perfect for a relationship without anyone bytching.

Sidepiece is 20 though.

she thinks Im her boyfriend too, between me & you.

My boy’s dad is a road runner. Man is 50 something and just had a kid with a 29 y old.

all these hoes the same I swear.

 

[MJ Truth]

You lost for asking permission in the first place

Exactly. Do what you want in life and don't look to no damn Coli for validation.

 

[NinoBrown]

Play on pleighboy....nothing wrong at all with this age gap...it isn't like 65 and 22....live your life....

 

[Balla]

Sidepiece is 20 though.

she thinks Im her boyfriend too, between me & you.

My boy’s dad is a road runner. Man is 50 something and just had a kid with a 29 y old.

all these hoes the same I swear.

They 4sho are the same.

The funny thing is.... 50 and 29 doesn’t sound like a big age gap to me lmao.

I hear that and it sounds normal.

 

[Barnett114]

Time isnt real

Today is the shadow of tomorrow
Today is the present future of yesterday

Yesterday is the shadow of today

 

[TAYLONDO SAMSWORTHY]

Today is the shadow of tomorrow
Today is the present future of yesterday

Yesterday is the shadow of today

Beautiful

 

[CrimsonTider]

They 4sho are the same.

The funny thing is.... 50 and 29 doesn’t sound like a big age gap to me lmao.

I hear that and it sounds normal.

 

[Sccit]

THATS A FAT COME UP OP

 

[JT-Money]

it doesn’t matter how mature she is she will never have anything in common with someone 20 years older than her

If she's fine and has a nice body that's more than enough.

 

[MaxPain]

THATS A FAT COME UP OP

Back to The Booth

OUT

Now.

Hanukah is over.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Is it toxic for a man in my position to entertain this? Have any of you ladies done this or currently doing this?

All of my exes were my age or younger. I never really liked older men. Tried it once when I was in undergrad thinking older dudes would be more established and mature.
That isn’t always the case. He was in his late thirties and I was 20. To be honest, its not the age difference. It’s the lifestyle difference, the priorities and disposition.

At 20, I wanted to explore the world, do tons of shyt, see everything. At 38 he had been divorced, three kids, was really, really pessimistic and kinda a drag to be around.
You don’t want to be with someone who will bring you down.

Keep in mind I’ve seen the reverse happen too where older dudes will legit have their shyt together but the younger chick has kids, is toxic and just a drag.

It’s less about age and more about two people being in the same space and having similar mentality.

 

[Cynic]

Is it toxic for a man in my position to entertain this? Have any of you ladies done this or currently doing this?

Only in the Western world.
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[Edub]

Is it toxic for a man in my position to entertain this? Have any of you ladies done this or currently doing this?

I’m rockin wit a 19 yo....I won’t go into my age, but there’s a definite gap....but we rock, I can’t tell the difference honestly. She from the block tho so her mental is a Lil more mature......that does make a diff. But chicks in the late 20’s and 30’s be goofy sometimes too.....if you happy stay that way....


Plus she got plenty of vitality to raise up a child.....if it comes to that