@GhostMan
I'm gonna keep it 1000% with you and everyone who is considering dating a younger woman.
If you're serious about dating, getting married and settling down, then you should entertain it. It's next to impossible for single childless black men beyond the age of 35 to find attractive, childless, mature, not bitter and willing to help build.... so groom a younger chick. Make this a 2-3 year project; the first year for dating, then year two for the engagement, lastly, married in or before year three. Explain to the lady that you want to get married, but overall, it's her decision as to if she wants to give up her youth (the partying, drinking, etc) for marriage. In the dating phase, you need to monitor:
- Her maturity; does it increase, is it consistent or does it decline?
- If she has education, career or financial goals, is she on her way or has she achieved those goals?
- Does she get the wandering eye? Hss she lied to you before? Is she playing games with you?
Take her on cost efficient dates for your budget/income and don't pay any bills or give her money regardless of the reason. That's not your responsibility.... yet.
If all this is good... PUT A RING ON IT!!!! If you're handling business like you should and she has the proper maturity, then she's going to say yes anyways! She's dumb AF if she's turns you down, which does happen. Also, fukk what anyone else has to say except her parent/guardian!
Now if this is just p*ssy, then walk away bruh! Don't fukk up another black man's chance to have a childless, disease-free, non-bitter black woman! What these dumb muthafukkas don't realize is that when you do shyt like this, you fukk up your reputation which makes it harder to get both black women and non-black women alike.
