5 star thread. OP is so right, my opinion of this forum really went down after I started noticing how people prioritize sex over handling business. Females and feminine ass nikkas run popular BA social dialogue so this is why these feminine values persist even though it's slowed the advancement of black people to a crawl in favor of bytching and bickering.
Truthfully all this pro black family shyt is a facade to give people fake moral high ground and the excuse to gossip about others. There I said it. It's just more of the Black american's feminine value system rearing it's head, nikkas wanna seem justified for pocket watching and gossiping about other people's sex lives. People treat being pro black like some social club or fraternity. They want to be able to reject and exclude others for whatever reason but don't want to be a part of the actual work themselves. It's like if you were running a club and your entire staff wants to be the bouncer with the guestlist instead of their actual position and the entire club suffers as a result yet those people all still wanna get paid.
But that doesn't matter as long as you get to be the one calling nikkas c00ns right? If the black community is in desperate need of people willing to invest their time and money over it, why push people away over shyt that doesn't concern you? You got nikkas with single babymommas puffing out their chest telling mfs willing to invest themselves that they can't be pro black.
These ppl's true priorty isn't pro-blackness, it's their own desire for self gratification dressing up in a dashiki. Lonely bitter females put a scholarly amount of effort into researching and bytching about who rich black men are dating to bring some racial angle to legitimize their own lack of companionship. "I'm not single because of my own flaws it's cause these nikkas hate darkskin women and luv these white girls." stop it. These women end up conflating fulfillment of their own desires/insecurities with black advancement. These are female's priorities, not considering the big picture. And on the other side of the coin, undersexed men #onhere are way more engaged in constantly discussing "bedwenches" than they are with advancement for the sake of actual "black queens". But that just speaks to their own sexual frustrations and anger seeing white dudes getting p*ssy off the color of their skin. nikkas #onhere like to delude themselves into thinking chastising interracial daters is black advancement. Ignoring the big picture to dive into their emotional hangups
Black people have been fukkin black people since the beginning of time. Black americans have always married within their race. If a black wife was all it took then there wouldn't be a need for black economy, we'd have it.
Also YOU ARE NOT DOING ANYTHING TOWARD THE ADVANCEMENT OF BLACK PPL BY HAVING A BLACK WIFE AND KIDS. TAKING CARE OF YOUR WIFE AND KIDS IS NOT PRO BLACK IT'S BEING A fukkIN MAN. I can't stress this enough. If you make millions for your black wife and kid, that's swell and all but that's not pro black. Any man can take care of his family, holding down your community is a whole different beast.
Just think, under the current setup as long as I'm fukking black p*ssy I don't have to spend a dime on black people or 1 second of my time helping them and still would be considered pro black.
This is dumb. You're not observing their moves and paths toward success. you're judging dating habits.....Dating habits. The priority is all off here, you're missing the forest for the trees.
You don't know these men to really know why they chose their partners. Men aren't getting married for the sake of race they marry based on the woman the see potential in. I see rich white dudes in my professional life with asian trophy wives all the time, the prince of england is with a black woman. dudes get with women initially because they're attracted to them, PERIOD. Race factors into that attraction then so be it. Nobody is marrying for the sake of their racial purity and melanin content 3 generations from now or whatever goofy shyt internet nikkas be talking about.
American culture is anti-marriage possibly by design and modern marriage is as unsafe an investment as gambling stocks. shyt is a coinflip at this point. Relationships end, people cheat, people break up or some people can't find someone at all. Most black kids are not being born within a marriage.
Tons of volatile factors to be investing in an image when you could be taking actionable steps toward improving the quality of life for black folk outside of just your family for real, RIGHT NOW. Whether your single, married black or dating ir. Heavy marriage investment would require a cultural overhaul yet there's more you can do RIGHT NOW with group economics than waiting for a spouse. But I guess sitting on your ass talking shyt while claiming a black spouse in the future is better for black people than creating jobs and wealth. (not you personally)
Because they don't have/tolerate the females of their group (only one's who would care) policing their dating habits. Indians date out, white ppl date out, Asians date out, latinos date out. However no one denies them their intent to help their people based on their mate choice. Maybe other races understand who an individual chooses to marry is their business and chooses to engage in more productive dialog
Ask yourself how you can believe in a "white supremacy" that is controlling the world yet is letting white people date who they want unchecked.
its like don't you want black men to actually have our own black economic base, be bosses instead of the white man's worker bees, and employ our own people? What every other group of men are doing? Guss not
I did my part"
Rep incoming
for the rest of their lives whenever yall cry about white ppl. Your wife's skin color contributes NOTHING to black economics.
the dikk police on this forum is 
