4th Grader Commits Suicide After Bullies Targeted Him For 'COMING OUT' As 'Gay'.

[Field Marshall Bradley]

What the fukk is your point? Is it ever too young to learn self-discipline and self-defense? 9 is when I started myself.

What self defense were you in at 9, and I’m not talking about that strip mall judo either... a lot of nikkas still wearing pajamas with the feet at 9 and y’all in here talking about self defense classes....

 

[ndthentherewasx]

So the mother failed to warn or mention what could come from his coming out to a classroom full of 9yr olds?


Great job mom.

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

Correlating sexual abuse and pedophilia isn’t a good look breh

Trolls deep in the red giving advice on how to post now?

Go troll elsewhere nikka.

 

[TheDarkCloud]

As expected, the 9 year old is blamed more for being gay than the bully or whoever the bully learned the stuff from


Not one person mentioned how the school is or should be handling this. Y’all mfs boy



Rip to the young man. I hope his family pull through the best they can in this situation.

Hope this isn’t a trend.

Not one person in here is blaming the 9 year old. His mother should have taught him thick skin.

This isn’t an isolated incident. This shyt happens all the time. We know bullies are little a$$holes that are enabled because the school doesn’t do shyt.

It’s up the parent to teach their kids how to handle the shyt themselves. The first time little breh hinted at that shyt, he should have been signed up for a self defense class, or something. She didn’t warn him that he was going to get to ridiculed and he wasn’t expecting it. Parents gotta stop acting like everything is peaches and cream. This wouldn’t have happened if he was warned the type of shyt he was in for. His mother failed him acting like this joint a fairy tale and all will be well.

 

[Professor Emeritus]

But at 9, did you know if you liked girls?

I don't know about the dressing up in girl clothes, but I think it's reasonable that a 9 year old could know who he/she likes romantically.

At that age you're already aware of sexuality, you've seen romantic/sexual pairings in movies, games etc and you already peeped that there are kids in the class who are a little "different". I don't know why some of you are playing dumb like you grew up Mormon or some shyt.

I don't think i even knew how my dikk worked when i was 8, let alone want to be a homo and fukk other boys. I had girlfriends but didn't even really knew what that meant either. I just remember lots of G.I. Joes, Ninja Turtles and climbing trees and playing football etc.etc.

This kids parents royally fukked up.

At 9 did you have crushes on boys or girls?

The article said he wanted to dress feminine...

At 9 years old I wanted to be a power ranger, or superman,or a badass wrestler....this kid prolly pictured himself being the damsel who got saved by the knight or some shyt.

I was crushing on chicks at that age and damn sure wanted my first kiss to be with a girl.

I'm with the fellas saying that you don't know these things for real at that age.

Yeah, we were all crushing on girls, I remember being 6 years old and there was a girl I wanted to kiss. But I didn't have a "reason" to want to kiss her, there were no hormones like that flowing through my blood, it was just that I always heard about boys kissing girls and saw it in media and knew that was something to do. I knew the difference between a pretty face and an ugly face but other than that I didn't even know what part of a girl I should be attracted to, I didn't even know what sex was.

I remember a few years ago my friends 3-year-old daughter said she wanted to marry her 4-year-old sister when she grew up. She didn't know what marriage was, she just knew married people lived together and her sister was her best friend so she wanted to live with her. This little 9-year-old breh probably just had a close friend who he felt some sort of deep friendship with and interpreted it all crazy with the current culture.

How is a 9-year-old who still years away from puberty going to be having such well-developed sexual feelings that he knows his sexuality like that? You gotta have heavy exposure to that culture to even know what that would look like, much less understand exactly what your own feelings are and then understand that you're supposed to "come out" to your classmates.

Speaking of that, what is the point of "coming out" anyway? Was he planning on having sex with one of the other 4th-graders in the class? No? Then why come out?

There are all sorts of problems here. His mama should have just told him, "That's a grown up subject and you're still growing up, we'll wait and see how you feel when you get older. There's no need to advertise your sexuality now." That should be the advice to EVERY 9-year-old regardless of their sexual feelings.


It's really horrible what happened. It's gotta be just awful for the family. But I don't know why they're trying to force little kids to deal with things that they're not even equipped to deal with yet .

 

[Eclipser]

Because he was born that way

If this is the case, how do you explain the phenomenon of twins where one is gay and the other isn't? They have the exact same genetic information, so having one straight twin and one gay twin should not be possible, according to you. This suggests that while the twins have the genetic propensity towards being gay, nurture/upbringing/environment must play some role. One of the reasons gay people claim that they are born gay is because it is politically expedient to do so. If you're born gay and it's something that can't be changed, it puts being gay in the same class as race, gender, and ethnicity, and provides the same government protection as other protected groups.

 

[Dont@Me]

What self defense were you in at 9, and I’m not talking about that strip mall judo either... a lot of nikkas still wearing pajamas with the feet at 9 and y’all in here talking about self defense classes....

Yes, it was strip mall karate, but it boosted my self esteem and also got my foot in the door for other self defense training as I got older.

You never answered my question.

What's wrong with learning self defense at 9? You understand there are kids that can box at 6 years old nowadays right? Just because you didn't, doesn't mean everyone else can't

 

[Gold]

I didn’t actually mean fukking but attraction. Kids tend know there sexuality as young as 5.


I will say in girls we’re getting fingered in class in elementary and other things. Soo ya..... had early lessons

Then call me late.

I wasn't trying to finger girls in elementary, i probably would have thought the sight of a vagina was disgusting



But this thread isn't about me. I was raised differently but my experience is anecdotal. RIP to the young kid, i'm just sad that a child (yes, a child) feels the need to take his own life.

I'm probably someone who would rather kids grew up slower, not quicker.

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

4th grade is kinda young, but at my elementary school, there was this kid who was very effeminate and we all thought he was gay. Turns out he later came out as gay in high school. So, I think some people do know that they're gay in 4th grade

We could tell this kid was gay by the way he ran in elementary school. Came out in high school.

Maybe it's easier for some to spot others than for some to accept it for themselves. Idk if that makes sense

 

[poundedyam]

A 4th grader knows nothing about his sexuality. Dude wasn't even in puberty.

Probably got brainwashed by his parents. Sad story. RIP to the lil breh.

100 percent forced by his single mom

 

[poundedyam]

Seems like he was interested more in long then he was in division.

How you know it was long breh ?

 

[DUCKED_OFF]

I don't understand why gay people need to " come out" and tell people they're gay.

If you don't come around other boys with that gay shyt then nobody gives af

These parents that have low self esteem, no self love and the ones who never defended themselves end up raising kids like this

Most of this is on his mom

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

What's wrong with learning self defense at 9? You understand there are kids that can box at 6 years old nowadays right? Just because you didn't, doesn't mean everyone else can't

We used to mollywhop the shyt out of you chumps back in the day....

Ain’t. I such thing as a self defense class at 9, cause you’re not actively teaching them to hurt someone... and boxing at 6 is rare as fukk... extremely rare nowadays.... this ain’t the 70s where there were boxing gyms and trainers at the rec

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

I ain’t like boys or girls at that age

Why do kids be thinking about suicide at 9? That’s crazy

 

[richaveli83]

RIP to the kid. Suicide is never a good option, especially at such a young age.