5-month-old Ameira Reynolds, skull smashed by her mother's live in boyfriend of 3 months, Glenn McIntosh, 32.

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Crazy how being lonely forces people to make really bad choices in dating.

Leaving a random bum around your newborn …why?!? Why?!?

Bum ass nikka man hope for nothing but pain and suffering for the rest of his life

Kill that nikka. And why would leave an infant around a man you've known 3 months? Dumb bytch

The insecure goofies ready to blame the woman with the baby instead of the piece of shyt that did it. Just dusty energy all around. @Jaylen Tatum, you really need to shut the fukk up. You sound like the type to do that shyt than blame the mother for leaving the child around you. Told on yourself
 

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Soooo the Coli is full of members dating people who three months into knowing their partner they weren't sure whether or not their partner might smash their infant's skull in if they left their partner alone with the baby for an hour? :what:

I'm trying to picture in my mind how y'all relationship was at 2 months and three weeks. Y'all were coming up with excuses like "Hey babe, thank you for the offer of staying with the baby for an hour so I can make my appointment at the doctor's office but you know what, I just realized the appointment has been cancelled so don't worry about it. (phew...I dodged that one...crazy mofo was probably trying to kill my son but I outwitted him. I'm still gonna sleep with the likely psychopath tonight and keep dating the person but hey, at least I made the right parenting decision tonight!)"
I'm confused on what this post is trying to say.

I'm not moving in with any woman within 3 months of dating. Let alone a woman with kids. Let alone a woman who just had a kid that isn't mine.

Any man willing to do that is a bum ass and a walking red flag.
 

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I mean realistically what could she have done if he just faked being a decent person and had no prior history of this level of violence? You always run a risk when meeting someone new who you choose to trust. A relationship without some level of trust that someone will not murder your child in cowardly and unhinged fashion sounds kinda strange.
I think the point is you don’t take chances with ppl you barely know.

You have ppl who date who aren’t comfortable letting someone in their home before 3 months of dating, who aren’t comfortable introducing/meeting the fam before months of dating, who aren’t comfortable going on vacay before months of dating, but someone can MOVE A MAN INTO HER HOME, WITH CHILDREN after 3 months of dating?

Where in the concern for the children?
The critical thinking?
You got kids out here being molested by adults they have known for their entire life and you somehow already trust that this man you’ve known for 3 months around your kids?

A man your kids have most likely known for less than 3 months?

What kind of man moves like that? Moves in with a woman and her kids? Within months at that.



Man. Kids growing up in hell out here if we have parents making these types of decisions
 

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I think the point is you don’t take chances with ppl you barely know.

You have ppl who date who aren’t comfortable letting someone in their home before 3 months of dating, who aren’t comfortable introducing/meeting the fam before months of dating, who aren’t comfortable going on vacay before months of dating, but someone can MOVE A MAN INTO HER HOME, WITH CHILDREN after 3 months of dating?

Where in the concern for the children?
The critical thinking?
You got kids out here being molested by adults they have known for their entire life and you somehow already trust that this man you’ve known for 3 months around your kids?

A man your kids have most likely known for less than 3 months?

What kind of man moves like that? Moves in with a woman and her kids? Within months at that.



Man. Kids growing up in hell out here if we have parents making these types of decisions
This kind of makes my point. If 3 months isn't long enough, then how long is long enough and why? How do people measure this sort of thing? People are quick to blame this mother but there's probably thousands of times where people introduce their children this early and everything is fine. There's no planning against crazy/evil people.
 

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I'm confused on what this post is trying to say.

I'm not moving in with any woman within 3 months of dating. Let alone a woman with kids. Let alone a woman who just had a kid that isn't mine.

Any man willing to do that is a bum ass and a walking red flag.
EXACTLY!


I’m trying to understand how one can give birth and start dating a different man 2 months later.

This isn’t on some internalized misogyny shyt, but like quite literally how do you have a newborn to tend to and you dealing with a strange man 2 months later? Physically and mentally how do you do that when the baby needs your attention and care?
And 3 months later he is in your home?

And as a woman with kids you open your house to provide shelter for a grown ass man?

This don’t make any sense at all.

WILD WILD WILD
 

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Where’s the whole story? Did the baby fall by accident or did he intentional y hurt the baby physically? Wtf happened?

Men are not natural caretakers so I don’t understand why would she leave the baby..than again Al lot of the females now days are not caretakers either, they rather run the streets than raise thier kids..Motherhood has been on the decline especially in the black community unfortunately
 

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This kind of makes my point. If 3 months isn't long enough, then how long is long enough and why? How do people measure this sort of thing? People are quick to blame this mother but there's probably thousands of times where people introduce their children this early and everything is fine. There's no planning against crazy/evil people.
Because the point is there is a difference between dealing with a predator in the family that no one knew of, and INVITING ONE IN YOUR HOME AFTER 3 MONTHS.


If your blood relative who was born into your family and is someone you have known for years does something inappropriate— it’s horrible and must be dealt with. Yes.


However if your mom meets a new man and brings him in the house MONTH THREE she’s a bird because the point is PEOPLE WEAR MASKS AND HIDE THEIR INTENTIONS. That’s why it’s called VETTING a person.

It’s not about waiting to catch someone literally harming your child. It’s about looking out for weird personality traits and ticks. Introducing this man to family and friends and watching how he interacts with everyone over an extended period of time.
Letting other men get a sense of who he is and letting them see how he behaves around kids.

You meeting his family and friends and seeing how he is around his ppl. What type of ppl is he around? Who raised him? How are their children being raised? How do they behave? These are all indications. They don’t tell the WHOLE STORY but they tell you a lot.






People really are food out here. Men need to
EARN YOUR TRUST. Especially if you have children. How is it not common knowledge that men target single mothers? How is it not understood that a man has less patience for children that are not his?

Maybe I approach the world with a certain amount of fear and caution because of the masculine influences in my life.


The men in my life would laugh me out the room if I let a man into my house within 3 months let alone give birth to one man’s child and be dating a new man 2 months later.

And the women in my life would say that the body needs to heal and I need to bond with the baby. So how you have time to find a new man 2 months later?


We might be losing recipes for real. :hubie::francis:


Nikka wouldn’t even know my real middle name within 3 months of meeting, let alone moving into my home? :mjlol: TF
 
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