50% of singles no longer want to date?

[Absolut da poet ®]

Well money is what society makes everyone believe is very important, its not surprising what's happening.

Everyone is either focusing on making money or don't have it so they don't care about dating at all

Women/dating costs money

Marriage & or kids costs a lot more money

And women have to be concerned with getting pregnant and kids/family slowing down their
Progress for a situation that may not last and/or them getting stuck in one they don't want to be in

I always felt that marriage & kids are for older more mature relationships anyway 30+ and up

Doesn't make sense in this era to get married in your 20s if you don't already have any kids or none on the way

Better to get married later than be divorced early

 

[Da King]

No one wants to be single and alone, it’s the classic single person giving up


Wanting to be single

 

[Coli Bot]

No one wants to be single and alone, it’s the classic single person giving up


Wanting to be single

Have you been in a long term relationship?

 

[Da King]

Have you been in a long term relationship?

In one right now breh, I’m not a little kid anymore in my 20’s looking for ass. When you become an adult your priorities change

 

[Da_Eggman]

I completely given up that aspect and only interested in saving money and investing

dating = a bad investment

 

[ThrobbingHood]

No modern woman is worth being in a relationship with.

I'm enjoying smashing casually

This. And I say this as a man currently in a long term relationship.

 

[Da_Eggman]

You don't ever get tired of going through the motions of replacing chick after chick in the roster once she starts bugging you about wanting a relationship?

 

[ThrobbingHood]

I completely given up that aspect and only interested in saving money and investing

dating = a bad investment

Women are a never ending financial liability.

Any man who disagrees then simply do this:

Compare the transactions on your account to when you were single and when you were dating/married/in a relationship. And then ask yourself how many of the latter transactions were for your benefit/happiness or hers.

Sex robots are looking more appealing everyday. At least they have an off switch.

 

[Champagne Kudo]

Not dating don't mean not fukkin

 

[spencerforhire]

This is dating life in America. Go to other countries and your pu$$y rate will sky rocket. The grass is greener brehs.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

In one right now breh, I’m not a little kid anymore in my 20’s looking for ass. When you become an adult your priorities change

Being in a relationship
Doesn’t equate adulthood or maturity
Sure..
Nobody wants to be alone
But the coldest feeling in the world
Is being next to somebody that doesn’t want to be there
They may be there in body but not spirit
Dating/relationships take a lot of giving of oneself
Look at society
People can’t even comprehend the ideals behind wearing a mask
You honestly think people understand love/commitment
If you are in a relationship
Thats cool
But you can’t really be mad at people who don’t want to pursue it anymore
Either gender
*this comes from a happily married man
Hearing about the fukkery every weekend from the homies*

 

[ZoeGod]

Read the Book Tragedy and Hope by Caroll Quigly. It predicted all of this. What we are seeing if the after effects of a post industrial society. As a nation becomes richer and develops the birth rates and marriage rates go down. There is four stages in the Demographic cycle. In primitive societies you have a high birth rate and high death rate. Your numbers are basically stable. The next stage is the beginning of industrialization. In this stage your birthrates are still high but you death is falling. This leads to a population explosion driven by advancement in modern medicine,sanitation and food security. This is what the west was from 1880-1980 and the non western world after 1940. 1940 the global population was 2 billion. Now its 7.8 billion. Right now where the west is the next stage of the demographic cycle is where birthrates are falling and the death rates are low. This means the population went from rising to stable. With rich countries the marriages rate declines. This explains why people aren't dating. The whole GMB phenomena is traced back to post industrialization. A lot of men in the west do not see an incentive to get married. Secondly women are more focused in their careers which means in their prime years (21-27) they do not look for husband. When they are in their late 20s and early 30s they are scrambling to find a husband. And if they do find one somehow they have children way later in life. Which means she will have one or two children at best. Feminism is an effect of post industrialism not a cause.

Add the growing incel culture, over consumption of pornography alot of men are taking themselves out the dating game. Another factor is that the standard of living is so high meanwhile wages remain stagnant or decline. This is why millennials aren't getting married as much or delay marriage. Student loans, credit card debt, ridiculously expensive real estate, gig jobs are all factors why people aren't getting married as much, aren't having kids as much. It is very expensive to have a child. Some people simply can not afford it. Again this the effect of a post industrialized society.

So what is the next stage after this? Well its what Japan is experiencing right now. You have a geriatric society. This where your birthrates are low and your death rates are rising. Your numbers are falling and the age distribution is skewed to older people. The main point in the book is that a rising population will take over a declining population. Why do you think right wing white nationalism is getting popular in Europe and the US? White birthrates are declining meanwhile birthrates in Africa,Middle East, and Latin America are growing. Africa,Latin America,Asia Africa are on the second stage of industrialization meanwhile the west is heading towards the last stage. This is why in those areas especially in the mideast, Latin America and Africa you don't hear they do not have these issues. Men still date and the birthrates remain high. Once you are a rich and fully developed that is when all the issues I mentioned arise.

 

[Da King]

Being in a relationship
Doesn’t equate adulthood or maturity
Sure..
Nobody wants to be alone
But the coldest feeling in the world
Is being next to somebody that doesn’t want to be there
They may be there in body but not spirit
Dating/relationships take a lot of giving of oneself
Look at society
People can’t even comprehend the ideals behind wearing a mask
You honestly think people understand love/commitment
If you are in a relationship
Thats cool
But you can’t really be mad at people who don’t want to pursue it anymore
Either gender
*this comes from a happily married man
Hearing about the fukkery every weekend from the homies*

from an evolutionary and biological standpoint, humans are not solo creatures

 

[MBwithadream]

I hear you but its sad its got like this where people would just rather be alone and do their own thing now males and females really not fukking with each other no more.

Part of the reason I broke off my 7 year relationship was because I wanted a double bed to myself and I wanted to be able to wake up and fart as much as I want and not worry about being curteous around someone else. Whats wrong with us?

Why your back broken avi

 

[ColdSlither]

Society isn't set up today for you to support a family. Let's go back to the 50's. Especially if you were white. You could get a really good FHA loan for little to no money down, work a bullshyt job, and support a family. You could work in a supermarket and support a family. Not saying it would be easy, but you could do it. The rules of the sandbox was set to promote having a family. It's not anymore. You see people married for decades, but you also see a whole lot of people getting divorced. So people, especially men, are like why bother?