50% of wives say husband isn't their best sex partner; 60% of wives would rather read than have sex

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More than 66% would rather read than fukk their husband :mjlol:

#GMB :mjlol:


According to a recent study by iVillage, less than half of wedded women married the person who was the best sex of their lives (52 percent say that was an ex.) In fact, 66 percent would rather read a book, watch a movie or take a nap than sleep with a spouse.

Amanda Chatel, a 33-year-old writer from the East Village, says, “With the men I’ve loved, the sex has been good, sometimes great, but never ‘best.’ It’s resulted in many orgasms and was fun but, comparatively speaking, it didn’t have that intensity that comes with the ‘best’ sex.

“I knew [my best sex partner] was temporary, and so the great sex was the best because the sex was the relationship,” she adds. “We didn’t have to invest in anything else.”

Chatel also admits, “We tend to remember things better than they actually were because we no longer have them.”

That might explain why such a variety of women recall having passionate sex in the hallway of someone’s apartment, but forget that they had to have sex in the hallway because he had four roommates and slept on a futon.

A 36-year-old marketing executive from Chelsea we’ll call Abby says that “what makes sex incredible, or places it into the range of ‘best sex’, is an element of danger. There’s an element of disobedience . . . that elicits a feeling of carnal desperation. [That feeling is often provoked by] the guy who you shouldn’t be with versus the one that you marry.”

And Noel Biderman, CEO of Ashley Madison, the site that promotes extramarital affairs, claims that the best sex is defined as something that, for many, encompasses “danger, newness and fantasy fulfillment.”

That’s only sensible. While feelings of danger might be thrilling while you’re having carnal knowledge in an abandoned alleyway, they’re not so great when you have to get kids ready for school.

Sex therapist Sari Cooper says many women come to her troubled that their husbands aren’t ideal sexual partners.

“Your best sexual relationship has likely been with the person who was most unstable and most volatile, but was very passionate,” Cooper says. “That’s like riding a roller coaster. That’s passion. But if you have a family, riding a roller coaster isn’t that great for kids.”

If that’s the case, you have to find someone where the relationship is more of a gentle carousel motion. No kids ever got sick from that.

A 36-year-old actress from Greenpoint, Brooklyn, we’ll call Jane says sex with her husband “is not, overall, the hottest sex of my life. But I wouldn’t trade it for a second to have the giver of the hottest sex be my life partner!”
 

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Chatel also admits, “We tend to remember things better than they actually were because we no longer have them.”
This is the most important point, though. Some people don't know what they have till its gone. You push your current partner away cause you miss an old one, only to realize
the old shyt was nostalgia talking good game to you. Either way, whatever. I'm always trying to be the best when the dack come out, so if im not, lemme know:francis:
 

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Thats the womans fault lol women consistently tend to seperate the men they are actually attracted to and have great sex with the men they actually end up in a LT relationship with. Women are weird in the sense where they act as if the two are mutually exclusive.

I have a theory on why, but a cookie for who can guess that theory lol
 

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It's natural.

I've never been married but I was in a 7 year relationship and there were times where I'd rather go make beats than have sex. :manny: It's not an indictment on her it's just that stuff becomes routine over time.



:manny:
This :manny:

I'm the same way :russ:

But it doesn't bother me anymore.

I don't need the p*ssy every day anymore
 
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