55 year old dime says being child free is great!

[Paradoxx]

a lot more women than you think commit infanticide. there was a thread a few months ago about a women who children disappeared and she went to live in another state with her man.

I think I know what case you’re talking about, further proves my point that some women don’t need children.

 

[bnew]

I think I know what case you’re talking about, further proves my point that some women don’t need children.

seen enough news reports about child neglect and infanticide by women to rid myself of the notion that deep-down all women want to have children and be nurturing mothers because they're "wired" that way.

it's dangerous to think that way because it can blind a person to obvious red-flags which ultimately leads to the harm of children.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Didn't ya'll call the woman who said she couldn't stand her kid a horrible person?

Now you have a woman who actively chose not to put herself in that position but it's an issue and she "secretly wants to be a mom but is in denial." Not every woman wants to be y'all baby mommas. Lol

 

[Koli_Kat]

I have an issue with the video and her fake happiness, not her and her decision to not have kids.

She's no different than passport bros- if you're so happy in your situation why promote it? Why the need to make viral videos. Enjoy your happiness in solitude

 

[Gloxina]

I don't have kids.

And to be honest, I've never had to grow up. I did the same shyt from 15 to like 40.

Chase tail and party. Had some fun long term relationships. I don't know if I'd have preferred buckling down and being responsible.. for other humans.

I have serious regrets.. but that's like someone regretting not being a Hollywood stunt man. Looks like fun, but ask the stunt man. Them Jackass fools prolly wouldn't advise you to do what they did.

Ultimately I prolly avoided the situation because of pure selfishness. And what I DID do instead was exactly what I wanted for my life. Petty as it is. Just enjoying the shyt out of existing.

I would like to reproduce but it's getting late

This is real!

And ya know, there are some women who may feel the exact same way

If you have skills, a good career, savings/investments, longterm insurance, k know when to entire a retirement community, etc you’ll be aight.

IF ppl got those steps down, hey ? What can I say.

 

[Gloxina]

Is she trying to convince us or herself?

She was answering a question on TikTok.

^^^^^^^^^^

 

[Gloxina]

I notice she didn't mention anything about her husband.

These women always wanna push that "independent" bullshyt without acknowledging the fact that women with good husbands and fathers are sitting at the top of the pyramid in terms of quality of life.

Single black women aged 60+ with a college degree has $11,000 in wealth.

Single black women under 40 are worth $0

Now I agree with this. She could’ve mentioned the importance of marriage and companionship, because if she has a hubby she isn’t doing this thing called life alone.

 

[Vodun]

don’t know why so many brehs here are gasping at the idea of a women being happy without children. shyt seems immature and miserable as fukk. Would you have her raising kids she doesn’t want and wouldn’t care for properly

I think a lot of us feel that way because women are designed to have kids. We know its a strong biological need for a lot of them. So when one says naww i'm good on kids, it throws us off. That's like a man saying he doesn't like sex in general. Most people men and women are like wtf is wrong with you?

 

[Damba]

She looks batshyt crazy. She got all that but deep down she's

She looks batshyt crazy. She got all that but deep down she's

Yup, and who gonna bury her? Them 7 cats I guess.

 

[deeman]

It’s ok to brag about having kids, but someone does the opposite and it’s a problem. Who cares at the end of the day. Kids aren’t for everyone you don’t have to feel attacked.

 

[Ain't That Something]

As a breh with kids. They do get on your last nerves and there are a lot of sacrifices and shyt sure ain't easy. With that said I could tell shawty was more so trying to convince herself than the rest of us. And that's OK too. Not everyone should have kids

 

[JoelB]

did she say she's having a hot girl summer at 55

 

[Warren Peace]

Y'all really talk like cacs

This is how non nikkas talk

You wouldn’t get it

 

[deeman]

As a breh with kids. They do get on your last nerves and there are a lot of sacrifices and shyt sure ain't easy. With that said I could tell shawty was more so trying to convince herself than the rest of us. And that's OK too. Not everyone should have kids

You really think she couldn’t find a dude to nut in her if she wanted to cmon now.

 

[Ahadi]

don’t know why so many brehs here are gasping at the idea of a women being happy without children. shyt seems immature and miserable as fukk. Would you have her raising kids she doesn’t want and wouldn’t care for properly

Don’t listen to what they say, listen to what they do.