55 year old dime says being child free is great!

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You can see the shame behind her eyes.....a 55 years old woman that will die childless with all that "savvy and intelligence" will ultimately be a failure
 

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It’s kind of common sense. It’s a huge financial burden and responsibility you never have to worry about.
I know an increasing number of childless women over 30 and they seem to have way less drama to deal with than women who have kids, especially single moms
The amount of disposable income and freedom you have if you’re in your earning prime with no kids is kind of crazy. Talking like hundreds in savings every month just off health insurance by itself
 

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How in the world someone retired from corporate American at 38. :patrice:
Because she's self employed now. Credit to her for starting her own businesses but she's framing it like this on purpose. She still works.


I think my issue with her isn't her choice to have kids, it's how she presents herself. This is spot on:

That's what some of these "ya'll hate women" dummies ain't getting nobody gives a damn about a stranger not having kids that doesn't want any , but if you gonna go online and upload a tik tock bragging about being child free expect people to critique it
 
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Did she mention anything about marriage? Most young women hear this garbage and it reinforces their "independent" mindset even tho married women are the wealthiest group of women on earth & single women are the poorest.

She should be promoting the value of MARRIAGE instead of bragging about being child-free.

She's married to the adversary and uses the hashtag #SwirlCouple

The world already has enough mulattos.... we dont need anymore... I salute her decision.


I knew this bytch wasn’t down with black men I could hear it in her voice I knew it lol
 

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It's a common reaction. Any type of "alternative" lifestyle is often met with disdain because people will view it as an attack on their own "normal" way of life.

Granted, a lot of childfree people are too extra and smug with it. Childfree people and parents just need to live their own life and stop trying to tell people what the "best" way to live is.


She was answering a question though
 

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That's what some of these "ya'll hate women" dummies ain't getting nobody gives a damn about a stranger not having kids that doesn't want any , but if you gonna go online and upload a tik tock bragging about being child free expect people to critique it
She was answering a question :mjlol:
 

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She has great skin! Hate that wig though…say, I thought the Coli said all women over 30 should die because there’s no way to be happy and that you can’t have a fulfilled life if you don’t have a man?🤔
That’s part of the reason why she is addressing it. Because a lot of women are sick of the assumptions men make about them and harass them with. There are more than enough women who want children and marriage. But life has afforded women different options these days and many are finding traditions to be SEVERELY lacking for a lot of different reasons.

I think she knows it’s important to dispel the myth that a woman can’t be happy or fulfilled unless she is a wife/mother. That’s never been the case, even moreso now a days and that threatens a lot of people.
I’m going to see if I can find that study. It mentioned the primary issue women have with being single and child-free isn’t loneliness…get this…it was dumb asses concern trolling them and projecting sob stories of loneliness onto them.

That shyt is irritating. I’m married and the shyt I see people give single happy women is fukking disgusting and they be living their best lives.
 

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That’s what I thought as well. Also, as you said, theres never talk about men hitting the wall. The truth is, a lot of men do experience ED and sperm does decline in quality with age. EVERYONE has to take care of themselves to prevent that wall. No one is exempt from the changes the body makes with age, but we can still look great at any age. I’m 43 and still have to present my ID. I had somebody tell me, if you look like this in your 40s, I could imagine how you looked in your 20s yesterday.
Which is the best compliment you can get as you get older 🤣

I turned 30 and ppl still treated me with kid gloves until they saw my ID 🤣


My real gage? Getting pulled over for speeding. When male cops pull me over and just look at me and let me go 🤷🏾‍♀️ I know I’m still in there.
I literally cut a white cop off in traffic and he pulled me over, had a little chitchat and let me go. I was actually scared out of my mind because I didn’t realize I’d cut off a cop 🤣🤣🤣
 
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