55 year old dime says being child free is great!

Piff Perkins

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It's just surreal watching a collection of struggling dudes who haven't had sex in a year, don't have an active role in their families, don't have friends in real life, and play videogames all weekend telling a woman she's gonna be lonely. So what are you? These chicks traveling the world, having fun and forming bonds while you do jack shyt. Men are committing suicide at record levels due to loneliness and feeling worthless. Why are you obsessing over what women do? Clearly men have the problem, not them.

We have this wack thread every week too smh.
 

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Los Angeles County, California…
Just because u don’t have kids and can travel and have money doesn’t make u better than someone who has kids and it doesn’t mean they are more stressed than u and they can’t do the same thing

I’m tired of black people who run to social media and talk about how they living so stressed free, they traveling , have businesses and money and then want to say umm I’m not bragging or trying to put u down… yes u are
 

Rusty Kuntz

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Myself. fukk 12(1)!
My husband and I discussed not wanting children while we were dating, so we were on the same page from jump. We are both semi-retired in our early 40s and have the financial resources and free time to do what we want, when we want.

Plenty of folks are determining that having children isn't a want/need of theirs, and that's fine.
 

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She is. Maybe you should look at the stats on how many biracial children are born a year and to who. Black people are at the bottom of the list. What you're saying would make more sense if we collectively had money.

fair enough, but more black people have entered the professional classs(even though middle class economics is shrinking) in recent years, so it's not too far fetched.
 

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fair enough, but more black people have entered the professional classs(even though middle class economics is shrinking) in recent years, so it's not too far fetched.
Far fetched. The entire anti black stigma would have to change for more bum ass women from other races to look at us as the option to put a dent in our numbers. With black hubs in the south through Texas I just don't see it happening
 

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Why do y'all say this.
When you 70 years old and your "child" is 35 with two kids of their own and working 40-45 hours a week.

How much are they actually taking care of you???
having grandkids and a defined place/role in a family keeps old folks young and mentally well tho

my in laws have 10+ grandkids and are thriving in life in a very active “big momma” and “pop pop” role with a place of love impact and respect in all their kids various households. that sense of purpose goes such a long way for well being with the elderly.

having a family isnt just about having someone to literally wipe your azz when you’re old and folks don’t really think about that until its far too late
 
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