The only way I can describe it is like this:
You ever hear an ill punchline from a rapper, he holds your attention, then you listen to the whole verse, the whole song, and then eventually the whole album. And this whole time you’re listening like

Damn, this nikka is nice. Wordplay, flow, bars! That’s how I felt when I heard “Ready To Die.” I had to rewind that CD so many times.
A good mouth piece with a woman is no different than a rap album. Be interesting, witty and insightful enough to hold their attention. It’s not about having prepared lines; that shyt is corny.
Engage her, talk about her interests. Reveal a little about yourself but always relate it back to her. But never be boring. That’s one cardinal sin any woman won’t forgive you for.
How do you not be boring? Read, travel, have hobbies. When you read you’ll understand a wider array of topics. When you travel, you’ll have a greater understanding of cultures. When you have hobbies, you have greater respect for time and discipline.
For example. I love cycling. I love reading about travelling. So I can combine all those aspects into one. I cycle to different places I read about and since my lady is into cycling too, I can share that with her.
Having a nice car, clothes, watches will give you a window of opportunity to hold a woman’s attention, but if there’s no substance there, she’ll move onto the next guy.