6-figure coli breh focused on himself but the hoes didn’t come

Exlurkernegro

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You gotta put yourself out there and develop your aura. Whether you a funny dude or a quiet magnetic dude or a grimey steal ya girl type dude you gotta own it and maximize it. Don't be afraid to take an L, the W's will make the losses worth it.

The problem is getting better at socializing and developing your aura/charisma isn't some logical ABC123 shyt. Finding the right major, the right internship, alot of that is pretty straightforward you just need to know your strengths and put in the work. Some of these dudes are too logical for their own good, you gotta tap into your emotional / spiritual side to really eat. And by emotional I don't mean being a hoe ass nikka, just realize it's more about how you make a woman feel than just being a good guy on paper.
What do you mean by the spiritual exactly?
 

Cloutius Maximus

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What do you mean by the spiritual exactly?

I think in our modern world men base their entire self-esteem on success in the material world. Having a good job, getting money, getting p*ssy, having a dope spot, etc.

Spirituality/religion, community & rites of passage gives boys/men a feeling of worth outside of those things like money and women. We don't have rites of passage anymore outside of losing your virginity or getting your first whip. The sense of community is breaking down. Spirituality / religion is something men can take on themselves.

It can be Christianity, Islam, Buddhism, stoicism, voodoo, Rastafarianism, whatever. I don't think it's a must necessarily, but we are throwing the baby out with the bathwater by completely throwing away spirituality for science. If you walk the eightfold path and TRY to achieve buddha nature you will feel like that dude even if you got 50 cents in your pocket.
 

Duke Wy Lin

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No one believes me when I say that women care about looks more than money or anything else.

Unless you're deformed or exceptionally unattractive and/or extremely unhygienic, the above is definitely not true. If you a decent looking breh who makes good money and has good social skills you'll eat more than the average breh.

Y'all letting these Twitter hoes warp your sense of reality. They say wild shyt just to get attention. That man is not ugly by any definition of that word:dame:

In fact, the woman who called him ugly would definitely not be out of his league looks wise. They both average.
 

Rozay Oro

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That nikka not trying at all. At least download an app or two. I ain’t no ballin ass nikka and even got down ass hoes.
 

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:comeon: I’m not trying to insult you at all champ but I’m not buying that. I’m an exceptional dude myself and the most I got on there was like 60 and that was after a month. Some days I wouldn’t even get a match and I had to open up the mileage parameters to like 20 miles. We’re you matching with fatties?
I believe dude tho...

I had 130+ matches my first month...
And I just took bulshyt selfies in my office and full height pics in office bathroom on a random day with no haircut

I'm in LA if it matters
 

Roid Jones

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as kevin samuels would say, you can't find a partner at work, the gym or your house, have to go out. I'm not saying go to a grocery store and bag women but there, the mall, club or a hobby you like. Point is if isn't any of the 3 in my first sentence then they are fair game, dude just admitted he doesn't go out. Also unfortunately like working out, learning a skill, going to the gym you have to put in work to attract women.

Exactly, some of these dudes are narcissistic they think because they have features it excludes them from putting work in
 
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