I hate the term good woman or good man. I dated plenty of good and bad women. If neither or compatible, it's not gonna work. This is why sex should be marriage prize than a relationship one or dating depending on the person.I'm not. I'm in a healthy relationship with a black man who respects me just as much as I respect him. We understand each other's past and future. We don't cheat, we're honest and it's like that. Are we perfect? No. But the stuff y'all be describing on here is highly dysfunctional. I know it's fairy tale land cause y'all fukk with the birds you fukk with but good women are out there just as much as good men instead of honing in on sexual escapades to (escape your insecurities) or (fulfill your needs) how bout learning to love yourself and becoming whole with oneself. Nobody should be in any type of relationship if they feel their incomplete. Trust me I know.
The hardest thing is to find someone you are compatible with.