You're just speaking to my point. You're actively choosing to disregard new information and operating on an old paradigms.
What you expect to happen isn't happening.
The more men speak out the more common it is for men to be heard.
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What you expect to happen isn't happening.
The more men speak out the more common it is for men to be heard.
NobodyReally
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First, you say it's not that deep, then you call people's opinions about this behavior "shaming", even though we're not interacting with these guys or scolding them. It just sounds like you don't like people who don't like lists, which is kind of funny because having a list and posting it on social media may be on someone else's list of turn-offs. For example, stuff like this is on MY list of turn-offs. I don't like it. If these guys have a right to their lists, then surely I, an anonymous poster on a message board that doesn't even tag them, have a right to comment to a third party about the post of their list.
NobodyReally
Superstar
Social media shaming (or online shaming) is using internet platforms to publicly humiliate, harass, or mock individuals for perceived misdeeds, ranging from offensive posts to perceived social violations, often by spreading private info or images, creating "hate storms" with disproportionate consequences, and impacting mental health, though some view it as social policing for accountability, notes Wikipedia, NIH, and The Conversation. It involves public exposure, doxing, and online mobs, sometimes leading to severe repercussions like job loss, trauma, or suicide, while often bypassing due process or nuance
No one is doing any of that. lol
No one is doing any of that. lol
NaijaProdigy Redux
Veteran
You all have the same conversation on Coli that they have on TikTok. One just lacks anonymity. 
blackestofpanthers
God forgives, you are forgiven.
Don’t mind him. He’s a weirdo homosexual that wrote superhead cosplay about rappers dikk size and sexual prowess.
Thread 'Did you know that a Coli poster was famous for writing superhead fanfic about rappers dikk sizes and sexual prowess?'
https://www.thecoli.com/threads/did...appers-dikk-sizes-and-sexual-prowess.1107022/
Wtf? Are you even trying to argue? I wasn't even speaking to you. I am having an active conversation with the person I was addressing and it is going just fine.
Why are you trying to insert yourself in our conversation and make it about you?
Piff Perkins
Veteran
But you haven’t demonstrated this shift is real lol.You're just speaking to my point. You're actively choosing to disregard new information and operating on an old paradigms.
What you expect to happen isn't happening.
The more men speak out the more common it is for men to be heard.
PAWG threads used to go double diamond status a few years back but you’re right there’s so many threads of them now that the sales ain’t nowhere near the sameFBA/Tether babble is certified plat/diamond by RIAA on thecoli.
Bedwench used to be too, but there’s been a recent drought.
PAWG used to do numbers but Drexlersfade flood the streets so there’s more supply than demand right now - the numbers ain’t been the same - nikka be fighting imaginary militants like Don Quixote these days
Vodun
All Star
I’m practicing financial celibacy 
MajesticLion
Veteran
You said principles aren't created via testing (your word) ie experience but by "putting it out there"?
You're the one calling these declarations principles.
Just trying to be contrarian for no particular reason just like I said you would.
Not via your own testing, and not when you feel like it should happen.
Still trying to pick a fight to no purpose. Enjoy.
Enjoy what? You can't even keep up with your own nonsensical argument.
Ya'll love to be loud and wrong and then play the victim.
Now I see why ya'll get yourselves all worked up at the thought of other men having and being able to maintain standards.
You hit #8 on the nose. Lol
Just find you a good man who likes you for you Bp. Start there, if a nikka can't be your friend, he aint gonna last long as your lover.Let me add mines first
1. Talking over me constantly (hate this shyt)... cut
2. Not laughing at my jokes (never happens)...cut
3. Boring...cut
4. Wanna be in the house all the time...cut
5. Likes to argue...cut
6. Back handed compliments...cut
7. Not listening...cut
8. Pretending like you know something that you don't know anything about to try and impress me (also hate this with a passion)...cut
9. Sexist...cut
10. Sassy...cut
11. Shorter than me...cut
12. Accuses me of being a cheater...cut
13. Want to lock me down too fast...cut
14. Competing with me...cut
15. Liar...cut
16. No integrity...cut
17. Any negging or toxic communication...cut
I'll add more if I think of any thing else
Thank you for the very generic dating advice. I know you meant well.
Do you care to engage the topic?
