Insecurity is a bytch. Not all women feel this way.
But a lot do. A lot of men are single and think of women as a mystery because they simply haven't taken the time to think like how they do.
Female humans of almost every culture are taught from a very young age that attention=love. They are socialized to think that you should be praised for how you appear and not what you accomplish. With males it's the opposite. This is why men are so good when it comes to humor because we learn from an early age that we are laughed at and can be made fun of because of how we appear. We then know not to put that much stock into how we appear to others.
The guys who flex with Rolex, suits and expensive cars are signaling to other men "I have achieved a higher status through my efforts"
Women dont go through this process, and so are told either outrightly or subtly that attention based on looks is extremely important, and it is an achievement if a woman attracts the attention of the type of man that many other women want.
Do yall think it's a coincidence that the people who spend the most time on Instagram and Twitter are women? Do yall think it's a coincidence you can go to a store and the mens section is significantly smaller than the women's section? Do yall think it's a coincidence that the beauty industry for women's products alone is a multibillion dollar force?
If you refuse to give women attention that they haven't earned, it makes you more of an interesting person. If a man feels that he needs more than some tight clothing and makeup to invest his time into a woman, shes more likely to see him as a mystery and want to understand and spend time with him. Negus have to raise their standards. Not every woman is worth your time and attention. They need to work for it just like you need to work for theirs. If we truly in an equal society that's how it should be and that's how I've moved in my dating life and I've had success ever since.
