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[Gold]

Yall so new to the game its almost cute

If you didnt know about women and their love of attention before Ayesha, well better late than never i guess.

 

[Ashley Banks]

And this is why you don't take dating advice from women

what advice did I give?

 

[AceMan]

Men are weird. Ignore a woman that likes you to make her like you. I just...don’t get it.

If a guy ignored me, I’d lose interest. Plenty more where he came from. When I was still single a guy tried this then. When I moved on (to my dating my husband) then he showed interest and I’m just like

You’re on a male-dominated forum why?

 

[Ashley Banks]

nah, that's not what I said. I said ignore women if you ain't tryna holla

meaning, we all been in situations where we seen a badd chic but for whatever reason didn't speak. It may not have been the right setting, may not have been the right moment, whatever

I'm saying if you ain't gon holla, then what's the point of staring at her thirstily, inflating her ego? nah ignore her until you ready to make a move

and then on top of that, I'm saying to strategically ignore women to make y'all act right

the chic I been ignoring for the past month and a half been sending me nudes, wanting to kiss and touch and then when I'm ready to smash, gives me the


she was just using me for attention so tell you what... (her).... since you wanna play games, Imma play games back. I'm not gonna be your free source of validation. been igging her since

I know it's driving her insane too

when she comes back around, now she gonna have to get down on my terms

Oh okay, makes sense.

 

[Ashley Banks]

You’re on a male-dominated forum why?

Didn’t know it was male dominated until after I joined. Anything else?

 

[AquaCityBoy]

Ayesha Curry done fukked the game up for these hoes.

 

[Elle Driver]

But a lot do. A lot of men are single and think of women as a mystery because they simply haven't taken the time to think like how they do.

Female humans of almost every culture are taught from a very young age that attention=love. They are socialized to think that you should be praised for how you appear and not what you accomplish. With males it's the opposite. This is why men are so good when it comes to humor because we learn from an early age that we are laughed at and can be made fun of because of how we appear. We then know not to put that much stock into how we appear to others.

The guys who flex with Rolex, suits and expensive cars are signaling to other men "I have achieved a higher status through my efforts"

Women dont go through this process, and so are told either outrightly or subtly that attention based on looks is extremely important, and it is an achievement if a woman attracts the attention of the type of man that many other women want.

Do yall think it's a coincidence that the people who spend the most time on Instagram and Twitter are women? Do yall think it's a coincidence you can go to a store and the mens section is significantly smaller than the women's section? Do yall think it's a coincidence that the beauty industry for women's products alone is a multibillion dollar force?

If you refuse to give women attention that they haven't earned, it makes you more of an interesting person. If a man feels that he needs more than some tight clothing and makeup to invest his time into a woman, shes more likely to see him as a mystery and want to understand and spend time with him. Negus have to raise their standards. Not every woman is worth your time and attention. They need to work for it just like you need to work for theirs. If we truly in an equal society that's how it should be and that's how I've moved in my dating life and I've had success ever since.

Ayesha was out here saying she likes to remain covered up and doesnt want her goodies out there. That’s fine, isn’t the point that other men don’t desire her? Her insecurity is that she’s full of shyt. She wants what she doesn’t have same with girls who are entirely opposite to her.

 

[Lucky_Lefty]

Introvert gang doesn't have these problems.

Undefeated, never lost

 

[newworldafro]

Insecurity is a bytch. Not all women feel this way.

How you feel?

 

[bigdaddy88]

it does work but that depends mostly if she finds u attractive of the bat, because if not most likely she doesnt know u even exist.


i dont have that problem when i was younger when i wanted to get rid of woman who was just annoying me i tried ignoring her, wrong move all that did is make her more persistent,and even more annoying

i thought maybe if i was ultra nice she would leave alone nope, still trying to get at me. So if she already likes u , all ignoring her is gonna do is make her more aggressive . so be careful on who u use this on

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Ayesha was out here saying she likes to remain covered up and doesnt want her goodies out there. That’s fine, isn’t the point that other men don’t desire her? Her insecurity is that she’s full of shyt. She wants what she doesn’t have same with girls who are entirely opposite to her.

Shes displaying conflicting thoughts and emotions. She wants to be seen as sexually desirable but wants men to communicate that primal lust in a respectful fashion. She wants to be sexually desirable but doesnt want to be seen as a thot. She wants attention without doing anything to earn it.

You can see the conflict in her soul. She wants to have her cake and eat it too. A woman put me on game some years ago, she said "I like it when guys hit on me and I turn them down" she wanted to go to clubs specifically so dudes could holler and she could shut that shyt down. It felt good to her, it's a feeling of validation but also a feeling of control. This is what ayesha curry wants but she doesnt understand how selfish and crazy that is. What does she do when her kids start asking if shes going to split up with their dad because of all the rumors her statement generates? How will she deal with curry getting quiet on her knowing deep in his heart shes hoping other dudes are checking for her to validate her ego?

Despite their upbringing a lot of women cant fight the culture that says "your primary value is your attractiveness. If you ain't got that get out" she wanna have the attention that thots get but none of the baggage. It just dont work that way.

 

[Max Power]

Didn’t know it was male dominated until after I joined. Anything else?

Sports hip-hop and piff... Talking out of your ass.

And regardless you have made over 20,000 posts here. Why is that?

 

[Majestic]

No wonder dating has gone to shyt.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Study long, study wrong

 

[knickscity]

Sports hip-hop and piff... Talking out of your ass.

And regardless you have made over 20,000 posts here. Why is that?

Hope she hasn't been married this entire time. if so, she lost.