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[kwazzy100]

There was one chick I work with and I was trying to holler at . She just kept brushing me off so I just decided I should just ignore her and pretend nothing happened.

Now she looks at me weird and ask me "how come you ain't talking to me ?"


Giving no fukks now.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Men don't look at me the way they used to. In general, they don't look at me at all. This is what happens when a woman turns 40 (50, 60 etc.). It's a fact of life.

In theory, this is supposed to be an exhilarating passage in the life of a woman. At last we're liberated from the tyranny of the male gaze! We don't have to care what men think of us any more. We're free to be our true, authentic self. We can wear a red hat.

In reality, it sucks. I'd give a lot for men to look at me like that again


The male gaze, and why I miss it






There is a reason why women dread getting older because attention decreases to almost nill

Funny thing is women are only creatures that argue Biology I’ve never heard a man argue against nature.

 

[str8up]

Yeah man. Ignore their texts for few hours and watch them go crazy

This shyt be getting me into too much trouble

Accidentally opened a snap the other day and didn't reply for a couple hours. She lost her got damn mind and ended up ghosting me

 

[SnowflakesByTheOZ]

Men are weird. Ignore a woman that likes you to make her like you. I just...don’t get it.

If a guy ignored me, I’d lose interest. Plenty more where he came from. When I was still single a guy tried this then. When I moved on (to my dating my husband) then he showed interest and I’m just like

Why were you still in contact with him ?​

 

[Youseenmywork]

nah, that's not what I said. I said ignore women if you ain't tryna holla

meaning, we all been in situations where we seen a badd chic but for whatever reason didn't speak. It may not have been the right setting, may not have been the right moment, whatever

I'm saying if you ain't gon holla, then what's the point of staring at her thirstily, inflating her ego? nah ignore her until you ready to make a move

and then on top of that, I'm saying to strategically ignore women to make y'all act right

the chic I been ignoring for the past month and a half been sending me nudes, wanting to kiss and touch and then when I'm ready to smash, gives me the


she was just using me for attention so tell you what... (her).... since you wanna play games, Imma play games back. I'm not gonna be your free source of validation. been igging her since

I know it's driving her insane too

when she comes back around, now she gonna have to get down on my terms

You know what I’m tried of fam ? I’m tired of women that know other that get down like you said but don’t call them out. I’m tired of women NOT calling women out . I have theory that they don’t call each other out cause they wouldn’t have any friends but what do I know? I’m tired of most women walking around acting like ALL men are lying when we share our experiences. Aisha curry was completely wrong look how many women came to her defense...then women wonder why men have stopped getting married. Men are getting real tired of women not taking accountability and responsibility.

 

[Slystallion]

Men are weird. Ignore a woman that likes you to make her like you. I just...don’t get it.

If a guy ignored me, I’d lose interest. Plenty more where he came from. When I was still single a guy tried this then. When I moved on (to my dating my husband) then he showed interest and I’m just like

There is nothing but incels here using 15 yr old tactics

 

[Clive42]

Men are weird. Ignore a woman that likes you to make her like you. I just...don’t get it.

If a guy ignored me, I’d lose interest. Plenty more where he came from. When I was still single a guy tried this then. When I moved on (to my dating my husband) then he showed interest and I’m just like

So your approach is the exact same as the men you're criticizing?

And at your first point, its the other way around, the man likes the woman, the woman ain't interested in the man like that. The whole thread is about women who don't value you, but value the attention the man gives. So you simply just don't give them that attention.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Yeah u did, and before u joined u also knew.:Kanyewtf:

U just like the male attention.

I joined like 2 months after the site was created lol

 

[Ashley Banks]

So your approach is the exact same as the men you're criticizing?

And at your first point, its the other way around, the man likes the woman, the woman ain't interested in the man like that. The whole thread is about women who don't value you, but value the attention the man gives. So you simply just don't give them that attention.

I did’t move on with the intention of someone liking me more lol I did it when I was being ignored. What was I supposed to do? Talk to someone that isn’t responding? Plan dates with someone that is ignoring me? Go sit at a restaurant and hope they show up? Lol or go out with the guy that’s actually interested? Or at least isn’t pretending like he isnt interested.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Why were you still in contact with him ?​

He still had my number and he approached me when I was leaving work a few times.

 

[MaxPain]

I joined like 2 months after the site was created lol

Point still proven.

Send me ur feet in pm upon further review.

 

[Hater Eraser]

My theory is it's the new normal.

Think about the girls who are growing up with Instagram. Going from hundreds or thousands of men giving you attention that you can flirt with from age 13 or earlier, it's hard for their brain to accept being satisfied with one man, no matter how much you love him. Once you expose the brain to supernormal stimuli like constant novelty, it's really hard to ween yourself off it. Similar to a porn addict. A guy who's been watching many new porn videos daily since childhood just can't get the same stimuluation from one girl no matter how much he loves her, hence the exponential surge in erectile dysfunction among otherwise physically fit young men.

Sounds funny, but their brains may actually be wired to crave constant new male attention thanks to early and extensive social media use.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Ayesha curry Seen them insta thots and how they was living and getting flown out and probably getting fukked on an air mattress and was like ...

 

[Hater Eraser]

But a lot do. A lot of men are single and think of women as a mystery because they simply haven't taken the time to think like how they do.

Female humans of almost every culture are taught from a very young age that attention=love. They are socialized to think that you should be praised for how you appear and not what you accomplish. With males it's the opposite. This is why men are so good when it comes to humor because we learn from an early age that we are laughed at and can be made fun of because of how we appear. We then know not to put that much stock into how we appear to others.

The guys who flex with Rolex, suits and expensive cars are signaling to other men "I have achieved a higher status through my efforts"

Women dont go through this process, and so are told either outrightly or subtly that attention based on looks is extremely important, and it is an achievement if a woman attracts the attention of the type of man that many other women want.

Do yall think it's a coincidence that the people who spend the most time on Instagram and Twitter are women? Do yall think it's a coincidence you can go to a store and the mens section is significantly smaller than the women's section? Do yall think it's a coincidence that the beauty industry for women's products alone is a multibillion dollar force?

If you refuse to give women attention that they haven't earned, it makes you more of an interesting person. If a man feels that he needs more than some tight clothing and makeup to invest his time into a woman, shes more likely to see him as a mystery and want to understand and spend time with him. Negus have to raise their standards. Not every woman is worth your time and attention. They need to work for it just like you need to work for theirs. If we truly in an equal society that's how it should be and that's how I've moved in my dating life and I've had success ever since.

 

[Chrishaune]

What the fukk are we talking about in here???

Somebody point me to the thread/article/video.....