If you're a loser with no interests who is incapable of spending time alone or doing any kind of self-reflection
its not that it’s just after hitting a bunch a broads it gets boring lol. I’m tired of hitting a chick and being over her the next day.
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its not that it’s just after hitting a bunch a broads it gets boring lol. I’m tired of hitting a chick and being over her the next day.
BaldingSoHard
Banned
Yeah I ended my 11 year LTR back in 2015. She was I guess a good woman but life has literally been
ever since.
Womb Raider
5* Gooneral
eh IDK about that
being with a good woman can be great. however, like another poster before me said, the weight of obligations is not particularly fun. it can be very stressful. being single definitely has its ups and downs too. going home after work to peace and quiet with no one to answer to >>>
a wise man once told me "if you want to go fast, go alone. if you want to go further, go together"
it all depends on your perspective. right now I'm talking to a good woman but I'm still single. going to try to prolong it, if i can.
being with a good woman can be great. however, like another poster before me said, the weight of obligations is not particularly fun. it can be very stressful. being single definitely has its ups and downs too. going home after work to peace and quiet with no one to answer to >>>
a wise man once told me "if you want to go fast, go alone. if you want to go further, go together"
it all depends on your perspective. right now I'm talking to a good woman but I'm still single. going to try to prolong it, if i can.
Haha. Strangely enough I was in a relationship with a woman who was half Angolan/Portuguese. She wasn't that bad at the start but once she got too comfortable
"Do you miss me?" bytch I just saw you an hour ago.
"You haven't text me since this morning. Have I done something wrong? "
"Why do you just want to stay in this weekend? Let's go to some shytty place that only I like but I'll act as if it benefits us both."
"Why do you laugh more around your friends?"
"Why are you so quiet?" Whilst I'm sleeping.
i always thought i wanted a woman like this...until I got one. I mean, semi-clingy means they really want/love you, right? They really care about you to the point of obsession almost and want you around right? She'll be loyal right?
Wrong...wrong.
Chicks like that also are quicker to lose interest bc they're TOO into it and there's nowhere for that level of attraction to go but down.
And the reason is bc, even if u really like them, you can NEVER do enough to satisfy that level of need/clingyness they have. And so then they think you've lost interest and they'll take that as a sign to start quietly taking applications from other dudes.
Then this girl that was obsessed with you 2 weeks ago is now obsessing over a new dude and break up with you with no emotion. And you like "damn, I did everything for you, I really cared about you, etc. You couldn't see all that? " And it means nothing to her cuz all that obsession is now with new guy.
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Exfukkingzactly, that’s why you just need to realize most women are on a scale of annoying, crazy, dumb so just find the one you can stand the most and keep it moving
Also, a lot of brehs need to realize that being with a so called “good women”, requires a lot of maintenance and sacrifice. It just does.
Yeah I ended my 11 year LTR back in 2015. She was I guess a good woman but life has literally been
This scares me.
BaldingSoHard
Banned
How so breh?
AyBrehHam Linkin
First Black Brehsident
honestly seems like alot of yall dont pick your bytch well. And don't say that shyt "ive dated tons of women."
nikka you can pick the wrong mf every time too cus ive witnessed women do the same shyt since 9th grade n we in our mid 20s now
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I mean, ive only been with my girl about 2 months officially and 6-7 months total so it's hella early but i honestly think this the girl im down to live long n raise kids with
. We'll see how it goes
Not gonna lie, as an introvert, i kinda miss being single, but like bob marley said you gotta find the ones worth suffering for.
nikka you can pick the wrong mf every time too cus ive witnessed women do the same shyt since 9th grade n we in our mid 20s now
.I mean, ive only been with my girl about 2 months officially and 6-7 months total so it's hella early but i honestly think this the girl im down to live long n raise kids with
. We'll see how it goesNot gonna lie, as an introvert, i kinda miss being single, but like bob marley said you gotta find the ones worth suffering for.
MajesticLion
Veteran
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Nah. Crazy or not, if you cut certain things out of your tolerance filters, the women/women you deal with will adjust. They only reason the games get played is because they nag fellas into getting tired of saying "no" and you just go along with whatever folly pops into their heads. Another big factor is that people get so focused on chasing money that they tell themselves the interpersonal stuff isn't as important and they half ass it...and that couldn't not be further from the truth. If your home and family life ain't right, nothing is right. Whether or not you actually make the paper you're chasing, you're going to end up just like so many women out here with whatever professional accomplishments, in your mid-30s or 40s, suddenly wondering how to talk to people, how to make any kind of lasting bonds, why you don't have the kind of relationship/communication you "deserve"...the usual refrains. Like a lot of the other truly important stuff, that's best learned when you're younger. You can learn Cantonese in your 50s, but it's a lot easier to absorb when you're five. Love is the same kind of language: the sooner the better.
Be an active participant in your life, don't just let life happen to you.
Yeah I ended my 11 year LTR back in 2015. She was I guess a good woman but life has literally been
How hard was the initial breakup? Like I said earlier I just broke up with my gf last night (we been living together and raising her daughter for 4 yrs, Coli sin, I know) and this shyt got me REELING
it’s the logical decision and is for the best at this point, but goddamn the emotional roller coaster is
O.T.I.S.
Veteran
nikkaa is lying pretending they going to work just so they can get peace from their old ladys now?.I took off from work one day without telling my wife on purpose cuz I knew she wouldn’t be home. I did it literally so I can just drink a beer listen to a podcast and fall asleep for hours to catch up.
You not workin today
Yea I didn’t feel good
ok well that’s good anyway. You can help me get some stuff from target. We need to get more diapers
The day was mine no more bra”s
...i might have to try that
we don’t live together as of yet, but I might have to call in one night just to go kick it with friends. My only thing is, my girl actually is at home more times than not. So I would have to leave and go to the movies or some shyt to waste time, then go kick it until like 5am.
if most my homies still lived here i would just go to their house and sleep until the am
Seems OD but i can guarantee something stupid like this will have to happen one day
BaldingSoHard
Banned
How hard was the initial breakup? Like I said earlier I just broke up with my gf last night (we been living together and raising her daughter for 4 yrs, Coli sin, I know) and this shyt got me REELING
it’s the logical decision and is for the best at this point, but goddamn the emotional roller coaster is
It was different for me. I had been over the relationship for 2 years before I actually pulled the trigger. The hard part was for me that she was completely emotionally and financially dependent on me. She literally had nothing, so most of the pain I felt was knowing she had to start over from square 1 at age 32. I felt terrible for about 6 months, but it was absolutely necessary.
The good news is that she grew up since then. Got her masters in law and graduated top of her class. She's working as an attorney now in Seattle, probably making more than I am.
I hope she is happy.
Silky Johnson
The Master Investbreh
Who raised you nukkas? 
I've been with my wife almost 10 years now and only keep other married couples in my circle. The thing we all have in common is this: We married our best friend.
Yall making it so hard and emulating the toxic households you came up in. When you first meet a woman, you should vibe with her seamlessly. If you don't, leave her and move on to the next. All this other stuff is a waste of time.
I've been with my wife almost 10 years now and only keep other married couples in my circle. The thing we all have in common is this: We married our best friend.
Yall making it so hard and emulating the toxic households you came up in. When you first meet a woman, you should vibe with her seamlessly. If you don't, leave her and move on to the next. All this other stuff is a waste of time.