Just broke up with my gf of 4 years a few hours ago. I know I made the right decision but man the emotions

Haha. Strangely enough I was in a relationship with a woman who was half Angolan/Portuguese. She wasn't that bad at the start but once she got too comfortableRwanda. I don't know much about S.A women, but Angolan women can be like that depending on their economic status.
when she gets to the hamstrings and calves breh
she also brings me home 3 bottles of beer every single time she comes. I don't even ask, it's routine. She's a good. Sometimes I think about being single, and I have pushed her away, then I go 2 weeks by myself and while walking to get my own beer, before scrubbing the sink, and then after getting a knot in my back, I think "call that girl now, you stupid fool"
Of course I can do everything myself, could always take my arse to a massage parlour, but she's positioned herself so well that you literally don't want to do that and just want her. That's how you know shes positioned herself to be a partner, and not someone leeching.![]()
Just broke up with my gf of 4 years a few hours ago. I know I made the right decision but man the emotions![]()
Which part of Africa are you from? It was South Africa right? My ex's did all of those things but they acted as if they were doing me a favor. Like I should be grateful to even be in their presence. Not always explicitly but definitely always implied.
It's this entitlement attitude that sickens me. Like p*ssy is a reward. And add to that, having to deal with the bullshyt that comes with it.
I've had brehs bring women from the mother land but the moment they become westernised, it's all downhill from there.
I used to do this.![]()
I'm single and tell broads i got
a ole lady to keep shyt entertaining.
playing no favorites and taking no prisoners.
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My bachelor years were some of the best years of my life, sex w/random women for 2 years straight
but that living alone shyt got old..you could slip and fall in the shower and nobody knows you're in there for days, maybe even weeks.
I don’t necessarily agree with this. Nothing along there sense of fukk them kids mommy needs a life too, but I think you have to nurture your relationship. If the family is intact the kids will ultimately have a more secure home and relationship with their parents imo. I think it’s a mistake in relationships when people let themselves take a backseat and focus solely on their kids. A strong bond between the parents will lead to a stronger household, I hope you understand what I’m saying. I am not saying neglect your children, just that when the sole focus becomes child rearing, either party can feel less than.
I just feel like focusing on each other will still yield the same results if you are both of the same mindset.