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[raoulduke187]

I miss being in a relationship until I get an actual glimpse of what it is then I'm like nah breh...I'm good

 

[Cat piss martini]

I'm single and tell broads i got
a ole lady to keep shyt entertaining.
playing no favorites and taking no prisoners.

 

[twan83]

These women driving me crazy

shyt I ignore her and go bout my business when she acting dumb
She settles down and apologizes and I blow her back
And all is well in the world after I spend some of her money for causing my head hurt in return

 

[Balla]

@neotheflyingone

Bro did you just get in a relationship? I could have sworn you was apart of sleezeball gang.

 

[Robo Squirrel]

Breh I'm with you. My girl pissed me right the fukk off today I'm in here drinking mad as fukk rn

 

[ChatGPT-5]

Brehs.. I'm really starting to ask myself what women truly bring to the table other than a p*ssy, a warm meal and having my children. This isn't some incel post... I've been really asking myself this for the past year.

So many of my friends are still with their lady either because of the children or the fear of being lonely. And these were good women on paper before they got married or had children. Almost all of them switched up afterwards.

When I want laughter I've got my friends. When I need a nut, I've got my Friends With Benefits. I've got my playstation and books to keep me occupied. I genuinely don't miss companionship at all. How is p*ssy a reward for dealing with nagging, bytching, a headache, trying to keep a woman satisfied?

And don't say choose better. I've dated and been in relationships with all kinds of women, and no matter what they are all draining at some point. It's like dealing with babies. Constantly having to give them attention, validate their existence. I've never been happier since I've been single.

When the "Feed Me, fukk Me and STFU"2000 Robot is released... I'll be first in line.

This must be a first world problem.

My girl gives me full body massages (I can ask at any time), goes grocery shopping, cleans my house, cooks, if I ask her to get me a glass of water there's no hesitation. Just like I provide the bills, protection, house, conversation, emotional support. We both have our position. It appears your women have none other than p*ssy and that's sad.

 

[Reality]

Lol, I love her ass and don’t wanna be without her. I just need alone time sometimes

This, they don't get it. It's mad frustrating

Nah, we get it. We're just old enough to understand what this is - unhealthy and not worth it.

No no, we do get it breh.

Trust me, I've felt what you feel.

The difference is that we're old. We've been there and back.

And we've learned that you can absolutely be without her and be happy.

Trust me.

You'll never regret respecting yourself. And the right woman will respect you as well.

This thread describes a life that is completely miserable for men.

Don't live that.

Truth.

You dont get it breh. THEY'RE ALL THE SAME


Breaking up with one to get with another one solves nothing

We ain't talking about one woman. We talking about them all

Most. Not all.

This is what I'm feeling right now. I'm going through some health issues at the moment and she still expecting me to be "that nikka"

They make u feel like an entertainer on stage every day

Provide
Ok

Protect
Ok

Be her rock
Ok

Be her confidante
Ok

Be there for her
Ok








But when you need something

Then they look at you like

I was going to school and pulling 16 hour days w/ an ex getting mad at me for calling her at the end of the day. When she lived in a different time zone. And calling her at the beginning of the day would mean needing to call her at 5am her time. AKA impossible. I asked her if we could just make that our time and be happy to speak to one another and she said no. Showed her my calendar and asked her for solutions and she said "You're the man, you figure it out." A lot of these women will get away with what you let them get away with on some callback to a different time when they don't even want to play their roles. Avoid that trap. You'll be much, much happier.

I bushed that girl and me and my new one haven't even had a single argument in over a year of dating. Seriously. We've had conflict, difficult discussions, but it's always on a foundation of mutual respect and never even gotten heated. I refuse to tolerate that kind of relationship at this point. Life is stressful enough. We both see each other as prizes in the relationship and treat each other as such. The moment she stops acting that way is the moment I walk. But I'm fully prepared to be alone and have meditated on that as a possibility even later in life.

Brehs.. I'm really starting to ask myself what women truly bring to the table other than a p*ssy, a warm meal and having my children. This isn't some incel post... I've been really asking myself this for the past year.

So many of my friends are still with their lady either because of the children or the fear of being lonely. And these were good women on paper before they got married or had children. Almost all of them switched up afterwards.

When I want laughter I've got my friends. When I need a nut, I've got my Friends With Benefits. I've got my playstation and books to keep me occupied. I genuinely don't miss companionship at all. How is p*ssy a reward for dealing with nagging, bytching, a headache, trying to keep a woman satisfied?

And don't say choose better. I've dated and been in relationships with all kinds of women, and no matter what they are all draining at some point. It's like dealing with babies. Constantly having to give them attention, validate their existence. I've never been happier since I've been single.

When the "Feed Me, fukk Me and STFU"2000 Robot is released... I'll be first in line.

And that's the problem. Too many men (myself included at a point in my life) thought it was normal to deal with this bullshyt because we put p*ssy on a pedestal. Once you remove that power from women, you truly see their nature.

@neotheflyingone said perfect, we're expected to be charming, entertaining, providers, emotional comforters etc etc. And then you look at her think "wait, if I'm all these things, what are you doing?" They'll either hide behind "raising the children" or usually they're stumped. Being pretty and sucking dikk should be in no way equal to what I bring to the table.

I asked my ex what she was bringing to the table. Her response "I love you, I'm always there when you need me, I care about you." Wtf? At that moment I knew I had to bush her. I'm not saying those aren't good traits to have but I was bringing way more to the table than she was. Since I've been doing better for myself, I've come to the conclusion that the only reason to have a wife is for having my children. Outside of that, I'm really not seeing the value.

Real talk, children is the only reason I would get married. I've told my girl as much and let her know that a woman's potential as partner (not necessarily even in terms of earnings)and mother is paramount. I love my girl but if I ever decide I don't want kids, or if she changes her mind and says she doesn't want them, our ceiling is as life partners.

I'm not on some red pill shyt, but you need to realize that our culture is in a transitional point where a sledgehammer has been taken to traditional expectations of women while society only sands away at traditional expectations of men. A lot of women truly have a toxic perspective on what men should bring to the table vs. themselves, as do a lot of men, and it destroys the happiness and actual health of many, many dudes. "Happy wife happy life" is ingrained and taken for granted in a way that is toxic but dudes just shrug that off instead of thinking critically about what that actually means. Not to say there aren't women who don't get steamrolled and mistreated by their dudes every day, because this is obviously the case, but the converse situation really doesn't get the attention it needs because the damage is emotional rather than dramatically physical.

The only men I know who are miserable are the one's who live false lives trying to please people around them at the cost of themselves. Cut that shyt out. Men today are attempting to bring happiness to the unhappy; it is not your job to do what a parent was suppose to do. You have already fukked up your union and most likely nothing will change it. A woman built on looking for drama has entertainment is a slow poison in your bloodstream.

They all show the signs early on. Men just refuse to see what some of these women really are - the easiest sign is she doesn't listen. You set your standards from day one and if she can't meet up with em, bushes.

My wife knows the day she tries to bring in misery into our household, I'm gone. Not dealing with bullshyt, we are already black in a country out to screw us over at every corner; you and I are not about to become each other problems.

This this this this this. Young brehs, please don't waste your time with these kind of women. It can be cool to date 'em, have fun w/ them, whatever, but don't invite them into your actual lives. You're just inviting disaster.

I'm not religious but the Bible has some absolute gems in terms of evaluating women in Proverbs.

On avoiding headache women

It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop than to share a house with a quarrelsome woman (Proverbs 21:9).

It is better to dwell in the wilderness than with a quarrelsome and angry woman (Proverbs 21:19).

A never-ending dripping on a very rainy day and a contentious woman are alike (Proverbs 27:15).

Such is the way of an adulterous woman: she eats, and wipes her mouth, and says, 'I have done no wickedness' (Proverbs 30:20).

On having your women bring something to the table / adding value to the house

She will do him (her husband) good and not evil all the days of her life. She seeks wool and flax, and works willingly with her hands.

She is like the merchants' ships; she brings her food from afar.

She considers a field and buys it; with the fruit of her hands she plants a vineyard. She binds her loins with strength and makes her arms strong. She sees that her merchandise is good; her lamp does not go out by night.

She makes fine linen and sells it, and delivers girdles to the merchants. Strength and dignity are her clothing, and she shall rejoice in time to come.

She looks well to the ways of her household, and does not eat the bread of idleness.

Give her of the fruit of her hands, and let her own works praise her in the gates (Proverbs 31:12 - 14, 16 - 18, 24 - 25, 27, 31).

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

It’s mercury Gatorade

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

This must be a first world problem.

My girl gives me full body massages (I can ask at any time), goes grocery shopping, cleans my house, cooks, if I ask her to get me a glass of water there's no hesitation. Just like I provide the bills, protection, house, conversation, emotional support. We both have our position. It appears your women have none other than p*ssy and that's sad.

Full body massages?

 

[Brehcepticon]

#SingleGang and #HandsomeGang at the same time

 

[Coli Bot]

I just miss the quiet. No issues to deal with but my own
Now I gotta hear about people i don't know doing shyt I don't care about

But that loneliness does creep up on you...


I don't know which one is worse anymore

One of the biggest dilemmas a man has to face.

 

[ChatGPT-5]

Full body massages?

when she gets to the hamstrings and calves breh

she also brings me home 3 bottles of beer every single time she comes. I don't even ask, it's routine. She's a good. Sometimes I think about being single, and I have pushed her away, then I go 2 weeks by myself and while walking to get my own beer, before scrubbing the sink, and then after getting a knot in my back, I think "call that girl now, you stupid fool"

Of course I can do everything myself, could always take my arse to a massage parlour, but she's positioned herself so well that you literally don't want to do that and just want her. That's how you know shes positioned herself to be a partner, and not someone leeching.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

At least you fukking.
Consider yourself lucky

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

when she gets to the hamstrings and calves breh

She got a sister breh? I will fly to her wherever you are

 

[ChatGPT-5]

She got a sister breh? I will fly to her wherever you are

see edit.

no sister but her cousins are kind of
I don't know them real well though.