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This is what I'm feeling right now. I'm going through some health issues at the moment and she still expecting me to be "that nikka"
They make u feel like an entertainer on stage every day
Provide
Ok
Protect
Ok
Be her rock
Ok
Be her confidante
Ok
Be there for her
Ok
But when you need something
Then they look at you like![]()
I disagree based on my experiences. Majority yeah, but you keep looking. You don’t give up and settle for a chick causing you problems. It’s like anything else in life. Like attracts like for the most part.You dont get it breh. THEY'RE ALL THE SAME
Breaking up with one to get with another one solves nothing
We ain't talking about one woman. We talking about them all![]()
This is marriage.
How is p*ssy a reward for dealing with nagging, bytching, a headache, trying to keep a woman satisfied?
And that's the problem. Too many men (myself included at a point in my life) thought it was normal to deal with this bullshyt because we put p*ssy on a pedestal. Once you remove that power from women, you truly see their nature.This is an important point because the truth is... it's not.
That is, unless you want progeny, then spending your life protecting and providng for a woman is absolutely unquestionably not a good choice when talking about the majority of women.
It's the kids that make it worth it, and if she's not a good mother and / or you don't want kids, then quite simply you're better off alone..
Note: This applies to the majority of women, not all women. There are rare exceptions and outliers, like my girl.
And that's the problem. Too many men (myself included at a point in my life) thought it was normal to deal with this bullshyt because we put p*ssy on a pedestal. Once you remove that power from women, you truly see their nature.
@neotheflyingone said perfect, we're expected to be charming, entertaining, providers, emotional comforters etc etc. And then you look at her think "wait, if I'm all these things, what are you doing?" They'll either hide behind "raising the children" or usually they're stumped. Being pretty and sucking dikk should be in no way equal to what I bring to the table.
I asked my ex what she was bringing to the table. Her response "I love you, I'm always there when you need me, I care about you." Wtf? At that moment I knew I had to bush her. I'm not saying those aren't good traits to have but I was bringing way more to the table than she was. Since I've been doing better for myself, I've come to the conclusion that the only reason to have a wife is for having my children. Outside of that, I'm really not seeing the value.
I 100% agree. At this point, I'm just making sure my roster has good potential mothering qualities. It's damn near rare to find a nymphomaniac who's the perfect mother. That's trying to find our version of Tupac In a Business Suit.You're absolutely right, breh.
I will say, though, that a good mother for my children is priceless. But we have to choose wisely.
Men need to learn to look past the fat ass and the biological imperative to "wife a dime". I know the allure is irresistible (that's why it's called a biological imperative). But we need to resist it and hold out for a virtuous woman who is all about the kids.
Literally anything else is a mistake, imo.