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[CookisaCac]

I dont understand OP and the title. There's literally nothing stopping you from being single. That's like a rich person saying poor people are lucky but the rich people continue to keep all their money.

 

[Hoshi_Toshi]

Gotta go back and read through this. Looks informative

 

[semicko82]

No they don't. Look at some of the responses in here. There are men who are with women who don't make them miserable. You are using that as an excuse for choosing the wrong woman.

The greatest lie ever told was men do the choosing, it's more like women do the choosing, but every breh has to know what he was chosen for

 

[seabreeze80]

The greatest lie ever told was men do the choosing, it's more like women do the choosing, but every breh has to know what he was chosen for

That's a convo for another day. Every individual chooses who has a right to share their space. My point is that no one should continue to stay with someone who makes them miserable. That's not normal.
They are literally telling themselves that "all women make men miserable" as an excuse to stay in a toxic relationship. Something wrong with these men or they chose the wrong woman. No one in your inner circle should make you miserable. Life is too short for that nonsense.

 

[semicko82]

That's a convo for another day. Every individual chooses who has a right to share their space. My point is that no one should continue to stay with someone who makes them miserable. That's not normal.
They are literally telling themselves that "all women make men miserable" as an excuse to stay in a toxic relationship. Something wrong with these men or they chose the wrong woman. No one in your inner circle should make you miserable. Life is too short for that nonsense.

Real shyt

 

[Youseenmywork]

That's incel talk

 

[BeeGoinCrazy]

I had two people in just the past week (male and female) tell me to never get married

My pops told me don’t get married like last year or so. But he be hella lying He’ll mutter shyt about his wife then the next minute he’s on some type shyt. His wife is like 60 something years old, clingy, “college educated”, and loves to hear her own voice. He really convinces himself he has a prize

 

[MidniteJay]

Took me almost 8 years on the coli to finally get a 100 dap post...

 

[Gyasi85]

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

I gotta say, it's really refreshing to see so many men really starting to have standards out here. Being single is not the same thing as being lonely. Too many men get pushed into terrible relationships because of a combination of biological imperatives and social pressure. Women have all these expectations for men that they want, meanwhile brehs have very little expectations other than "look good and don't annoy me". We off that.

Does she have a good sense of humor and know how to pick up on your jokes and enhance them?
Is she intelligent and does she put you on to some new info?
Does she share your interests, or respect your right to enjoy them and encourages you to?
Is she in tune with your emotions and able to see things from your point of view?
Does she bring positive energy into your life?
Can she put you on to new things that you will like because she's taken the time to learn what you already like?
Does she have a strong work ethic and support your hustle?
Does she respect your time, your family, your friends, and your right to spend time with them however you want to?

You take the p*ssy out of the equation and you start to see that a lot of women out here are self-centered and have no personality because they never needed to. Too many men don't expect more out of women so we've created a scenario where women think they should occupy special status because they throw the box at you(that in itself is insulting and condescending because it implies at best, you should be honored that she wants to fukk you and at worst, it implies that she sees it as a chore that she gets nothing out of)

I suggest any man who is evaluating their current relationship or wants to start a new one should list their values and goals. Take looks and temperament out of the picture and ask yourself "what kind of person do I want to share my time and space with?" and don't settle for anything less than what you deserve. If you're willing to put in the work, you should know that the other person is bringing just as much if not more to the table. That the other person will be an asset in your life instead of a liability.

 

[Coli Bot]

I gotta say, it's really refreshing to see so many men really starting to have standards out here. Being single is not the same thing as being lonely. Too many men get pushed into terrible relationships because of a combination of biological imperatives and social pressure. Women have all these expectations for men that they want, meanwhile brehs have very little expectations other than "look good and don't annoy me". We off that.

Does she have a good sense of humor and know how to pick up on your jokes and enhance them?
Is she intelligent and does she put you on to some new info?
Does she share your interests, or respect your right to enjoy them and encourages you to?
Is she in tune with your emotions and able to see things from your point of view?
Does she bring positive energy into your life?
Can she put you on to new things that you will like because she's taken the time to learn what you already like?
Does she have a strong work ethic and support your hustle?
Does she respect your time, your family, your friends, and your right to spend time with them however you want to?

You take the p*ssy out of the equation and you start to see that a lot of women out here are self-centered and have no personality because they never needed to. Too many men don't expect more out of women so we've created a scenario where women think they should occupy special status because they throw the box at you(that in itself is insulting and condescending because it implies at best, you should be honored that she wants to fukk you and at worst, it implies that she sees it as a chore that she gets nothing out of)

I suggest any man who is evaluating their current relationship or wants to start a new one should list their values and goals. Take looks and temperament out of the picture and ask yourself "what kind of person do I want to share my time and space with?" and don't settle for anything less than what you deserve. If you're willing to put in the work, you should know that the other person is bringing just as much if not more to the table. That the other person will be an asset in your life instead of a liability.

Don't forget having no debt as a criteria. Too many men taking on women's debt problems.

 

[GreenGhxst]

honestly seems like alot of yall dont pick your bytch well. And don't say that shyt "ive dated tons of women."

nikka you can pick the wrong mf every time too cus ive witnessed women do the same shyt since 9th grade n we in our mid 20s now.


I mean, ive only been with my girl about 2 months officially and 6-7 months total so it's hella early but i honestly think this the girl im down to live long n raise kids with . We'll see how it goes


Not gonna lie, as an introvert, i kinda miss being single, but like bob marley said you gotta find the ones worth suffering for.

I hate when nikkas do this

You just have an affinity for ain't shyt bytches, stop acting like we're all as foolish as you are

 

[Trapperman Dave]

It ain’t easy, but somebody gotta do it uglygang don’t take Ls

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

I dont understand OP and the title. There's literally nothing stopping you from being single. That's like a rich person saying poor people are lucky but the rich people continue to keep all their money.

That's what I tried to tell him. It's better to go head and go. Otherwise you just wasting time.

 

[LightSkinYeshua]

How long has this been going on?

we going on 4 months