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[Rice'N Beckford]

THIS THREAD GOT ME THINKIN IM THE ONLY nikka WIT HIS NUTS STILL

 

[King Poetic]

Don't forget having no debt as a criteria. Too many men taking on women's debt problems.

bingo.... I would tell every dude if u considering marriage , please do your financial background check on the chick

especially shyt like credit cards and any car loans

I would say stay n engaged to her for a year or two until your investigation is done on her financials

 

[Pimpdaddy]

Someone please dap this post so I can find this thread later

I really would've forgot about this thread

I love ya'll

 

[mamba]

bingo.... I would tell every dude if u considering marriage , please do your financial background check on the chick

especially shyt like credit cards and any car loans

I would say stay n engaged to her for a year or two until your investigation is done on her financials

This cannot be emphasized enough.

Women are great at hiding their financial fukkups. She might be carrying close to six-figure debt and you might not even know!

 

[King Poetic]

This cannot be emphasized enough.

Women are great at hiding their financial fukkups. She might be carrying close to six-figure debt and you might not even know!

Exactly...

With the woman I’m dating, I logged onto the local county auditor to see if she has any unpaid taxes and type of criminal background

I also try to open women up about they past relationships and dating, to see if I’m dealing with a reform hoe or just a regular chick who had a limited amount of sexual partners

 

[ThrobbingHood]

@mamba @Supreme Clientele , you both hit the nail on the head. Always do your due diligence and check their background. Social media, LinkedIn, credit history etc.

Personally, knowing what I know now, I wouldn't let a woman move in with me unless she's my wife. I know that's not financially feasible for alot of people, hence cohabiting but trust me. . It works out better in the long term.

If anything... spend a few days at hers and vice versa if you're getting serious but DO NOT move in with each other if you're not at the very least engaged.

 

[mamba]

@ThrobbingHood , good points.

Always do your homework. Too many nikkas have married women only to find out later about undeclared or understated debts these women are carrying.

I had an ex-gf like this. She told me she had student loans from her undergraduate days. About one year in, she also let it slip out that she had additional loans from an MBA she never finished and some CC debt. She never fully quantified how much she really owed.

I never believed anything she had to say about her finances after that. Bushed her.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

@mamba that reminds me.. finances are only second to infidelity as to being the main cause of divorce or separation.

If you move in together and have a joint bank account... only put in money to cover the bills and always keep an eye on the money going in and out. I don't care how long you've been together for.

DO NOT have a joint savings account and if you have to have one. . Make sure it's an account that both of you have to be present for (combined signatures) to make any kind of withdrawal.

The amount of times I've seen wives clear out a husband's account with his knowledge. I'm talking hundreds of thousands. And legally, there was nothing they could do.

When my ex lived with me.. we had a joint account solely for paying the bills. She didn't know nor did she need to know how much I had in my savings or bank account. I work in finance so I've seen it all. Too many men get.p*ssy whipped and end up being cleared out.

There should only be three accounts: my money, your money, OUR money.

 

[mamba]

@mamba that reminds me.. finances are only second to infidelity as to being the main cause of divorce or separation.

If you move in together and have a joint bank account... only put in money to cover the bills and always keep an eye on the money going in and out. I don't care how long you've been together for.

DO NOT have a joint savings account and if you have to have one. . Make sure it's an account that both of you have to be present for (combined signatures) to make any kind of withdrawal.

The amount of times I've seen wives clear out a husband's account with his knowledge. I'm talking hundreds of thousands. And legally, there was nothing they could do.

When my ex lived with me.. we had a joint account solely for paying the bills. She didn't know nor did she need to know how much I had in my savings or bank account. I work in finance so I've seen it all. Too many men get.p*ssy whipped and end up being cleared out.

There should only be three accounts: my money, your money, OUR money.

You’re spitting nothing but facts!

It’s easy to let p*ssy cloud your thinking as a man and get caught slipping.

If I do ever marry, my wife isn’t touching any of the money I enter the marriage with. Joint account for bills is the way to go.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

 

[johntheblackjew]

oh boy

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

 

[SheWantTheD]

Got any kids? Nope

Married? Nope

Then leave you p*ssy.

 

[Bossino]

Shyt is sounding more and more like an incel recruitment thread.

Nah, for me it seems more like a MGTOW thread men just getting to the point where they are off women (barring convenient sex, and strictly pleasant encounters), frankly something we shoulda been done

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

nikkas that are married don't wanna go home
But we look up to them, they wish they were us
They want some new trim, we lust for some trust



Cant live with em or without em

This is one of my favourite verses.