A is who they marry
B is who they sleep with
One of the comments gave the whole game away when she said she's had B and now she wants A. Thing is, once you've had B, you will have a harder time feeling as excited for a husky square dude over the exciting fit man. This sort of thing happens all the time.
B slides into the woman's DMs talmbout "hey I know it's been a while. Hoping you're doing okay and staying safe . If you ever wanna get together for a drink or something here's my number " she creeps his profile and notices hes still working out, taking care of his body and well oh shyt now he's doing a little better in life. He looking like he about to finally get it together. She ignores it but then one night she gets into an argument with A. Then thinks back to B and how whenever they argued, they'd fukk afterwards for like 1hr straight meanwhile

A just goes to his man cave to watch Cosby show reruns or some other corny shyt.
Now she feeling horny, angry at her current dude who she know can't give her that marathon sex and she says 'fukk it' and texts A. Yall know what happens next.
You owe it to yourself to do the best you can to be healthy in all domains of your life. Physical, financial, emotional, spirit, mental. If you aren't growing and learning you're stagnating and declining. Women don't want to have to choose between A and B. They want C. Who is the best of both worlds. A man with problems, but who addresses those problems. A's problems are aesthetic and mental, Bs problems are psychosocial. B makes poor choices but takes care of himself. A makes good choices but neglects himself. A is interesting because he's found himself in unusual situations, B is boring because he doesn't have stories of how he fukked up. C is someone who found himself in unusual situations and has a toxic past, but has moved on and grown. C is the best of both worlds and who they're holding out on for the most part.