At the end of the day, guys gotta understand that some women especially when they get up in age are looking for someone to provide for them so they can cruise towards the end of their lives peacefully.
Most of them already had a “B” throughout their younger days so they are aware of what they're getting from him and if you ever heard the saying “been there, done that” which in other words, means they aren't missing anything as they've had that kind of man before and aren't as eager to get back with him knowing what's waiting for them upon arrival to his doorsteps.
To be clear, I'm speaking of an older woman who's of the articulate type, not a bird brain.