90% of men can pull an 8

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Most dudes can level up to a respectable level through
  • Hitting the gym
  • Stop putting women on pedestals
  • Getting their paper up
  • Leaving the fukking house
  • Not watching porn
  • Proper grooming
  • Fitted clothing
With enough time, they could pull damn near any girl that’s at least an 8 or 7


All in all, dudes have more power in the dating game than they realize :manny:
All facts but you have to have a certain mentality to do all that. Boohoo woe-is-me dudes hate hearing that and improving. The mentality is a problem. Some will never have it.
 

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Most dudes can level up to a respectable level through
  • Hitting the gym
  • Stop putting women on pedestals
  • Getting their paper up
  • Leaving the fukking house
  • Not watching porn
  • Proper grooming
  • Fitted clothing
With enough time, they could pull damn near any girl that’s at least an 8 or 7


All in all, dudes have more power in the dating game than they realize :manny:

All facts, especially the bolded.

I will add:
  • Stop caring about fukking on the first date
 

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HOW?
HOW?
HOW?
HOW?

Y'all dudes gotta do better than regurgitate tired lines

From a previous thread...

Learn to focus on yourself and understand your worth. Put YOURSELF on a pedestal.

Understand that men are the prize, and that it's the job of women (all women, everywhere collectively... even our mothers and sisters) to convince you otherwise.

Don't let them convince you otherwise.

Example:

Couple years ago I knew a breh who was a carpenter. Young breh, maybe 28 years old. Not supremely handsome, but a good dude with a good head on his shoulders. But he was heavy into Instagram and shyt and it had done a number on his mind.

He was describing that he was having trouble meeting women. He said that women were turned off when he told them he was a carpenter, because they wanted a white-collar dude, or a baller or a dude with more potential or whatever.

So I thought on this for a minute :jbhmm: and asked...

"What do these women bring to the table?"

He paused, confused and asked what I meant.

I said...

"You're a carpenter... which means that if you get one of your electrical brehs, a plumbing breh, an HVAC breh, and a breh who pours concrete... the five of you collectively could build any of those women a house with your bare hands."

I paused to let him think on that. Then I said...

"If you combined the five most competent women you've been rejected by, what could they accomplish, collectively? They could probably take a hell of a selfie. Maybe one of them is a nursing student. Maaaaaybe one of them can kinda cook. But really, what do they bring to the table?"

I could see on his face, breh was :dwillhuh:...:ohhh:....:mindblown:. So then he asked, "Ok, knowing that, what do I do? I still have to tell them I'm a carpenter."

I said, "If you really wanna play the game, do this. Go down to the post office and grab one of those LLC kits. Start an LLC. It will cost you about $200 dollars. Once that's done, you are a business owner. So now when you go on dates, instead of telling women that you're a carpenter, you tell them that you own a carpentry business. You'll be doing the exact same work and making the exact same money, but being a 'business owner' is more social-media acceptable than being a 'carpenter'. But understand that this is a tactic that will only work on what will end up being the wrong kind of woman. You'll eat off this, but you'll be eating popcorn when you should be looking for steak. The right kind of woman won't care what your job title is. She'll care about how you treat her and how you provide for her."

The point of this story: Women are largely worthless, but social media and simps have given them the bravado to demand whatever they want from men who, logically, should be out of their league. I'm not saying to hate women, but don't put them on a pedestal either. Their shyt stinks just like ours.

Men are the builders, the protectors, the providers. Understand your worth; hold out for a woman who inspires you to boss up to your potential. Hold out for a woman who makes you feel like you you never wanna tell another lie. And understand that it is ok not to have a woman at all, or to cut a woman off if she's acting up.

In the meantime, focus on yourself; because you don't get women by chasing them, you get women by being better than them.
 

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90% of men don't have the capability to pull an 8 even with meeting all of your criteria.

In all honesty, that list is a lot to ask of for the average kat. Most of these nikkas can't watch their fukking weight, yet you expect them to stick to a dedicated mentality of self-improvement:usure:?

Them even being able to do that puts them in a league of their own.
 

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That basketball picture :shaq:
 

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Most dudes can level up to a respectable level through
  • Hitting the gym
  • Stop putting women on pedestals
  • Getting their paper up
  • Leaving the fukking house
  • Not watching porn
  • Proper grooming
  • Fitted clothing
With enough time, they could pull damn near any girl that’s at least an 8 or 7


All in all, dudes have more power in the dating game than they realize :manny:
next time you guys are out and about look at how anti social folks have become. Won't even meet anybody's eyes.

If you can string a sentence and hold eye contact you should be able to pull anybody. Because folks have turned ignoring everyone a science. You'll stand out in a good way.
 

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Most dudes can level up to a respectable level through
  • Hitting the gym
  • Stop putting women on pedestals
  • Getting their paper up
  • Leaving the fukking house
  • Not watching porn
  • Proper grooming
  • Fitted clothing
With enough time, they could pull damn near any girl that’s at least an 8 or 7


All in all, dudes have more power in the dating game than they realize :manny:


You should write a book
 

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From a previous thread...


Great post breh :ohhh:

I’ve said it before honestly the best thing you can do is work on yourself. Good career, wardrobe, stay healthy and in shape, be humble, treating people with respect, stay out of trouble, stay away from low hanging fruit, be wise and view yourself higher than any chick you win.

You win because you are the best version of yourself and you did it for yourself and women want the best, and you also win because you're not afraid to walk away.

I started my new job like 4 weeks ago, once women see what I look like, that I have no kids, no ex drama and hear what I do for a living right away it's like stealing candy from a baby.

I've come along way even a few years ago I still thought I had to prove something to these chicks, or hoping they'd choose me or some lame azz ish like that
 
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