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[shutterguy]

I mean Amazon is always hiring but there are dudes who choose a life of crime. If they aren’t killing anybody, I try not to judge because the game is rigged against 99.9% of people.

But the real answer to this is that there is power in sex that some women choose to tap into. Im not prudish and I like to look at stuff rationally, so I don’t really automatically attach shame to this type of stuff. Do what you have to do. I know plenty of smart women who’ve supplemented their income with sexual work and didn’t have a tragic end. I’m personally not set up for that type of work but as long as a chick is moving smart and has a plan, I’m not going to tell a chick to give that Lexus back to that millionaire who gifted it to her for giving up some ass.

When you have such a huge amount of people with an obvious exploitable weakness with the way men obsess over p*ssy, it makes sense that there will be someone who sees the opportunity for what it is. So why women do it has never been confusing to me. The demand is there.

My confusion has been why men make such a fuss about it. If they really wanted to put a stop to it, more women wearing cardigans and holding Ted Talks would have 80 million male viewers going “look at the brains on her!” Instead that adultation goes to the very women men claim to hate. Women are market strategists. They see ya’ll like video games, and they wormed their way into that industry to give eye candy to desperados willing to buy bath water if gamer chicks. Women are now pandering to men on a KS tip.

It’s almost like men want women to be responsible for male weaknesses. It’s not up to the drug dealer to get his crackheads off crack. If men put forth just an ounce of sexual self control, they could bankrupt PornHub and harlotry overnight.

So I get why some women do it. The market is wide up. But my confusion about sex work is when I hear the tragic stories behind the industry. That’s when I’m like “ma’am we beez empowered now…you ain’t gotta suck dikk unless you want to!” I just don’t feel like women have to endure the violence and disrespect with that industry to make a dollar and STILL struggle. That model is so outdated unless you in dire straights in a 3rd world country or something. I don’t even understand why such bad things have to be associated with sex work in the first place. If men want sex and women are willing to share for a price, why all the drama?

Oh well, such is life.

On the bolded:

When the pandemic hit in 2020 and women in DROVES signed up for OF cause they knew men could and would pay for 18+ pics/videos/chat and they could potentially make bank on it, it shined a light on exactly how things are.

Bhad Bhabie or however you spell it, turns 18 and makes an OF that makes her over 1M in less than a day, insanity.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Yes sir

I ask you
the others are trying their best to be on some stupid shyt

if EVERYWHERE you went
school, church, supermarket, funeral EVERYWHERE
EVERY DAY EVERY YEAR

hundreds of men
I am not exaggerating
HUNDREDS of men are willing to pay money and try to get with these women

and they choose to NOT do that
go to school, menial jobs, held in lower positions etc etc etc
and not use their possy

is that not something to give credit to?

No nikka.. the fukk?

this the shyt folks mean when they say you nikkas uplift women for the dumbest shyt

You want us to give woman a round of applause for declining that millionaire and become a teacher? Why don’t we give her respect for becoming a wonderful teacher and going above and beyond in her career

 

[RaspberryFitted]

to address OP’s post, there were movements for women to have the OPTION of careers they were barred and marginalized from. If she decides her only path in life is to use the appendages she was born with, so be it.

I’m appalled at you nikkas for wanting to celebrate women who bust their ass in their industries for simply not selling p*ssy.

It’s like y’all pretend to advocate for solid women, but only further push birds to the forefront.

 

[Uncouth Savage]

No nikka.. the fukk?

this the shyt folks mean when they say you nikkas uplift women for the dumbest shyt

You want us to give woman a round of applause for declining that millionaire and become a teacher? Why don’t we give her respect for becoming a wonderful teacher and going above and beyond in her career

I am giving her credit for not doing the easy thing
as some women choose to do
and yes going to school to become a teacher etc

and speaking to the fact that most men could not deal with thousands of women wanting them

that is the main point yall missing

 

[Studious one]

THE SIMP DOLLAR has no rival nor has it an equal


It can take a woman from poverty to luxury in a week.
Simps will get their monthly check and cashout on a woman who aint even feeling them or one who isn't even in the same state or nation .

All they gotta do is save up, get a BBL, fix their face if it's hit and then parlay that into getting some simp suckers or simp following and then cash out.

Any woman who didn't take advantage of the 2020 Onlyfans goldrush is a SUCKA.

I guess I’m a sucka. I didn’t work hard to obtain three degrees to spread my legs on the internet for clout and/or money. I don’t have nor engage in any of those social media apps, save for here, so to speak. Use Facebook messenger, that’s about it. My point is, we DO exist. As for Op’s point, I’ve always wondered why we (women) are taking a step back. I’ve lamented for the longest, what happened to women from the 80’s to now. In the 80’s-90’s, women did not WANT to be looked at as what is between her legs. The focus was to break the glass ceiling and to SHOW that we were more than T&A. I really don’t know what the hell happened. I really feel it has a lot to do with that feminism shyt. You see, white women touted all that shyt, but they still went back to patriarchal values I.e, getting married by a certain age, etc. They burned their bra and said they didn’t “need a man”, then still went and became housewives, even after living independently for a while, while black women didn’t realize that they didn’t conform fully to all that bullshyt. Ah, maybe I’m just high and overthinking.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

So is this the message that even the logical and intelligent women of the community have for little black girls? "Do what you gotta do" "its quid pro quo" "mama need some new shoes"?

This is one reason you cant blame black men for the uptick in misogyny and indignation. If women are unable or unwilling to judge and condemn for the betterment of black girls. Cant blame black men for trying as unqualified and as hypocritical as we may look. In 2023 I will be looking for yall to do better than this. As women with wombs,you should inherently know this isnt about woman empowerment,or your grown hellhound friends egos. Its strictly about the little black girls buying into these beliefs yall pushing every hour,on the hour

On an offnote, Advice to sexually active grown women is different than advice to children.
On topic, Shame needs to be divorced from human sexuality. That’s just my own personal opinion. What two consenting adults do is no one’s business but their own. I’m sorry but no one can make me clutch pearls over the exchange of sexual services if both parties have their heads on straight. I just don’t see the exchange as an issue of immorality unless it actually is (I.e. abuse, cheating).
My advice to little girls is to be confident enough to blaze their own trail and be successful in their own right so they don’t have to do anything out of desperation.

My advice to grown women is similar but specific to sex work, they should know who they are, why they are in the game and be honest about that lifestyle. If they can honestly fanagle it with no damages, then cool. But if not, they need to move differently. My advice to men is to be less concerned about controlling female sexuality and more concerned with themselves. They can easily go their entire lives never even encountering women of the night and be largely unaffected by their activities if they shift their gaze from those types, to the women they claim they want (I.e. good girls).

 

[Jazzy B.]

I guess I’m a sucka. I didn’t work hard to obtain three degrees to spread my legs on the internet for clout and/or money. I don’t have nor engage in any of those social media apps, save for here, so to speak. Use Facebook messenger, that’s about it. My point is, we DO exist. As for Op’s point, I’ve always wondered why we (women) are taking a step back. I’ve lamented for the longest, what happened to women from the 80’s to now. In the 80’s-90’s, women did not WANT to be looked at as what is between her legs. The focus was to break the glass ceiling and to SHOW that we were more than T&A. I really don’t know what the hell happened. I really feel it has a lot to do with that feminism shyt. You see, white women touted all that shyt, but they still went back to patriarchal values I.e, getting married by a certain age, etc. They burned their bra and said they didn’t “need a man”, then still went and became housewives, even after living independently for a while, while black women didn’t realize that they didn’t conform fully to all that bullshyt. Ah, maybe I’m just high and overthinking.

You don't need to do any sex work


THIRSTY Simps are paying top dollar for janky feet and ass pics


Or even for attractive women who are pretending like they know how to play video games


You could have easily made 6 figures or built a brand in months when these simps WERE LOCKED INSIDE and at their MOST THIRSTY during the 2020 onlyfans goldrush.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

I am giving her credit for not doing the easy thing

For what

ain’t no point being missed — you just treating grown ass women like their infants who can’t sit still.

there’s women who would laugh at ya dumbass for saying some stupid shyt like this to them

 

[RaspberryFitted]

do we congratulate Men for not turning to a life of crime?

not gon blame an entire generation, but this wave of celebrating the bare minimum is fukking pathetic, and I see why folks treat y’all the way they do

 

[Uncouth Savage]

do we congratulate Men for not turning to a life of crime?

not gon blame an entire generation, but this wave of celebrating the bare minimum is fukking pathetic, and I see why folks treat y’all the way they do

it is said everyone has a price

ask your girl or wife right now how many men attempted to flirt with or get her number TODAY

multiply that by every day of the week, month, year

and women can easily sort through thousands of men or deal with dozens

why is that so difficult a thing to give credit to?

just ask her
you ran into millionaires? rappers? highly successful businessmen?
and she stayed faithful or didnt sell poosy

if so then THAT IS COMMENDABLE

men much better than you are after her CONSTANTLY

 

[Uncouth Savage]

do we congratulate Men for not turning to a life of crime?

not gon blame an entire generation, but this wave of celebrating the bare minimum is fukking pathetic, and I see why folks treat y’all the way they do

Yes

 

[RaspberryFitted]

it is said everyone has a price

ask you girl or wife right now how many men attempted to flirt with or get her number TODAY

multiply that by every day of the week, month, year

and women can easily sort through thousands of men or deal with dozens

why is that so difficult a thing to give credit to?

just ask her
you ran into millionaires? rappers? highly successful businessmen?

if so then THAT IS COMMENDABLE

men much better than you are after her CONSTANTLY

you want me to give her credit for doing some shyt she suppose to do?

man if my woman want to go on with another man, go on. I’m not commending her for basic shyt you do in a relationship.

don’t preach this dumbass shyt to no boys/teenagers. Keep this to ya echo chamber of retards.

Yes

No the fukk we don’t

Well I don’t. You surrounded by low lifes who need a doggy treat for simply breathing oxygen in.

 

[Still Benefited]

On an offnote, Advice to sexually active grown women is different than advice to children.
On topic, Shame needs to be divorced from human sexuality. That’s just my own personal opinion. What two consenting adults do is no one’s business but their own. I’m sorry but no one can make me clutch pearls over the exchange of sexual services if both parties have their heads on straight. I just don’t see the exchange as an issue of immorality unless it actually is (I.e. abuse, cheating).
My advice to little girls is to be confident enough to blaze their own trail and be successful in their own right so they don’t have to do anything out of desperation.

My advice to grown women is similar but specific to sex work, they should know who they are, why they are in the game and be honest about that lifestyle. If they can honestly fanagle it with no damages, then cool. But if not, they need to move differently. My advice to men is to be less concerned about controlling female sexuality and more concerned with themselves. They can easily go their entire lives never even encountering women of the night and be largely unaffected by their activities if they shift their gaze from those types, to the women they claim they want (I.e. good girls).

Fanagle it without damages? 95% of sex workers were damaged going into it. So you are expecting damaged women to self diagnose they are damaged? It used to be a point you had to be damaged to even inquire and get into that sector. So there was damage to make you get into it,and then there was a damage that came while being in it,then after getting out of it.


Now here you modern women are today. Wanting to take away the shame suffered during and post career. All so that sex work can be a viable career for undamaged women to get into? And to not have any damage comint out by way of shame. Its like yall had a meeting and said "We cant let these damaged ho's get all the money". Either women are being slick like OP is saying,or truly dont know better and have simply been corrupted.



And no,black men were the first to give these hellhounds a dominant voice and a platform. So its probably our fault yall have these damaged perceptions on topics of sexuality. Yall are also damaged at our hands#TheseOurOurFrankensteins. So the last thing we can do is be quiet,we need to reverse our work. Or the other option is to be indifferent and unnaffected,and just leave Babylon. This is definitely the primary choice,but for as long as Im here



I lean towards yalls minds have been corrupted by men,but a womans nature when left unchecked is historically problematic. Either way it would seem yall are correct,its on us as black men to fix#TheChildOfMan

 

[Uncouth Savage]

you want me to give her credit for doing some shyt she suppose to do?

man if my woman want to go on with another man, go on. I’m not commending her for basic shyt you do in a relationship.

don’t preach this dumbass shyt to no boys/teenagers. Keep this to ya echo chamber of retards.


No the fukk we don’t

Well I don’t. You surrounded by low lifes who need a doggy treat for simply breathing oxygen in.

for example Neo is here trying to impress a coli female
that coli female can get with HUNDREDS of men on the coli
they get dms constantly
men trying to woo and impress

I give credit they not taking advantage
other types of females would have had their way

I give credit for the simple things
especially since I rail against dumb bytches who sell poosy
vs
contributing to the world using their minds as men are expected to

hence if I curse women who are bytches and hoes like dogs
I must be able to love and respect those who are not as such
and could easily be
not rocket science sir

concerning the low lives
checkout the many threads of guys who said they sold crack/weed to buy sneakers
those who made a choice to not do that deserve credit
so yes men who do not sell drugs for sneakers and clothes are credit worthy

 

[Still Benefited]

The messages I have for little black girls who I mentor are be confident, maintain your dignity no matter what, you're enough as you are, keep your head in your books/off of boys, no is a complete sentence. Say it without feeling a way about it etc. These aren't little girls, these are grown ass women CHOOSING a lifestyle they know has several consequences and negatives and STILL sign up for it. After those girls become adults, they have autonomy to do whatever they want. NO ONE can control what they DECIDE to do knowing the down side to it

If anything, y'all should be mad at the older sex workers who know how the game eats and spits people out who aren't being honest with the new batch of SW. From what I've seen it ain't as luxurious as they make it seem. Yeah the money is there but at what cost? I don't know about that lifestyle so any advice I'd give is probably the same advice they've been told their entire lives. Don't do it, it's not good for their mental and physical well-being etc.

Some might say this is being apart of the solution while also being apart of the problem. Women cant keep telling little girls one thing. But then get on these platforms young girls use and empower sex workers. By defending them,applauding them,supporting them,and not condemning them. Obviously you cant do that alone. But if fewer women did what you are doing,which is playing two sides. Then these young girls would see these hellhounds being condemned. See what the dominant mindset is among black women,and not partake in being a ho. But at the moment,the ho's is extra loud while the respectable women who dont agree with their messages or representation are quiet. Or flat out cosigning the freedom to be a ho. Which makes you complicit in facilitating a false perception to these girls.



But you are right,and I humbly apologize. Whenever I try to hold black women accountable,or place fault at yalls feet. It really always comes back to the job being too much to put on a womans shoulders. It always comes back to one universal law,one unifying equation#TheChildOfMan