A Black woman's perspective...

[xXMASHERXx]

stop it lame.

Nothing I said is outrageous unless you're living in an imaginary world where sellouts don't exist. Or maybe you're one of the sellouts I'm referring to, or maybe you're white and don't acknowledge the war against black beauty and culture that is destroying my people. Regardless, I'm speaking on reality.

I am NOT saying one cannot fall for someone outside of their race. Love is love. What I am saying is that it is disgusting for one to completely REJECT the possibility of a relationship with their own people and seek out people SPECIFICALLY outside of their race. It's self hatred and it's pathetic.

If you have love for your people, date them and just so happen to stumble upon someone outside of your race that you fall for, cool. That won't happen with someone like me because I know what I am attracted to and it's only black women physically, mentally and spiritually. I also have zero interest in having an interracial child. No hate. It is what it is.

However, if you purposely go out of your way to avoid your race, you're fukking pathetic. If that makes me racist, then I'm racist

Completely agree with the bolded. I have no problem with interracial dating(not for me) but think something is wrong with a person who completely dismisses the opposite sex of their own race.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Malc, what you doing with an Auburn avi? You lose another bet or something?

auburn is known for diverse group of pawgs
id love to go there

 

[Gravity]

Most of this interracial dating(on both sides) is all about self hate in my opinion. There is little to no real unity amongst black people and that's because we don't love ourselves let alone one another. We show more love as respect towards other races than we do our own. In our community, dating/marrying interracially is the cool "it" thing to do. Especially black people who are successful and in the public eye. It's to the point now where it's expected for a successful black man or woman to date/marry somebody of another race. It's the exact opposite for people of other races though. Other races heavily promote datimg/marrying within their own race. Other races have far more pride and self esteem in who they are. This isn't an accident by the way, it's by design. You can even see it being promoted in the media. It's divide and conquer. This whole gender war between black men and women has been instigated by people/powers outside of our race.

 

[yawn]

Most of this interracial dating(on both sides) is all about self hate in my opinion.

I date all women because I love women, not because I hate myself.

 

[Gravity]

I date all women because I love women, not because I hate myself.

 

[iamstr8fire]

This issue isn't really that prevalent at all . Speaking personally I only know 1 black dude that married a white chick and he is a double stuffed oreo cookie. If that MF could bleach his skin I'm sure he would.

In my opinion all the articles that talk about black women not being married and blaming it on anyone but themselves and their circumstances is ridiculous. It's only gotten worse with more single parent households in which women are used to taking on a man's role.

I know a good number of educated attractive black chicks who can't stay in a relationship to save their respective lives. It's for the same reasons by and large.

1) They don't know how to be in relationships - I'm not talking about gender roles either. I'm talking about working with someone, encouraging them, being selfless, setting common goals, trying new things, etc.

2) They don't know their own worth - They deal with dudes that don't cut the mustard and they find dudes in the most ridiculous places. Yet, they go back to those same places to find guys.

3) They can't let go of bad experiences - They get effed over by some dude who wasn't worth the time anyway and never ever let it go.


Black men aren't without fault in this, but the white angels aren't swooping in and gripping up all the dudes. All the queens I know that want a good black dude have one

 

[Lord Beasley]

Women do the choosing when it comes to relationships, a woman usually has a variety of black men to choose from, nerds to thugs. Most of the time with black women when they decide to go outside of their race its because they been hurt or feel black man ain't good enough.

As for men, we have to be chosen by women, the chances of a black nerd getting a black woman who appreciates him are slim to none

Lets take for example Carlton Banks (I don't know his real name). He would struggle to get a sista because he seen as a nerd, lacking thug attributes. The brotha had to be forced with who actually likes him.

i cosign what u said (cept that ped shiet) nerds to thugs is a true statement. I grew up dating out of my race b/c most black women i met thought i was too "proper" . Some even flat out said "you act white", whatever that may be. growing up i just chose to be with girls/women who were approachable, regardless of their race. In my experience, BWs were the least approachable race of women for a 'non-thuggin' guy like me

 

[Xtraz2]

Right. I thought I woke up to 3 pages of thoughtful answers to the OP (which surprisingly there are some. The coli has made me proud ).

However, I could have made yall ( @Pheonix_Knightly23 @Xtraz2 @Ill Clinton @mtu wa chuma)
another thread to post random gifs and bs if that's what y'all wanted. You could have even done what most coli men and women do and go back and forth via pm or over each other's visitor page. Please don't be mad when I derail your threads with bullshyt (I might take the time to be petty and do it too). At least when I go back and forth with someone it's still related to the topic in the OP. I'm going to especially try to mess up and troll your threads @Xtraz2 because you actually admitted that your purpose was to derail my thread. I'm happy people got back on track though.

first of all


Second of all step your reading comprehension up, I'm not tha one who said that

 

[SouthernBelle]

first of all


Second of all step your reading comprehension up, I'm not tha one who said that

Nope, I'm not mad because my thread still succeeded. Also, copying and pasting the wrong name has nothing to do with comprehension you fukktard.

 

[Xtraz2]

Nope, I'm not mad because my thread still succeeded. Also, copying and pasting the wrong name has nothing to do with comprehension you fukktard.

 

[SouthernBelle]

Look I can do it too

 

[Xtraz2]

Look I can do it too

 

[SouthernBelle]

 

[Xtraz2]

u derailing your own thread right now

 

[SouthernBelle]

u derailing your own thread right now

the discussion is clearly over now (posts are just trickling in)