A Black woman's perspective...

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Xtraz2 said:
that u in yah avi? :whoo:
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I am in no way affiliated with **** or his questionable practices...
 
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KenyaDoll said:
on interracial dating.
@Chris.B and the likes, what do you guys think of this blogger's perspective?

I think I know the answer. I think the appeal is a deeply-rooted psychological issue that manifested about 400 years ago. When Black men were hung, beaten, or worse for simply looking at white women, something became embedded in their psyche that says “sleeping with a white woman is the ultimate prize.” I also think this psychological problem stems from the rape and sexual abuse of Black women and the subsequent bearing the master’s “mulatto” children. This phenomenon also established the need to take something from the master, his most prized possession…his white woman.

In essence, the deterioration of relationships between Black men and Black women stemmed from the enslavement and perversion (of sex) by Europeans.

So that raises a question, is the issue Black women or Black men?


DISCLAIMER: These are not my thoughts. I got it from this site: The Ebony Tower
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I agree with the bolded. Shyt is a complex issue and I think black women AND men are to blame.

Many black men see white women as some prized possession and many black women see white men in the same light. Often times we are indirectly taught that the opposite sex of the same race is low key the enemy.

Many blacks men grow up hearing "bytches aint shyt" and many black women grow up hearing "nyggas aint shyt". After hearing such comments and having personal experience many opt to not be bothered.

Then next thing you know they are dating outside of their race and putting that motha fukca on a pedastule.

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These dehydrated fools really bring down this forum. Sometimes I wonder if their own mothers are safe around them. :snoop:

Anyway, as for this article: I don't even comment on this topic a lot nowadays, but I'll say this: I've yet to read any article with sistas calling out other sistas or even getting into any deep rooted analysis as to why so many of THEM choose to date white men. Brothas who do these kind of studies call other brothas out all the time. Very rarely does it happen when females write on these topics, and when they do, nine times out of ten it's justified because there's always some black bogeyman who "drove" them into the arms of some equally mythical white knight in shining armour sitting upon a horse just waiting to ride her into the sunset and live happily ever after. Why not just get into the root causes as to why many black folk - men and women - do it? For the record, I don't date white women at all. Not my cup of tea.
 
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KenyaDoll said:
on interracial dating.
@Chris.B and the likes, what do you guys think of this blogger's perspective?

What is so appealing about white women? Are they “easier”? Are they nicer? Are they more willing to “work with you” and try to understand you? Do they do things that Black, Asian, Hispanic, or other women for that matter, can’t or won’t do?

I think I know the answer. I think the appeal is a deeply-rooted psychological issue that manifested about 400 years ago. When Black men were hung, beaten, or worse for simply looking at white women, something became embedded in their psyche that says “sleeping with a white woman is the ultimate prize.” I also think this psychological problem stems from the rape and sexual abuse of Black women and the subsequent bearing the master’s “mulatto” children. This phenomenon also established the need to take something from the master, his most prized possession…his white woman.

Women, in general, have always been “symbols” of power and status. Genghis Khan and his armies, slept with as many women as possible; he reportedly had 500 women at a time at his disposal. The same was the case with European slave masters. Slave owners ensured that, in addition to their wives and/or mistresses, they had a plethora of slave women. In essence, the deterioration of relationships between Black men and Black women stemmed from the enslavement and perversion (of sex) by Europeans.

To this day, Black culture is so corrupted that it can barely function. Blacks seem to be at the lowest point in every aspect of life: poverty, education, disease, family functionality - just fill in the blanks. CNN’s Black in America stated that 45% of successful Black women are single. So that raises a question, is the issue Black women or Black men?

Let me know your thoughts!

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So basically the author is female and suggests that black women hold no accountability in the deterioration of the black family and our social values
 
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