Oh okay but she's also sexualizing herself(like many of our sisters do) by topping off a cake like her life depends on it for the world to see.

And why do you think that is? Bc our men give it
positive reinforcement. Other men mighta stoned her ass. Peep how some of the richest men on the planet, arabs, smut out
everybody else's women but keep theirs pure, covered, and isolated. Even other groups of black people would censure her in some way. But for us, it's fun and games.
It feels like the other side of the whole 'bw aligning with ww feminism against bm' to me. All women are thus free to shyt on bm and all men are thus free to smut out bw.