A Lot Of Good Looking Dudes Struggle With Women

[MaxPain]

And it’s crazy

I dont consider myself a swimsuit model but I’d say im a fairly decent looking dude. On the spectrum of average. And Im only 5’10. Ive had women call me handsome and pulled women off looks but I dont think Im in the same league as some of these dudes Im speaking on.

And time and time again throughout life I’ve seen some extremely good looking dudes empty handed or settle for less

Now I know male dimes that know how to game women (usually guys who grew into their looks) and do well but there’s also a lot Ive met who lack personality/charisma/charm and turn a woman off the second they speak or just get straight up ignored. I know one who is shy and doesnt like to approach and feels entitled to women approaching him (and he ends up getting approached by 5’s & 6’s then settling for them and feels salty about it)

True story I knew this one cat in the Army who was a “pretty boy”. 6’4. Gym head. Great Value Michael Ealy.The whole 9. We was cool and hit the town and every single time I’ve seen this dude approach women the girls face goes from to :Lethemhoesdie: in a 5-10 minute span. The girls just end up looking bored. I told him it’s cuz he has a monotone voice, lacks passion/charm and just bores the girl to death. He dismisses it and feels like he doesnt need to do anything cuz he’s good looking. Then the few girls he do get ignore his lack of game just cuz they find him so attractive and usually these girls aren’t in his league.

Any one else seen this? Brehettes y’all ever met a dude like this? @Nicole0416 @HarlemHottie

 

[Biscayne]

Entitlement

 

[dj-method-x]

I'm the opposite. Average looking nikka that stay with a bad bytch

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

And it’s crazy

I dont consider myself a swimsuit model but I’d say im a fairly decent looking dude. On the spectrum of average. And Im only 5’10. Ive had women call me handsome and pulled women off looks but I dont think Im in the same league as some of these dudes Im speaking on.

And time and time again throughout life I’ve seen some extremely good looking dudes empty handed or settle for less

Now I know male dimes that know how to game women (usually guys who grew into their looks) and do well but there’s also a lot Ive met who lack personality/charisma/charm and turn a woman off the second they speak or just get straight up ignored. I know one who is shy and doesnt like to approach and feels entitled to women approaching him (and he ends up getting approached by 5’s & 6’s then settling for them and feels salty about it)

True story I knew this one cat in the Army who was a “pretty boy”. 6’4. Gym head. Great Value Michael Ealy.The whole 9. We was cool and hit the town and every single time I’ve seen this dude approach women the girls face goes from to :Lethemhoesdie: in a 5-10 minute span. The girls just end up looking bored. I told him it’s cuz he has a monotone voice, lacks passion/charm and just bores the girl to death. He dismisses it and feels like he doesnt need to do anything cuz he’s good looking. Then the few girls he do get ignore his lack of game just cuz they find him so attractive and usually these girls aren’t in his league.

Any one else seen this? Brehettes y’all ever met a dude like this? @Nicole0416 @HarlemHottie

Ain't nothing that pisses a broad off more than a handsome breh with no game.

But yet looks just get you in the door...need that personality/charm and seduction skills to seal the deal.

 

[Biscayne]

Brehs just need to exercise self control. Instead of settling for less. No one owes a handsome breh some play. And handsome brehs don't owe any woman some play.

 

[Clay Puppington]

Ya boy entitled as shyt.

Used to happen to me but I had to have the convo with myself bout my whack convo.

I hate when brehs tell me "man you don't have to try she liked you cause XXX" nikka I didn't bag her with Morse code.

 

[I Really Mean It]

It’s because women aren’t as visual as men. You can’t be hideous, obviously, but just being handsome is no guarantee that you will bag a lot of chicks. Men are about how a woman looks, while women care about personality and just your all around presentation (outside of your physical qualities). Are you dressed nicely? Do you look in shape? Do you have a sense of humor? Etc.

 

[Kwabena]

@MALCOLM GARVEY SELASSIE

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

Oh yes!!!! More times than I care to count with good looking men but bad personalities. Nothing like the let down of a dude that I’m gassed about from initial appearances only to find out he’s a lame. That’s what I call “False Advertising” . Looks handsome and put together af as far as the outer layers (face, nice build, dressed nice, maintained, muscular/ in shape) but after a convo or interaction - that perfect looking man becomes a diminishing value. Boring convo, no type of vibe, acts too nervous or lacks confidence, or on the flip side of that talks tooooo much, uninteresting gossipy type, too excitable and attention needy.

Example I’ve seen these pro ball players and football dudes who you would assume have it going on but on approach, they act like goofies and i”ll pass them off to one of my friends who are star struck and doesn’t care as much; they’re just happy off the association.

Even with an every day (I don’t want to say “regular” dude bc I put no one on a pedestal - status or not) that has more going on mentally and that still looked good; that’s a better look to me . Because they have better social skills, interesting backgrounds and have more substance. Especially a dude with a decent sense of humor and not serious allllll the time.

The perfect balance for me is the quiet unassuming, type that talks less but his presence carries a lot of weight. Low key.

Looks don’t mean everything contrary to whatever popular opinion may be- looks are for the initial attraction but there needs to be balance. Less attractive man with confidence, sense of humor and good mental >>> a perfect 9/10 with a dry basic personality . I’ve had those types of nice looking dudes get real upset or in their feelings when I ghost them bc they’re so used to women putting up with them off their looks alone, but they have no character. Truth be told - that thing that men do where they really like or into a female but try to play it off cool or downplay their affection to not come across as too thirsty , I think that makes a man seem sexier and more intense whether they are an average or very nice looking dude. The ones that don’t take it too far where they act like azzholes but the men who can play it off the right way.

 

[Abraxus]

Eh? I’ve seen it go both ways. I’ve definitely dated down when I coulda been....paused...shoulda been with a dime. But I do like a woman who’s submissive and has intangibles....long pause...like the girls who sucked me dry and swallows it then whines for more. Aw...aw...I’m having a moment now

 

[OaklandCertified]

I know one who is shy and doesnt like to approach and feels entitled to women approaching him (and he ends up getting approached by 5’s & 6’s then settling for them and feels salty about it)

He definitely feels entitled. I used to be this way, because I was the handsome guy with hazel eyes. I felt I didn't have to develop a personality because I looked good.

But in high school I started to notice a change. Just being handsome wasn't cutting it. I started to see the funny guys, the guys with mouthpiece start to get all the women. Luckily for me I had the game in me, I just had to polish my mouthpiece.

Being handsome is like having a head start in a race, it gives you an advantage, but you still have to run the race.

 

[Kokoro]

That’s me unfortunately

I have my reasons

 

[Kokoro]

Oh yes!!!! More times than I care to count with good looking men but bad personalities. Nothing like the let down of a dude that I’m gassed about from initial appearances only to find out he’s a lame. That’s what I call “False Advertising” . Looks handsome and put together af as far as the outer layers (face, nice build, dressed nice, maintained, muscular/ in shape) but after a convo or interaction - that perfect looking man becomes a diminishing value. Boring convo, no type of vibe, acts too nervous or lacks confidence, or on the flip side of that talks tooooo much, uninteresting gossipy type, too excitable and attention needy.

Example I’ve seen these pro ball players and football dudes who you would assume have it going on but on approach, they act like goofies and i”ll pass them off to one of my friends who are star struck and doesn’t care as much; they’re just happy off the association.

Even with an every day (I don’t want to say “regular” dude bc I put no one on a pedestal - status or not) that has more going on mentally and that still looked good; that’s a better look to me . Because they have better social skills, interesting backgrounds and have more substance. Especially a dude with a decent sense of humor and not serious allllll the time.

The perfect balance for me is the quiet unassuming, type that talks less but his presence carries a lot of weight. Low key.

Looks don’t mean everything contrary to whatever popular opinion may be- looks are for the initial attraction but there needs to be balance. Less attractive man with confidence, sense of humor and good mental >>> a perfect 9/10 with a dry basic personality . I’ve had those types of nice looking dudes get real upset or in their feelings when I ghost them bc they’re so used to women putting up with them off their looks alone, but they have no character. Truth be told - that thing that men do where they really like or into a female but try to play it off cool or downplay their affection to not come across as too thirsty , I think that makes a man seem sexier and more intense whether they are an average or very nice looking dude. The ones that don’t take it too far where they act like azzholes but the men who can play it off the right way.

You’re mean though

That might have played a factor

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

Lastly, I want to add that women can be intimidated or insecure about good looking men if we don’t feel like we measure up in whatever category. We may think he’s more apt to cheat or play us bc he’s probably getting alot of attention. So some women think that it’s not worth the hassle . And then there’s the category of cute men who give off that sneaky type of vibe so it’s not worth the risk of even starting something off. So we may act mean to the cute ones in order to level down their ego . Or try to get attention from other men to keep that man from feeling himself too much (I.e. Ayesha curry )

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

You’re mean though

That might have played a factor

No I just know what I like and what I don’t like bytch. I’m open to giving chances or opportunities. But No one needs to waste each other’s time or extend unnecessary effort. I’m only mean to people that I don’t fuk with bc 9/10 they don’t deserve my niceness, said some dumb shyt or just act stupid/ annoying to the point where they don’t get acknowledgement. Comprende??