A Lot Of Good Looking Dudes Struggle With Women

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OR you got dudes who are simply handsome and anti-social. They can have good convos...but they're too shy or simply dislike talking. A lot of women gravitate to mysterious, mercurial guys but if you're 100% aloof they'll quickly walk away lol

This used to be me:mjgrin:

Was always fat and had low self esteem but had no problens interacting with chicks because I figured their was no attraction so therefore no pressure for me.

Started losing weight and chatting up chicks at parks and then would realize when it was too late that shorty was giving me an opening to get the digits:pachaha:

That is another way guys get frustrated..

You have to have good body language skills...most women will try to make it obvious as they can but not too aggressive so you kinda have to read her well.

Not every woman makes direct eye contact with a dude she likes...some will linger around in hopes you see her.
 

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Nah. A handsome guy is not struggling with p*ssy, he might struggle to lead or maintain a relationship, but he will get p*ssy thrown at him.
Most women ain't gonna make the approach though..outside of certain southern cities and Philly,New York, Vancouver women aren't that aggressive.
 

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Lastly, I want to add that women can be intimidated or insecure about good looking men if we don’t feel like we measure up in whatever category. We may think he’s more apt to cheat or play us bc he’s probably getting alot of attention. So some women think that it’s not worth the hassle . And then there’s the category of cute men who give off that sneaky type of vibe so it’s not worth the risk of even starting something off. So we may act mean to the cute ones in order to level down their ego . Or try to get attention from other men to keep that man from feeling himself too much (I.e. Ayesha curry )

What i got from this is women ain't shyt.

Men are insecure with getting women so they improve themselves


Women get insecure over some dudes who overachieve in looks or personality so they are mean to lower the guys ego instead of trying to be on that same level
 

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Most women ain't gonna make the approach though..outside of certain southern cities and Philly,New York, Vancouver women aren't that aggressive.

It depends on women. And today it's more and more socially acceptable. And even though they won't approach, if a woman is feeling a man, she'll send signs. In any social gathering (school, college, workplace, etc) a handsome guy will have women showing to him, explicitly or implicitly, that they are available.

Of course, they will miss some women, but handsome cats will always have pussies been thrown at them just by being there. Even with zero game, a handsome boy will have a decent amount of p*ssy. He won't struggle.

The necessity to approach is for ugly guys.
 

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What i got from this is women ain't shyt.

Men are insecure with getting women so they improve themselves


Women get insecure over some dudes who overachieve in looks or personality so they are mean to lower the guys ego instead of trying to be on that same level

As they say a woman scorn is the worst .. but having a woman jealous of you .. whether she be family, lover, friend. :ufdup:
 

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Yea I try to guage where a person is coming from and try to understand how I may be coming off as.

I've said it before and even some female dating coach said the same thing.

Women have been brainwashed to think love is some dramatic story that needs conflict(romeo and juliet is the biggest example).

Then you have the chicks who want to play saviour and try to save these damaged ass dudes.

My sister hit me with that bullshyt to justify why she stays with her punk ass baby daddy

"I feel like I was put into his life to save him:wub:"

:stopitslime:

Most women love drama..

shyt even a 39 yr old pawg was attracted to me even more when she found out I was arrested twice in a week..

Then when she found out a hoe wanted me to be her pimp she later told me she was turned on.

And this was a chick with a career...
Craziness.
 

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What i got from this is women ain't shyt.

Men are insecure with getting women so they improve themselves


Women get insecure over some dudes who overachieve in looks or personality so they are mean to lower the guys ego instead of trying to be on that same level
No, INSECURE and LOW SELF ESTEEM women get with dudes above their station in order to make the man feel insecure. CONFIDENT women will respect a man at any level as long as he respects himself and her in order to mutually benefit and compliment each other in terms of beliefs and values. A man shouldn't be with an "aint shyt" woman in the first place when there are signs that she is not contributing anything but chaos to the relationship and same applies to the woman. It's one thing to have flaws but a whole other issue to make a person feel devalued.
 

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What i got from this is women ain't shyt.

Men are insecure with getting women so they improve themselves


Women get insecure over some dudes who overachieve in looks or personality so they are mean to lower the guys ego instead of trying to be on that same level

Yea... buy it's just their defense mechanism to do that... its fukked up but it is what it is
 

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Most women ain't gonna make the approach though..outside of certain southern cities and Philly,New York, Vancouver women aren't that aggressive.

It depends on women. And today it's more and more socially acceptable. And even though they won't approach, if a woman is feeling a man, she'll send signs. In any social gathering (school, college, workplace, etc) a handsome guy will have women showing to him, explicitly or implicitly, that they are available.

Of course, they will miss some women, but handsome cats will always have pussies been thrown at them just by being there. Even with zero game, a handsome boy will have a decent amount of p*ssy. He won't struggle.

The necessity to approach is for ugly guys.
Women rarely and ima say more close to never approach dudes... women inherently have a supreme fear of rejection.
Now some women, especially in certain places, just will send stronger signs.... that's their definition of approaching a man... instead of just looking alil bit they'll look alil longer. .. instead of just looking alil longer, theyll kinda come over ..
Basically things to put u in a better position to holla at them....
Mostly females with no shame will be the rare ones to holla... fat chix and kinda ugly chix...
Badd bytches and regular good looking females dont gotta holla at nobody.
 
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I guess im kind of an expert here. im so called very handsome and have never struggled with women, but the quality has been questionable at time. theres a reason ive dated women of a lower tier then not. less work and more perks. ive dated some women i still look back at and cant believe how beautiful they are. but ive generally dated long term 6-7's. why ? well its not what it may see. for example my girlfriend right now is a bbw latina. very pretty face but a big girl. but she makes 10-15k a month and works with celeberties. also she is obsessed with finding girls for me to fukk while she helps out. so while someone may judge me about my partner we jumping in the foreign ,eating 5 star, doing what we want, looking for bytches to fukk together. just a little insight to a handsome bruh with slight insecurities
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