A Question For The Parents on Here.

The Mad Titan

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Pediatrician told us is completely normal and some kids are just more stubborn then others. They looked at his mouth and throat to make sure nothing was going on and everything checked out. It's funny because he won't eat his dinner but if you throw some juice or sweets in front of him, it's over.
Yup kids smart man, my nephew also uses the tactic to squeeze time for staying up. So he'll ask for something not really be hungry but does it to stay up.
 

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Man if you don’t take away everything that kid loves :aicmon:

You gon eat these greens or paw patrol goin straight in the trash lil homie…food too damn expensive to waste :birdman:
:lolbron: I put his lil ass in the corner everytime he do it and make him watch his brother eat snacks and juice. They get snacks and juice after dinner if they eat. If not, they just get water. He be whining talmbout "daddy I want snacks" I be like "you better eat your food then" :ufdup:

The whining intensifies.
 

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Also when I started to have this problem my pediatrician said kids at that age just graze eat (snacking) and just focus on one full meal a day @Hathaway :yeshrug:
Mine said they graze eat at 2 and 3. But by 4 they should be eating regularly. :patrice:

He got till November. That's his 4th birthday. Its bout to be dietary boot camp in this bytch.
 

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my son 2 ndd somedays we like fukk it. we gave you two things we know you like and you dont want it then you go to bed hungry.
he just wake up in the morning and devours breakfast.
 

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My 3 year old is a very stubborn eater. Probably the most stubborn eater I've ever seen in a child. If he doesn't like the way it looks, he won't even touch it. He's a visual eater. It's amazing because as a young baby, 1 and 2 year old, he was the child that would experiment and eat anything. But now he just cries when we try to get him to eat. When I would force it into his mouth, he'll literally just hold it in his mouth. Like for hours. He will not swallow it.

Now I went thru this with my eldest son when he was that age as well but I could just threaten him enough and he'd relent and eat. He grew out of it fairly quickly. By the time he was 3, he was straight.

But boy this youngest son of mine is so frustrating. And you would think I'm talking about veggies and shyt huh? Nah. I bought some McDonald's today because we hadn't had any in like 2 months. Chicken Mcnuggets and fries. Every kid loves that right? Nope.

He would eat the fries and Ketchup of course but wouldnt touch the chicken. The only thing he'll eat is PB&J, pizza, maybe some chick fil a strips and spaghetti. That's all. That's his list of foods.

We've tried everything. We've tried making dinner time more fun, we've tried manipulation. He doesnt have any medical dietary issues. He's just stubborn.

When I was a kid and mom's/grandma made us food that we didn't wanna eat, then we just wouldnt eat. We'd either sit at the table all night or just go to bed hungry with nothing but water. Old school. Tough, but it worked. Grandma wasn't with that bullshyt.

Thats what I've been doing. Tough love. My wife would end up making him something he likes after he wouldn't eat what we previously made. But I told her to stop doing that because it conditions him to hold out and be defiant until he's rewarded with what he wants. I'm not doing that shyt. He's gotta learn to eat what we make or not eat at all. He'll be 4 this year and I'm tired of this shyt. I'm tired of us cooking home prepared meals and him not eating. He won't even taste it. I remember one time my wife made some honey glazed salmon, rice and green beans. He wouldnt even attempt to try it. My wife was heartbroken. :mjcry:

Any parents dealt with this? Any advice? I hate sending my boy to bed hungry but idk what else to do. :francis:
Sounds like you guys need to have more family dinners. Like consistently everyone sitting at the table together to eat a meal Monday through Thursday at least.

Mama may have to mix up those meal options.

Sounds like you need to cut off those snacks about 3 hours before dinner time. Let them build up a little hunger before dinner time. I never met a picky hungry person

If you're stressing about trying to incorporate vegetables you may need to cut up some of that clear cauliflower and blend it in the food.

You yourself may need to change your diet because a lot of times the kids just eat what they see their parents eating. If you ordering pizza and tell them to eat Mama's cooking it could create some conflicts.

If all above criteria have already been met and they truly are that stubborn, you may have to have some alternatives on Deck like a banana or some kind of nutrient-rich fruits.

Get them on a multivitamin if they are really really a pain in the ass.


If you're hardcore make them eat that damn food or they're not playing with no electronics and video games.

Harder core than that is making them go to bed hungry
 

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im not a parent op but my mom would send me to the garage to eat whenever i wouldn’t finish my plate
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probably like you said how the food looks which grosses him out.

as a picky eater has a kid my pops and mom spanked me to get me to eat


but for me it was smell of the food till this day I will not eat or touch boiled eggs.



Might have to present different foods to him at the same time and see what he goes for
 
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