A. Seales:I want to be with a brotha but a lot of you would rather be by yourselves. Why not commit?

[dora_da_destroyer]

ok

pretty fair assumption based off your posting history..


This is why you're in the position you're in.

You think you know everything... yet you still seek the answers

 

[ZoeGod]

There is plenty black men who want to get married. And plenty of black men get married every day. The problem with her is she can’t keep a man. Look at yourself in the mirror. You see so many women who go the club and bar every weekend complaining about they can’t find a good man. They don’t go where the good men are. And it’s their fault not men. She be with aint shyt dudes thus why she can never find a man to commit to her. Plus how do we know she a catch? Can she cook and clean? Does she have any motherly qualities? Is she ambitious and willing to submit? Does she have ho tendacies?

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Nah nikkas getting married literally everyday.

She just cant keep a man

Yup!

 

[Max Power]

She's too corny and annoying for the type of black man she wants (top tier). She should either reduce her requirements or find a cac. She'll most likely go for the second option.

 

[Astroslik]

aint you an elitist postgraduate degree six figure woman in Cali? its not hard to read you

That's what I'm saying

just look at her posting history

 

[Barnett114]

This isn't about me Barnett, I no longer complain about black men

If that's the case, what dat mouf do

 

[Astroslik]

Thanks!

Now what's the stats on the impact of mass incarceration on blk male population in America?
Because between these stats and those stats, there is her answer.

c00ns like her will blame an entire generation/gender of men and not themselves.. this is the first step of the process of jumping to white daddy.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

yep. yep. you right, you right.

Why do you slow nikkas have to respond to me?

I said women because women are usually the gender crying about not getting commitment. Stop being stuck on me saying women specifically like a simp. As I said anybody blaming a whole gender for their inability to find a spouse sound stupid to me.

 

[the bossman]

I've said it before that women don't want a man who's stable, because that means he doesn't need someone to take care of him.

Most Women absolutely want a stable man. It's just in their DNA to want that sense of security and stability. But they also want good dikk. The problem is either that "stable man" isn't sexually appealing to them or if he is, then he's not willing to commit to an exclusive relationship with them.

 

[richaveli83]

Men will commit to something worth commiting to. Men do the picking. If you're not worth the draft pick we're not using it on you plain and simple.

Some women think they should be the #1 pick but not even being looked at by the JBA.

 

[YouMadd?]

I don’t really follow her and I ain’t watch the video, but that quote is true to life with what I’m dealing with right now. Then I can also look at one of my homies from college who let a good relationship/woman go because of this. Not sure what the issue is with this generation but I’m about to go white

You’re in the bay right? There is something in the water here. I’ve been stood up by multiple black women before dates here.... but then I run into some non black women who makes high six figs and is treating me like a king. Black transplants out here don’t like blacks people for the most part.

 

[Rawtid]

Maybe the quality of women is poor and that is why a man doesn't want to commit

Ya'll are no better though. You want "perfection" when you're riddled with flaws. The funny part is black men have THE SAME issue with black women that black women ha e with them, we just see it from different perspectives.

I've seen dudes my age with no retirement, no savings, no life insurance, a bunch a kids, that he buys a bunch of jordans for, but you can't tell them they aren't father of the year. Even a corporate dude I know 6 certs, 6 figures, 6+ ft, BROKE as fukk. No health insurance. "Scared of the dentist". New truck though! You all will bring this mess into a woman's life and swear you're doing something. Laundry smells like mildew. "you separate the colors?" looking asses. Debt out your ass...at BEST BUY. Renting ass "I might move, I don't want to buy" aka commit. Ya'll just do the least.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

The women who know they need to step they game up to get a quality man are then called "Pick Me's" by immature thots who don't wanna change for the better.
:mjzooted:

Anytime ayesha curry comments on relationship or gives advice you see the reaction from majority of how these broads think .

 

[Astroslik]

Ya'll are no better though. You want "perfection" when you're riddled with flaws. The funny part is black men have THE SAME issue with each that black women have, we just see it from different perspectives.

I've seen dudes my age with no retirement, no savings, no life insurance, a bunch a kids, that he buys a bunch of jordans for, but you can't tell them they aren't father of the year. Even a corporate dude I know 6 certs, 6 figures, 6+ ft, BROKE as fukk. No health insurance. "Scared of the dentist". New truck though! You all will bring this mess into a woman's life and swear you're doing something. Laundry smells like mildew. "you separate the colors?" looking asses. Debt out your ass...at BEST BUY. Renting ass "I might move, I don't want to buy" aka commit. Ya'll just do the least.

Stopped reading here.
Go see a counselor and dating coach. You talk to bum ass nikkas, nobody to blame but YOU!

BTW- you can be a bum and still make 6 figures

 

[Rawtid]

Life is about survival of the fittest

Honestly if u can't get a mate let alone marriage, it is nature telling u that you should kill yaself and be removed from the food chain


As a man you literally should be able to walk into a relationship

Just like how women can get sex at any moment regardless of how they look


I been proposed to by a female I wasnt even in a relationship with


I could close my eyes and pick a random contact in my phone and be in a relationship



If u top material why wouldn't someone want to marry u?

Why be in a relationship for 12 years if you don't want to marry her? It's bullshyt to say there is a lack of "marriable" women more than it is a lack of men committing. For all the reasons it would benefit you to commit....to something, you don't. STATISTICALLY you don't commit education, you don't commit to real estate, and you don't commit to women. You're not going to have the general population of us be single mothers AND say it's only on the mothers they weren't married and not because of the man's lack of commitment.

I'm not saying that black women aren't equally at fault, but as you stated men control the relationship and it's direction, so take your blame in the shyt too. The general population of you guys do not commit. Just accept it.