A. Seales:I want to be with a brotha but a lot of you would rather be by yourselves. Why not commit?

[newworldafro]

This is chicks in general, not one particular race:


Y’all love [us] being in the rat race/keeping up with the Jones/worrying about everybody lane but your own/FOMO. Even though it makes yourselves miserable as well. That shyt leads to money and emotional problems.


nikkas can do chores and cook on they own now.

Maybe it’s just [smart] people are picky now and some people actually require you to stand out?

Plain Janes giving nikkas headaches not cutting it no more sis. Your farts better smell like candy if you nagging me

Designer baby brochures gone have that feature.

Until then we got to deal with dimes that can run a grown man out the crib. I'm ok with that too. , bit if robot hoes is any indication......

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

If you want to be married and have children ANY time soon, that's your best bet. A black man wants AT LEAST 5 years. You know it! I know it sounds bad, but I see it too often. Maybe bi-racial, but grew up on his white family's side.

You’re killing me

 

[deeznutz93]

If the best thing you offer me is your p*ssy, I'm not marrying you .I'll just sleep with you for as long as you let me.

 

[FlexPavilion]

Where does that other person fit it?


Right where they belong, on the bench.

If I keep it 100 from the jump, there's nothing you get to complain about.

 

[eastsideTT]

 

[xCivicx]

If you want to be married and have children ANY time soon, that's your best bet. A black man wants AT LEAST 5 years. You know it! I know it sounds bad, but I see it too often. Maybe bi-racial, but grew up on his white family's side.

You seem to already know what you're planning to do, judging from your post

So why are you in here?

 

[Rawtid]

When it doubt bet on white

:blaff:

Some people just want to get the married rate for their car insurance. Use two incomes to get a house built. Open an ESA for their children's private school education. Contribute to their IRA at the married amount. Add a beneficiary to their policies that's not a parent. Start family businesses. This isn't shyt yall think about. Too scared someone will add shrimp to their Applebee's 2 for $20 entree.

 

[Rawtid]

So why are you in here?

To see you.

 

[xCivicx]

The average American doesn't even have all those things sooooo It's just to make a point, that he needs to get his shyt together but looking for "perfect" women.

So you're saying you can't even get a semi-struggling black male to commit to you?

 

[Rawtid]

So you're saying you can't even get a semi-struggling black male to commit to you?

Nope.

 

[BigMan]

Who y’all quoting

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

don't think it's a brother thing... plenty spanish, white, asian dudes want to get p*ssy and not get locked down too


but for ME.... she's right... I would LOVE to only have women around, when I want them around, while also not having to hear them talk about my desire to also fukk other women..... that kinda leaves them hanging on for what they want me to be vs. what i'm going to give them

the question is..... is that my fault? they can leave.. be fed up... cut me off... they don't... so don't stay AND complain..

 

[ZoeGod]

If you want to be married and have children ANY time soon, that's your best bet. A black man wants AT LEAST 5 years. You know it! I know it sounds bad, but I see it too often. Maybe bi-racial, but grew up on his white family's side.

Now when black men say this that they have to date out to find a wife y’all get in a uproar. I don’t do gender war shyt but a lot of you sistas are not wifey material. It’s the cold hard truth. That’s just facts. Ask ya self this why so many professional black men marry out? Oh wait let me guess colorism? So many of y’all go to the club every weekend well in to your 30s cry on Ig or FB why you can’t get a good man.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

Family

Marry me

 

[Rawtid]

You’re killing me

That marriage car insurance rate is where it's at.