A. Seales:I want to be with a brotha but a lot of you would rather be by yourselves. Why not commit?

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I feel like she's talking to me, at this point I'm so comfortable with my lifestyle that its hard to make time for someone else
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That's pretty much me.
And being in this single life I've learned a lot about women and myself.
1. Most women are shallow. They lack personality.
2. Which is kind of a branch to 1: most women think that if they look good and have a p*ssy that that's enough. I been living by myself for 6+years. I can cook, i can clean, i can take care of myself. So that's not enough to say "i can do that, cuff me"
3. Every single woman says "I don't wanna play games dont waste my time, yet all them come with a monopoly game attached to them.
4. Too many single mothers

But here's the thing

I feel like a lot of women are scarred from past men. And i cant blame women for that, cause men carry that baggage too.
We get hurt from broken hearts and it takes forever for ours to heal cause we hurt hard. Cause the women who we loved and rejected us will have a hold on us for awhile.
Cause when a women can fulfill 1-4 up top then any man will be ready to beg like Boyz II Men ft Keith Sweat.
 

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This is chicks in general, not one particular race:


Y’all love [us] being in the rat race/keeping up with the Jones/worrying about everybody lane but your own/FOMO. Even though it makes yourselves miserable as well. That shyt leads to money and emotional problems.


nikkas can do chores and cook on they own now.

Maybe it’s just [smart] people are picky now and some people actually require you to stand out?

Plain Janes giving nikkas headaches not cutting it no more sis

Women gonna ignore this but brehs been saying this for a while now.

Men aint that complicated. We are quick to tell you what we see as marriage material. And if we dont see you as marriage material.... we could fukk for a decade and you'll never get a ring.

If you out here engaging in shyt that we deem as unbecoming of a wife, why would expect to get the ring?

When i was visiting my friend in Oakland, we had this long ass convo about why she couldnt get a man and how men were shyt and all that.

Eventually, i just straight up told her, "yo i wouldnt marry or date you, you stay doing shyt thst i wouldnt want my gf doing :yeshrug:"


She got offended and pointed out that i was being a hypocrite cuz i was right there with her doing the same shyt :stopitslime:


I said nope, difference is im not expecting to get married doing this shyt. Im 100% aware what i need to give up to get a wife. You over here crying about not having a man but refusing to live different :yeshrug:



I aint never heard a nikka bringing hoes back from the club crying about not being able to get married or find a good girl.

But yet i always hear women say this shyt. Why is this? Women aren't stupid, they are aware of the disconnect. They just want it all without sacrificing anything.

Not how life works unless u find a big ass simp :wow:
 

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If that's a problem it usually lies in going after the wrong men. I've seen far too often women wanting a man making great money or with a killer body but then will complain once they get with that man and it continues dedicating time to what attracted the woman in the first place.
 
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