A. Seales:I want to be with a brotha but a lot of you would rather be by yourselves. Why not commit?

[ExodusNirvana]

1. Get in the fukking gym

2. Get some hobbies other than IG or Church

3. Be fukking/sucking

4. Be able to cook

5. Have a personality


Stop listening to these broken ass celebrities and social media "influencers"...they don't know you, care about you, or live the same lifestyle as you, and chances are they are fukking damaged inside in some way that is being projected via their Instagram.

But go ahead and do your thing "Queens"

 

[Lhark]

Ain't that betta? A dry sandwich you don't want

 

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And more than likely its the women who initiated the divorce.

Their is no difference between black and white women. /or Hispanic. They all believe in the same shyt which is feminisms. The difference is with the non black women you’ll get it in the back end. With black women they’ll let you know on the front end. shyt white men are having the same problem as black men in the dating game. Black women just throw us under the bus.

I personally prefer black women, always have and always will. But I don’t knock any dude that wants to do different.

Reality women like this need to just swirl and get over with. Just do it. Contrary to their belief most black men don’t care who you date. We just hate the hypocrisy and the fact the white men y’all do end up dating don’t have to have half the shyt y’all require from us.

This is gonna be some funny shyt. White male fukkery on a whole nother level. White people don't even like themselves.

Blks have their issues but whites are legit sociopaths. There is no white answer for the white problems they literally fostered in our community.

But it's always funny to watch c00ns and c00nettes pretend like a white cryptkeeper is their salvation, especially in Trumps America.

 

[PhillyzFinest]

thanks for your post into your life, mind sharing how long yall been together/married for context?

Next March will be 14 years. Long ass story. We should have been married years ago... but it never went down. Looking back I'm HAPPY I never did.

 

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@PhillyzFinest
Keep your head up king. As a female I've been on the other side of that. Doing EVERYTHING for somebody who doesn't have the good sense to appreciate you.

It makes you look at relationships totally differently b/c it's terrifying to be trapped in that set up.

Get out as soon as possible. Be as bluntly honest as possible. You have to let her know that what she is doing is unacceptable and start planning an exit. Luckily I didn't get pregnant so no babies and I could make a clean break, but it may be a bit harder for you.

Good luck and hope you get out of that situation as soon as possible.

 

[Azul]

I grew up in the church, thought that black love was everything and was willing to do whatever it took to be loyal, faithful and the complete opposite of what women complained about.

I totally regret it.

I live with my fiance and two daughters. I pay all the bills, she's staying at home since she just had a baby a few months ago. Yesterday, I woke up at 5:30 am, shoveled the snow, took out the trash, made my breakfast and prepared food for my older daughter.

Went to work. Put in a busy 9-5 shift at my corporate job.

Came home... didn't have a lot of food in the crib. Did wifey go to the supermarket? Nope. Of course not. I went. Bought groceries. Came home. Kitchen was a mess.

Washed the dishes. Cooked some food to go with the food I cooked the night before. Ate. Took out the trash. Shoveled again. Cleaned up.

Tried to get it in with wifey. She said she's still on her period (it's been 8 straight days)

Spent time with my baby daughter. Changed her diaper and put her down.

Shower, come out and see wifey trying to get me to watch Married at First Sight and talk about it... because she's interested. Seriously.

We haven't had sex in three months.

#GMB for life

She goes to sleep. I'm just watching ebonyhead Pornhub videos and NBA highlights.

Why am I saying all this?

I'm miserable. This get married shyt is for the birds. It's nothing but hard work, commitment, discipline, sacrifice and communicating a bunch of shyt you shouldn't have to. Did I mention we have a counseling session coming up?

For all the single brehs out there... do not be like me.

fukk what they say and how they cryin about shyt. Y'all are ahead of your time. Travel, see the world, eat exotic foods, have positive arrangements with women that get your lifestyle and make money brehs.

Unless you find a consistent, hard working woman who takes initiative to work hard for you and put effort into YOU... don't EVER commit.

Should have chose a better woman

But seriously, if you go through with the marriage, you're in for a life of misery. Don't cheat, just bush her. You just gotta be prepared for the child support

I've had opportunities for marriage but I knew in my heart it wasn't going to work. I see people I went to school with going through divorces/struggling to stay married n' shyt not worth it.

 

[Standing on business]

I grew up in the church, thought that black love was everything and was willing to do whatever it took to be loyal, faithful and the complete opposite of what women complained about.

I totally regret it.

I live with my fiance and two daughters. I pay all the bills, she's staying at home since she just had a baby a few months ago. Yesterday, I woke up at 5:30 am, shoveled the snow, took out the trash, made my breakfast and prepared food for my older daughter.

Went to work. Put in a busy 9-5 shift at my corporate job.

Came home... didn't have a lot of food in the crib. Did wifey go to the supermarket? Nope. Of course not. I went. Bought groceries. Came home. Kitchen was a mess.

Washed the dishes. Cooked some food to go with the food I cooked the night before. Ate. Took out the trash. Shoveled again. Cleaned up.

Tried to get it in with wifey. She said she's still on her period (it's been 8 straight days)

Spent time with my baby daughter. Changed her diaper and put her down.

Shower, come out and see wifey trying to get me to watch Married at First Sight and talk about it... because she's interested. Seriously.

We haven't had sex in three months.

#GMB for life

She goes to sleep. I'm just watching ebonyhead Pornhub videos and NBA highlights.

Why am I saying all this?

I'm miserable. This get married shyt is for the birds. It's nothing but hard work, commitment, discipline, sacrifice and communicating a bunch of shyt you shouldn't have to. Did I mention we have a counseling session coming up?

For all the single brehs out there... do not be like me.

fukk what they say and how they cryin about shyt. Y'all are ahead of your time. Travel, see the world, eat exotic foods, have positive arrangements with women that get your lifestyle and make money brehs.

Unless you find a consistent, hard working woman who takes initiative to work hard for you and put effort into YOU... don't EVER commit.

In her defense she did just have a baby a couple of months ago, sometimes us men can take for granted the stress and emotion placed on the women during pregnancy and postpartum. How was she before the pregnancy and birth?

 

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In her defense she did just have a baby a couple of months ago, sometimes us men can take for granted the stress and emotion placed on the women during pregnancy and postpartum. How was she before the pregnancy and birth?

I dunno. I've never had a child before and every woman is different.
But...
BUT...

She a stay at home wife. I've been hearing too many stories like this lately. My mom was a stay at home wife and she loved it.

But I've NEVER came home from school to a dirty home. She cooked every meal. Yard of the fukking month. That's part of the reason I'm so neurotic about cleanliness. My earliest memories were coming home off the bus to a home that smelled like poppouri and lemony Pledge.

But I have some male friends with wives and I don't even eat at their cribs b/c they so nasty. Diapers piled up. Dirty dishes. Drawers stuffed with shyt...
I can't. And they don't work. And some got their kids in daycare?!
Some of these bytches sorry. I thot this was just a white woman thing b/c all the white male professors be divorced like a motherfukker complaining about shyt like this. Blk chicks do NOT need to hop on this wave.

I'm dating a dude who basically had the EXACT same story about his ex-wife as @PhillyzFinest and I'm sitting there thinking "Nah...you had to do something wrong my guy..."

But sometimes you just meet some sorry ass bytches who wanna stay at home to eat Cheetos and watch Bravo.

 

[GoAggieGo.]

So many factors that point to the ENDGAME for the culture.

People too comfortable with their own company.

Others carry the past pains/pains of others which causes the fear of opening up to someone / being in a realtionship.

Social Media age projecting false narritives.

The mentality that there is always better out there.

Placing yourself too high on a pedistal.

Lack of sensible compromise.

The multi date culture.

People not realising that time and youth is not as long as they think.

People mistreating relationships like job interviews.

Too much overthinking and to little enjoying the company.

Listening to people on the outside who know no better.

Sad post, but it’s looking truer as each day passes.

My dad used to tell my sister and I each day that knowledge was power, and the more you know, the more you grow. At some point I think you can have too much, and we’re there now.

Intelligence and technology; I had an OG who used to tell me that these two things would be the downfall. He’s probably right.

 

[BigMan]

Sobering ass thread the day before Valentine’s Day

 

[CarmelBarbie]

1. Get in the fukking gym

2. Get some hobbies other than IG or Church

3. Be fukking/sucking

4. Be able to cook

5. Have a personality


Stop listening to these broken ass celebrities and social media "influencers"...they don't know you, care about you, or live the same lifestyle as you, and chances are they are fukking damaged inside in some way that is being projected via their Instagram.

But go ahead and do you thing "Queens"

That's all you require? This list is simple--but real, if a woman can't do those 5 basic things, then yes whoever gets with said woman has lawst.

 

[BigMan]

That's all you require? This list is simple--but real, if a woman can't do those 5 basic things, then yes whoever gets with said woman has lawst.

A lot, maybe most women don’t have 2 and 4

 

[MajorVitaman]

Also take note & read between the lines

Women who talk like this are certified side chick material.

This the kind of thing I mean when I say women snitch on their body count and don't even know it. Only women who say comments like this have been ran through by at least 20 brehs

 

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That's all you require? This list is simple--but real, if a woman can't do those 5 basic things, then yes whoever gets with said woman has lawst.

Where some women get jaded is when they do all of these things and more and still get shytted on. Which does happen.
Some men love saying they basic and simple but can be just as fickle as a bytch. A chick can be all of that and a dude can get bored and still want different p*ssy.

It's all a mixed bag these days. Dating can be hard.

 

[Critical Distance]

We constantly tell brehs to seek guidance and mentorship of those who have success in relationships, it should only be the same for brehettes.

Make that thread.