A. Seales:I want to be with a brotha but a lot of you would rather be by yourselves. Why not commit?

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Because that's been proving to take yall forever and women don't want to wait for that. Plus it doesn't make sense to do it alone. :manny: No one gets shames for marrying, period, but most white people aren't doing what you're describing in the bold, stop it. They are typically on their second marriage in their 40's.
Give some examples then

Because people like George Clooney, Leo DiCaprio, Tobey Maguire and Jack Nicholson are thirsted after by females of all races

Yall even give Drake a pass

But in the same breath call black men "immature" for doing the same thing
 

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Well of course it is. Didn't someone here also point out that black men caused global warming? I think that is a real issue that needs to be discussed before we destroy the planet.

Well I'll take full responsibility for global warming :francis:

The older my black ass get the hotter and sexier I get. Which puts all these womens in heat. So get your rainboots and snow hats cause I'm only getting hotter :mjlit:
 

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To the brehs giving counter points in here...

Are the women that are quality dating material that y'all know in long term committed relationships?

:jbhmm:
 

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Look at the heat some black men who say they date out or marrying out because “black women are this that and the third.” They say they are black women bashing, c00ns, sellouts, fell for colorism etc. However when it’s black women complaining about dating black men it’s all gravy. It’s never the women’s fault why she single at 39. It’s nikkas fault l, they won’t commit, they players, they after other race of women etc. This a double standard at play here. Black men are not supposed to critique black women concerning the dating game. If you try to hold black women accountable you get call a black woman basher, c00n, not all black women are like that, you just want to date out. However black women can openly critique black men when it comes to dating. shyt is absurd.


Truth, and I love black women the best. All these broads,want is some man to be on some Boris Kodjoe type of man that cleans up her mess and clean up her past. What makes HER so entitled to be with a top notch dude? Cause of her looks? :childplease:

Expect the average man to be Tupac in a Business suit, but her funky bougie ass cant cook a meal or cater to a man. :hhh:

She a jumpoff to most dudes. Nothing but feminist propaganda.
 

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You clowns do understand that the more you post her shyts the more popular you're making her, right?:gucci:

My father always told me "the absolute worst thing you can do to someone is ignore/not acknowledge them".
I didnt know who she was until you clowns started posting her shyts every other day on the forum.
I'd smash in a heartbeat, tho :shaq:
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Hell if the smash is good i might even wife her :ehh:
But you quoted it :lolbron:
 

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I grew up in the church, thought that black love was everything and was willing to do whatever it took to be loyal, faithful and the complete opposite of what women complained about.

I totally regret it. :snoop:

I live with my fiance and two daughters. I pay all the bills, she's staying at home since she just had a baby a few months ago. Yesterday, I woke up at 5:30 am, shoveled the snow, took out the trash, made my breakfast and prepared food for my older daughter.

Went to work. Put in a busy 9-5 shift at my corporate job.

Came home... didn't have a lot of food in the crib. Did wifey go to the supermarket? Nope. Of course not. I went. Bought groceries. Came home. Kitchen was a mess.

Washed the dishes. Cooked some food to go with the food I cooked the night before. Ate. Took out the trash. Shoveled again. Cleaned up.

Tried to get it in with wifey. She said she's still on her period (it's been 8 straight days) :comeon:

Spent time with my baby daughter. Changed her diaper and put her down.

Shower, come out and see wifey trying to get me to watch Married at First Sight and talk about it... because she's interested. Seriously. :what:

We haven't had sex in three months. :beli:

#GMB for life :wow:

She goes to sleep. I'm just watching ebonyhead Pornhub videos and NBA highlights.

Why am I saying all this?

I'm miserable. This get married shyt is for the birds. It's nothing but hard work, commitment, discipline, sacrifice and communicating a bunch of shyt you shouldn't have to. Did I mention we have a counseling session coming up? :mjcry:

For all the single brehs out there... do not be like me.

fukk what they say and how they cryin about shyt. Y'all are ahead of your time. Travel, see the world, eat exotic foods, have positive arrangements with women that get your lifestyle and make money brehs.

Unless you find a consistent, hard working woman who takes initiative to work hard for you and put effort into YOU... don't EVER commit.
 

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I grew up in the church, thought that black love was everything and was willing to do whatever it took to be loyal, faithful and the complete opposite of what women complained about.

I totally regret it. :snoop:

I live with my fiance and two daughters. I pay all the bills, she's staying at home since she just had a baby a few months ago. Yesterday, I woke up at 5:30 am, shoveled the snow, took out the trash, made my breakfast and prepared food for my older daughter.

Went to work. Put in a busy 9-5 shift at my corporate job.

Came home... didn't have a lot of food in the crib. Did wifey go to the supermarket? Nope. Of course not. I went. Bought groceries. Came home. Kitchen was a mess.

Washed the dishes. Cooked some food to go with the food I cooked the night before. Ate. Took out the trash. Shoveled again. Cleaned up.

Tried to get it in with wifey. She said she's still on her period (it's been 8 straight days) :comeon:

Spent time with my baby daughter. Changed her diaper and put her down.

Shower, come out and see wifey trying to get me to watch Married at First Sight and talk about it... because she's interested. Seriously. :what:

We haven't had sex in three months. :beli:

#GMB for life :wow:

She goes to sleep. I'm just watching ebonyhead Pornhub videos and NBA highlights.

Why am I saying all this?

I'm miserable. This get married shyt is for the birds. It's nothing but hard work, commitment, discipline, sacrifice and communicating a bunch of shyt you shouldn't have to. Did I mention we have a counseling session coming up? :mjcry:

For all the single brehs out there... do not be like me.

fukk what they say and how they cryin about shyt. Y'all are ahead of your time. Travel, see the world, eat exotic foods, have positive arrangements with women that get your lifestyle and make money brehs.

Unless you find a consistent, hard working woman who takes initiative to work hard for you and put effort into YOU... don't EVER commit.
:therethere:This is how I feel about having children and getting married too. And I'm a woman...:ninja2:
 

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I grew up in the church, thought that black love was everything and was willing to do whatever it took to be loyal, faithful and the complete opposite of what women complained about.

I totally regret it. :snoop:

I live with my fiance and two daughters. I pay all the bills, she's staying at home since she just had a baby a few months ago. Yesterday, I woke up at 5:30 am, shoveled the snow, took out the trash, made my breakfast and prepared food for my older daughter.

Went to work. Put in a busy 9-5 shift at my corporate job.

Came home... didn't have a lot of food in the crib. Did wifey go to the supermarket? Nope. Of course not. I went. Bought groceries. Came home. Kitchen was a mess.

Washed the dishes. Cooked some food to go with the food I cooked the night before. Ate. Took out the trash. Shoveled again. Cleaned up.

Tried to get it in with wifey. She said she's still on her period (it's been 8 straight days) :comeon:

Spent time with my baby daughter. Changed her diaper and put her down.

Shower, come out and see wifey trying to get me to watch Married at First Sight and talk about it... because she's interested. Seriously. :what:

We haven't had sex in three months. :beli:

#GMB for life :wow:

She goes to sleep. I'm just watching ebonyhead Pornhub videos and NBA highlights.

Why am I saying all this?

I'm miserable. This get married shyt is for the birds. It's nothing but hard work, commitment, discipline, sacrifice and communicating a bunch of shyt you shouldn't have to. Did I mention we have a counseling session coming up? :mjcry:

For all the single brehs out there... do not be like me.

fukk what they say and how they cryin about shyt. Y'all are ahead of your time. Travel, see the world, eat exotic foods, have positive arrangements with women that get your lifestyle and make money brehs.

Unless you find a consistent, hard working woman who takes initiative to work hard for you and put effort into YOU... don't EVER commit.
i'm sorry breh

how long before she divorces you you think?
 

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So many factors that point to the ENDGAME for the culture.

People too comfortable with their own company.

Others carry the past pains/pains of others which causes the fear of opening up to someone / being in a realtionship.

Social Media age projecting false narritives.

The mentality that there is always better out there.

Placing yourself too high on a pedistal.

Lack of sensible compromise.

The multi date culture.

People not realising that time and youth is not as long as they think.

People mistreating relationships like job interviews.

Too much overthinking and to little enjoying the company.

Listening to people on the outside who know no better.
 
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I grew up in the church, thought that black love was everything and was willing to do whatever it took to be loyal, faithful and the complete opposite of what women complained about.

I totally regret it. :snoop:

I live with my fiance and two daughters. I pay all the bills, she's staying at home since she just had a baby a few months ago. Yesterday, I woke up at 5:30 am, shoveled the snow, took out the trash, made my breakfast and prepared food for my older daughter.

Went to work. Put in a busy 9-5 shift at my corporate job.

Came home... didn't have a lot of food in the crib. Did wifey go to the supermarket? Nope. Of course not. I went. Bought groceries. Came home. Kitchen was a mess.

Washed the dishes. Cooked some food to go with the food I cooked the night before. Ate. Took out the trash. Shoveled again. Cleaned up.

Tried to get it in with wifey. She said she's still on her period (it's been 8 straight days) :comeon:

Spent time with my baby daughter. Changed her diaper and put her down.

Shower, come out and see wifey trying to get me to watch Married at First Sight and talk about it... because she's interested. Seriously. :what:

We haven't had sex in three months. :beli:

#GMB for life :wow:

She goes to sleep. I'm just watching ebonyhead Pornhub videos and NBA highlights.

Why am I saying all this?

I'm miserable. This get married shyt is for the birds. It's nothing but hard work, commitment, discipline, sacrifice and communicating a bunch of shyt you shouldn't have to. Did I mention we have a counseling session coming up? :mjcry:

For all the single brehs out there... do not be like me.

fukk what they say and how they cryin about shyt. Y'all are ahead of your time. Travel, see the world, eat exotic foods, have positive arrangements with women that get your lifestyle and make money brehs.

Unless you find a consistent, hard working woman who takes initiative to work hard for you and put effort into YOU... don't EVER commit.
Woof
 

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You mean before I divorce her?

This relationship won’t make it to the summer. I’m already setting up side pieces on Tinder... never thought I’d be that guy :to: but fukk it three months is fukkin ridiculous :birdman:
Statistically speaking she’ll divorce you first but good luck breh

I pray to god I don’t end up like you
 
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