I like her but she confuses me so much.
Wasn't she just on The Breakfast Club talking about how she doesn't want a man and is too focused on her career picking up? This tells me that is bs but in the back of all our minds we know that there is nothing most women want more than a man who can sweep them off their feet and this confirms that. They wake up dreaming of that shyt at times and go to bed dreaming about it, yet you rather chase nikkas who do not really want you and toss away the nikkas that do.
You can be a feminist and still promote healthy women, men, and relationships. Sure they are a lot of ain't shyt dudes out there, but stop acting like good men do not exist. You attract what you are. The greatest gift guys can learn is accountability and self-respect. With both of these things, no woman can ruin you or your life. Guys should behave like they are the catch good dudes are fukking hard to find now and women nowadays are fueling their tanks on social media which can have your running on poison. Maybe Seals should look at herself and see why this is happening instead of this over indulgence in self-love or "loving yourself" that has women thinking they can do no wrong.
Nothing more disgusting than seeing a guy come clean about their wrongs in a relationship while women act like there aren't things they couldn't do better.
The thing with this is that even though a fact I do believe that it also is a cop out.
It is an easy thing to say to cover up the fact that there is the fear of relationships as they may have not gone as expected.
A career can go up and down like a relationship but you are not going to back out from that as that not only can give you confidence but can also cover up a facade of the vulnerability and the pains.
But people do not want to concentrate on analyzing and fixing themselves internally because people value the exterior and status over character. And the only way some believe to be an equal is to be on the same level.
There is no such thing as a equal and some people don't get that. You feed of each others differences to help make you a better person
People find it hard to understand that you can have both.
Your career/occupation should not be your whole life.
Focusing on nothing but that and competing with the Joneses is why so many people are mentally tired, suffer depression and get in financial trouble which is similar to being in a relationship for some people.
However if you have a partner who is supportive and that you can share your achievements with and not even that but be an outlet to take your mind away from the stresses of a Career to the point that you don't even need to talk to them about it will give people a clearer piece of mind. A partner should be an outlet from a Career not part of it.
Problem is for some people they do not understand what life is supposed to be and would rather survive than live.
It all comes down to looking at the true reality of life which many people out there fail to do.
And plus what I have learned with social media is that people with esteem and relationship issues have the power to brainwash the vulnerable to help feed on their own faults and vulnerabilities to try and numb the pain that deep down they themselves carry.
But real shyt no matter how much you put on a front that pain will cut deep no matter how hard they try to hide it.
Nobody wants to be in the over 40's clubs just looking to settle with anything knowing that the playboy / sex in the city lifestyle was not all it was made to be.
My thing is this. It is better to be by yourself rather than fake a relationship and waste someones time and emotions. But also don't fake the fact that you want to be loved and that you have made mistakes that you regret.
And if you want someone, let them know you want them.
