A woman that rejected me 12 years ago seems to now be interested in dating me, is this something I should pursue?

Uachet

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I had this happen once, when I returned home after college. Though I never asked the woman out, she was the sister of one of my friends.

She asked me when was I going to take her out? Mind you she has two children by two different fathers and one was in prison. :beli: I just looked at her and resumed my question of where was her brother.

Later, she saw my new car, asked how much I pay a month for it, and then proceeded to state I could not afford to take her out after receiving my answer. Joke was on her though. My car payment was less than 1/5th my half-month pay at the time. I burst out laughing when she said that, as I climbed into my car.
 

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dikk her down and delete her number or leave her alone and keep it moving. I’ll leave that choice up to you
 

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What's wrong with smashing and degrading her and stringing her along so that whatever remaining fertility she has gets wasted on a dead end relationship?

dikk her down and delete her number or leave her alone and keep it moving. I’ll leave that choice up to you

Ain't going to lie I am petty and did it twice and have no regrets...sorry not sorry.

 

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Lol I had this happen, went on a date with a chick. She told me she's didn't feel a connection but wanted to be 'friends' told her all good. And kept it moving. 6 months later she pops up out of the blue. Telling me she was thinking of me.

Basically the chick is depressed and wants a "nice guy" to make her feel something.

Save your time and energy and keep it moving.

She’s now a single mother of two. And that’s fine. But why now? Why reach out after so long?

Fine for who? Imagine being down this badly that you’re even considering this nonsense. Buddy obviously gets no female attention. A woman with not one but 2 kids?

:mjlol:

Way too many guys are down bad out here. No options, no game, just taking anything that passes.

If a single mother is your first choice of mate you need to be asking yourself some hard questions.
 
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